It's funny how I think exactly the same thing about women and decide I should just be asexual and give up all romantic attempts to begin with (and mostly have).
And as ArrowheadSW said, f you're Muslim or surrounded by Muslim men, then there's your answer right there. They are literally the worst men to be pursuing love and romance from, on the entire planet. Just like feminists are the worst women on the planet. (Ironic how both hate the opposite gender, yet feminists are super-supportive of such a misogynistic ideology like Islam. Not really "ironic" as much as, "we both need each other to spread our hatred and violence across Western society.")
Honestly, if you're at least feminine looking and know how to shave and have decent hygiene, you should just move to the West, like the southern US, or Canada, and you'll have a far better time. The West is a paradise for women right now. Not so much most men...
I know that feeling. I was at a point where it was hard to meet a women who just wanted me instead of ignoring me only using me for my money or family connections. But forgetting about it and focusing on my hobbies actually helped me end up in the amazing relationship I have right now. Pretending to be poor helped me so if a guy only wants you for your rich famous dad or something, then don't reveal it and just pretend to be a normal person
Don't actively seek relationships or force them to happen. Just focus on yourself and do things you like with good people. It's nice when people come along while you do something you enjoy because you're in a more comfortable setting. Also don't say things like "all men" in public because that just makes you looks sexist/racist/crazy to people in general and might ruin your chances even with lesbians
This sounds very very counter-intuitive, but I am also pretty disappointed with the male species very often and the thing that actually started to make me appreciate and love men more was to mercilessly cut off every male from my life who is not good for me. You will see men constantly whining that women should just give the nice guy a chance and if we're too picky we will never get a good man. But no. You do the opposite. I blocked/removed everyone that I deemed not good for me anymore. I only keep around the ones that make me happy and I have to say that since then I've only been around wonderful men. Plus I'm not wasting any time or energy around the men that drained me.
Be picky, you will only end up with the good ones.
You can’t just turn into a lesbian lol. But sure, go ahead. Bisexual and lesbian women can also make you lose faith in women and relationships and general. They can also hurt you just as much as men. They are no different.
You’re young, give it some time.
What’s the point in being in a relationship if you’re not attracted to them? Friends can hurt you just the same too.
@reemaa Have you ever stopped to examine your roll in these failed relationships?
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Lesbian women are just as capable of hurting you, because these are still relationships, hearts and feelings. If you’re tired of getting hurt, maybe you should be single for a while and focus on healing from those situations. The right person will enter your life when it’s the right time, and maybe right now just isn’t it.
If you are "straight", why would you take up with women? That makes no sense and you would be intentionally playing with the emotions of these lesbian women, which is not right. Why don't you invest in some sex toys and some romance novels until you decide to give men a try again? I don't care if all men die-off, I am not messing around with other women. Satan is afoot and the world is circling the drain. Y'all need to pump the brakes on the amoral, Godless behaviors, cravings, and distractions, in my opinion.
Ask yourself this: why do you need a man or a woman in life?
At this stage, you are considering that a relationship is an essential thing, my question is, why do you think it's essential? What does it offer you which nothing can?
As for "losing trust in men", there is no solution to bad luck. You may need to do some retrospection as to what kind of partners have you chosen and were they at fault OR you experienced what you experienced because of what you are (basically, are the men a problem or you are?)
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Things get stressful in dating life and depending on who you are and where you live and where you're looking for love you might find it very difficult and you might go through a lot more relationships then you want to and it gets very stressful and through it all sometimes you get a bit lost and things feel hopeless and sometimes you get to the point where you almost don't want a relationship at all anymore and you just kind of want to be on your own and I get that but the trick is to just relax don't force anything don't gun for a relationship and just instead go about life and if the opportunity comes take it but seeking a relationship just causes more stress so I don't recommend it
I wish you the best and hope you find success in your future endeavors and I cannot apologize on the behalf of others so instead I shall give you my condolences I believe that's the right word
No God intended marriage to be between one man and one woman. The fact that you haven’t found one doesn’t mean it isn’t out there. Good man still exist. Pray about it. Sometimes God does not give us what we think we want because we aren’t ready to receive it. Sometimes we need to work in ourselves a lot more than we think. Think positive, be happy being alone and watch that radiates people to come to you
I mean, you'd probably end up around like minded people tbh. I feel like this is why a lot of women go gay.
My ex's sister and her girlfriend always used to talk about how much they hate men but they'd try to act like they can't tell everyone can hear them. Like they wanted us to think it was a private conversation but they would talk loud af.
I thought it was adorable
that depends on what you want out of sex, you can take what a lot of men do, just meet girls for sex and then depart from them, you can have sex with out getting attached then have a girl for company and sex if you want
No, you shouldn’t. I mean you go do whatever you want to do, I guess.
I’ve also given up all faith in women. This doesn’t mean I suddenly have an interest in men, as if there are only two options. I remain just as attracted to women as I ever was, and I may even be willing to date again, provided a really wonderful woman just fell out of the sky and hit on me. But that isn’t going to happen. I’m not that fortunate.
Chasing women and dating, being in relationships, putting up with the sacrifices, not to mention their bullshit, it just hasn’t been terribly rewarding thus far. If anything my relationships with women have cost me more than they have given.
But I’m not going to start sleeping with the opposite sex. Maybe you’re just the kind of person that “has” to be in a relationship.
Nice update, it's ironic how you call men dumb creatures when your comment doesn't even make any logical sense, how does it make us dumb for not wanting a man hating bitch to get with us? It's jus common sense, you dumb bitch females jus think with your emotions instead of your brain.
Also your update jus proves you're a man hating bitch, so it's no surprise no guys like you... No guys like man hating bitches.. we like nice girls... So it's better with you off the market.. become a lesbian already wtf are you waiting for you stupid bitch?
