How many "dates" would you go on before you would want a relationship commitment? (Page 2)

[Pejtu]

before i was with my girlfriend officially we had 2 dates if u can use terms like date
we are together for 3 months

[PrincessPie]

Time is more of a factor than dates for me, plus if there is a connection i'd rather sooner than later.

[pumaOH24]

I would think after 3-5 dates that you could tell if thing were heading towards a serious relationship and if you were compatible.

[Anonymous]

It's not about how many dates, it's about how you met & how it's done. my boyfriend and I began our relationship on the night of our first ever date. But we were already just friends for a month or so. So it was great and comfortable.

[dipta]

That would depend on how long we had known each other prior to starting dating.

[dipta]

Assuming a date didn't just come up out of nowhere, I think around 3 dates.

[rjroy3]

At this stage in my life, I'm not confident I'd get into a 100% monogamous relationship any time soon.

[Anonymous]

Always thought this topic was pretty stupid.
I would only ask the girl or say yes to her, if I actually wanted a future relationship with her.
People act like they are test driving a car.

[melanieeeB]

Depends totally on the vibe, the personalities and feelings

[Twizzlee]

Date 3-10 depending on how I feel towards them and how spaced apart the dates are

[GoodGuy131]

Would You need more or less if the dates are spaced apart?

[Twizzlee]

@GoodGuy131 less as long as we are texting and stuff while we arnt on a date

[GoodGuy131]

Oh, thanks

[Sociopathvictim]

texting in my opinion is not the way to establish relationships and really confidence comes you can talk to each other face to face about issues instead of hiding behind a screen, if you miss him invite him out, if he misses you he invites you out. If a girl expects a guy to text her a lot, its a red flag in my books, its coming across needy and i only answer my phone at set times given that i have a busy life. It is a fact that guys who text girls a lot are giving off vibes that they have no life, please dont encourage this or you'll get the wrong idea. Also if my phone has an explosion of messages, i will sigh and be mad. The only person allowed to be this special is my mother, no one else.

[sp33d]

To me, it's not a matter of 'how many dates it takes'. Such a decision would take months for me to sink in. Besides, I don't date with the ironclad intention of commitment (think about this for a bit).

[Northern_star]

its fascinating and bizarre on the same hand that people nowadays dont have a default setting of seeing one person exclusively at a time and wait for what happens..

[SGL69]

The way I am myself if the date went well on the first date I wouldn't date anyone else. I'd already be committed myself. That's just me.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think the number of dates matter but time does. For me it’s more about months. Maybe two months of dating and getting to know someone.

[BigRob420]

I don't count dates. Usually they just ask me after our first sexual experience together.

[chrisbigman]

It depends on the two people, but to be "official" I would say after about 10 dates would we announce.

[TheBestUsername]

It seems like a lot of G@Gers (such as in this question) make a lot of unrealistic assumptions about relationships.

[es20490446e]

I expect to be exclusive from date two. I don't want to date with people seeing other people.

[mishmishayezie]

I would wait for at least 1 month and then talk about if we want to be exclusive

[TheRealQuestion]

If I go on a date with a girl, I won't be dating anyine else at the same time, they get all of my attention.

Unless otherwise discussed.

[DamnMan]

I don't think I care about the dates.
Only, if they come over sometimes.