Should a woman stay single if she doesn't have a car/drivers licence?

[Anonymous]

I get asked out a lot. Not every day but a few times a week for sure. But despite that i have been single for 4 years. I would say one of my top reasons is because i dont have a car or know how to drive. Fear used to be the main reason i never got my licence, then procrastination, and eventually a lack of savings became the primary reason. I have been just barely scraping by lately because catching covid put me out of work for almost 2 weeks which, to my surprise was a way bigger hit to my pockets than i expected. I got behind on some bills and slowly started to inch my way closer to being financially in a place where I don't have to struggle but its been hard because i do everything on my own. Being a bit behind doesn't exactly make me feel inadequate as it could happen to anybody. But still. not having a car at my big age of 24 has been making me feel worse as i get older. So. even though i have a lot of date offers i constantly reject. Being single also didn't used to bother mw but lately im pretty lonely

[ohshee]

Hey hey hey hold on take a breath. It's all ok.
So now that you have sent all the above wipe your slate clean
Now ask yourself how bad do I want a car how bad do I want a boyfriend can I have both and the job and everything else in life well hell yes you can all you have to do is accept that
So what you need to do is you need to find the guy a boyfriend that's the first thing you need I can feel that coming from you so bad you need to be held you need to be touched you need you need some Lovin girl I can feel you I can hear it in your voice lol

So in life you really don't need anything to be happy that all comes from the inside of you
What do you need for a car you need each other and you need to be able to afford it best way to go about that is a used car pay cash for it make sure somebody looks over first so you buy a good car there's thousands of them out there

Okay and so what do you need for a boyfriend you just need you and happiness did he can see coming from you so

Try not to bundle everything work at so you can do all the above but you need to make it flow you need to make it work you don't need to be panicked about it need to relax take a deep breath I know for a fact you can do this Houston everything that you wrote that determination that desire the only way you're going to make it work is put one foot in front of the other and don't stop until you have what you want
You kind of lucky that I don't live by you LOL because I would be sending you a message okay when do you want start learning how to drive

[Anonymous]

Honestly, you get a pass on this because of your female privilege.

No guy would think you’re some loser for not having a license and a car, but a woman probably would. A guy would look at picking you up and dropping you off as no big deal.

[Honesttguy]

As a guy i really don't care much for your drivers license. I think more about how she looks naked and what can she do in bed

[exitseven]

Lots of people do not have drivers licenses especially if you live in the city. It is nothing to be embarrassed about and it would not make any difference to somebody that wants to date you.

[Berethor]

Male gold diggers are not as common as female gold diggers.

[MysteriousDarkness]

I have only had a vehicle for the past 5 months of my 8½ year relationship with my girlfriend so it is possible to be in a relationship with no vehicle.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't care about cars, it has no impact on who I pick.

[Gingerguy33]

You shouldn’t let something like that hold you back for that long get yourself out there again

[Iron_Man]

No she doesn’t have to but it’s good that she gets these things

[Anonymous]

Why reject if you're lonely? Most men aren't materialistic so you don't need a car or mansion to impress them. Just be yourself you're always getting asked out anyways so you should be happy

[Zolly99999]

No that should have nothing to do with it.. car or no car...

[Astarlessnightsky]

No, unless you want to marry your car.

[Abdulwahh]

No lol