Obviously seeking some sort attention or sympathy, f off, become a lesbian already jeez
Sorry, you can't turn lesbianism on or off based upon guy's stupidity. Fortunately for you, there are lots of us to choose from. Keep trying. Keep a positive attitude. You'll eventually find the right guy.
Worth stating. All relationships fail for various reasons with various outcomes. That is until you get to the last one. That's the one that works and you marry him.
Good luck!
I'm afraid relationships can hurt all kinds of people. Lesbians and straights and bi people alike.
I am sorry you have suffered heartache. I would recommend only trying women if you are actually attracted to them. It seems like you aren't. Am I wrong about that?
I know many very bad women but I don't just into relationships with them. If you are only dating bad men, the problem is you, not them.
I have seen this problem with girlfriends. The guy they are always interested in are always from richer backgrounds and slightly older, tattooed, roam around roads on bikes all day, and already talk to multiple girls. After dating this guy and dumped they wonder what went wrong, anyone with decent intelligence can tell that those guys are not long-term relationship material.
you can’t generalise all men based on the few bad experiences you’ve had with them
I know those experiences probably sucked really bad, but try to keep and open mind and be more selective
if you really don’t want to date men anymore then go ahead and explore with girls and see how you feel about it. who know, you might enjoy it more than you think you would
goodluck!
You gotta be what you want.
You want trust? Be trustworthy.
You want loyalty be loyal.
You want love then give love.
You want respect give respect.
If no one gives you what you give them you have your answer.
And if your falling short? You have your answer.
This.
It's not easy finding someone, period. For most people. I've "lost faith" in women also. I do think however maybe "taking a break", and focusing on your career is a good idea. But "lesbian" isn't the answer I don't think if you're not naturally attracted to women. And then you'd just be playing a "game" for selfish reasons, and potentially hurting someone else, for nothing when it's ultimately going to end anyway you know?
if you're not attracted to females, don't date them. you're clearly straight from your description, so i'd just stick to that. plus it's not like women are going to be much different for the most part.
Women seem kinder in relationships even though they can be just as insane as men.
If you do have an attraction to women, perhaps explore it.
People are people. A woman will do you wrong, abuse you, gaslight you, every vile thing a horrible man will do. It's really all about the power dynamic in a particular relationship. Show a weakness, and a bad partner will use it against you.
Maybe a traditional romantic relationship isn't in the cards for you right now. But you could still get your needs met while you focus on your career by having a friends with benefits.
If every relationship you have with a man is failing chances are it’s not the men that are the problem.
you can blame men because that’s what the majority of women do but in all fairness you should probably look at the expectations you have and ask yourself if you’re being on reasonable
Well technically if YOU keep falling for old or married men, then YOU are kind of the problem.
Stop going for old / married men
Like unless you're attracted to women I think you would have it hard trying to be in a lesbian relationship
So for now focus on yourself and sometime you'll meet a good guy
Focus on life. Life is so much more than a relationship. Live life and enjoy it, the relationship will come. When you focus on a relationship you miss out on life as it passes you by.
You can try and be bicurious. For a while, you can be flexible and go on dates with women. It may work out. As a bisexual person, I can't agree more with you!
If you've always been attracted to men, I'm not sure why you'd consider being a lesbian.
@reemaa Oh that is funny. I know a lady named Reema who is from Jordan also. Coincidence.
California.
Sometimes it takes time. There are good ones out there. Don’t give up!
honey u only can be lesbian if u have it really in you
some failed relationships do not really mean that u lose interest in men honey
No, if only it were that simple, lol, just kidding, I know none of this is simple.
I'm sorry Men make you feel so bad, I wish you the best on this matter in what you decide trust me, not all Men are the same way
There will be a nice guy out there for you. Just takes time. Only you will know if you are a lesbian
As if changing your sexuality is a choice. Maybe you always had been a lesbian if you feel that way. And you sure it's not your fault? Perhaps that's why your relationship had failed.
It's not a dumb question, but if you are not attracted to women you can't change your sexual orientation. You may still get pleasure from being with women.
Why not just stick to short-term hookups, that way you don't have to worry about the quality of the guy because you'll soon be on to the next one.
Keep taking all the baggage from your failed relationships and putting your ex’s traits onto any new man you meet, that’s SURE to help the situation!
you can't just suddenly pretend to be a lesbian if you've liked men all your life.
…. you can't just change your sexuality... you can't just change who you are sexually attracted to.
I think we will see a huge rise of bi-sexual women as women have destroyed a couple generations of men.
You Don’t Just Become a lesbian. You ether is or Your not. It’s not like switch. And women can be just as bad.
There's always somebody out there. Just need to be patient.
Yes please do, so you stop bothering men with your man hating toxicity
You can't just change your sexual orientation, but if you're into girls anyway, go for it. Why not.
Yes, please do. Then you'll know what it's like for men. 😊
I have never heard of someone TRYING to be a lesbian before. Either you are or you are not and being bi is not being a lesbian.
if u decide to make the switch just make sure to buy a subaru and start wearing birkenstock’s
Good luck with that I guess. I always thought that being a lesbian was something you're born with but ok.
Just because a girl cheats on me, I don't turn gay. But if that's what happens to you, no one can blame you.
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If you are a lesbian, you were born as one
What do you do for a living?
Fair.
This is the problem
if you feel more lesbian then your born a lesbian
Thats not how it works
I wouldn’t do that if I were you
Do whatever you want.
Women can also hurt you, not only men.
Sure, give it a shot and see how you feel.
Women are never happy.
Perhaps you just choose the wrong men?
Stay single rather than that.
How many times have you been lied to child?
It’s your choice my friend
Not every men or women are same...
Just stop trying
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