Had a great first date and weekend (her words)? Had a second date and planned a third but she’s taken nearly 2 days to reply to a message?

[Adz8999]

So any advice would be great here. Had a great weekend with a girl I met online. Following first date next day we did sleep together. I arranged another date few days later to go get some food. She said really enjoyed that and couldn’t wait for the next date so I told her I would arrange something for following weekend which she agreed

However, I’ve noticed a small change in the length of time it takes for her to reply to a message. I mean we both have busy jobs so I know we aren’t on phones 24/7.
she went away for 2 days on with business and she messaged me on first day saying it’s been non stop etc and she was going to have food and some drinks to chill. I did reply but I’ve not heard from her in almost 2 days.

Should I be concerned here or am I over thinking things?
I mean I know it’s a relatively new busy job for her but surely no contact while away is slightly odd.
And I have not sent a follow up text as I hate double texting if a girl hasn’t replied to first text.
any advice is much appreciated

[SueShe]

The fact that you fornicated on the 2nd. date immediately rings the alarm bells.

If a person has the need to sleep around with someone that he/she barely knows, that is indicative of that person not really being serious about the entire issue.

Both of you had what you actually wanted and looked for in the first place. Now that the novelty is over, so is the necessity to pursue that "relation".

Besides having a busy schedule, she also realized that she had achieved her goal and that there was no need for another date. It is always a problem when people meet for the sole purpose to copulate and don't involve emotions.

Your best bet here and only reasonable option is to forget this lady because I fear that she will not likely want to have another date.

[Adz8999]

You know what you’re probably right on all you’ve said. Maybe it was just words her saying she was excited for another date etc snd she liked me. she even suggested herself the next date That I plan she could perhaps stay at mine so perhaps she was just after one thing

[PrettyPriya]

Sorry to the asker but I had stated my intention to remove that last AWS post and another mod stole my reasoning.

This is the same moderator that has you blocked and doesn’t care for me much. 😞

I had replied to you that I had a way around the GaG doghouse with reporting that “no question” as there wasn’t one. Then…poof! It was gone.

I noticed the live feed activity and spotted the moderator that removed it. At least I will stay out of GaG jail for now. 😊

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Oh well, there is nothing one can do now. The important thing is that you are not doomed to the dog house. Have a well deserved motichoor laddu, together with a delicious Darjeeling tea :-)

[SueShe]

Just wait for another 24 hours and see how the situation develops. If she is genuinely interested, then she will reply, otherwise you know that you should perhaps give up.

[Adz8999]

I hear you. Appreciate advice
Meant to be meeting her again tomorrow though so is it leaving it a bit short notice to wait until tomorrow? I hear what you’re saying though

[OlderAndWiser]

Sounds like it started too fast (even tough she didn't express any reluctance with anything) and perhaps she is now having second thoughts about this relationship. Or maybe she broke up with another boyfriend, dated you briefly, and has now reconciled with her ex. Or maybe she just isn't ready for an intense relationhip.

[Adz8999]

Yeah it did start too fast. Agree with that. Deffo feels like I’m in competition with someone else lol or others, if we meet up again do you think it’s a good idea not to mention plans for another date until a few days after? If she doesn’t ghost me before then that is hahahahaha

[OlderAndWiser]

" think it’s a good idea not to mention plans for another date?" Definite avoid doing that!

[Xhuy_006]

Brah you've been hitting her up almost every day for dates or whatever. Chill, give her some ballroom, you're on her nuts. Ghost her for the rest of the week and then drop a message on her insta if ya have it. If ya don't it's a great opportunity to ask her right after the weekend ghost trip lol

[Adz8999]

Yeah you might be right. Tbf I do have a busy life as well and I don’t reply straight away. Are chats been chilled to be fair and if she don’t reply to a message I’m stubborn and don’t double text

If she don’t reply though do you think it’s worth sending another message or just leaving it?

[Xhuy_006]

I'd chill on it. At least till Sunday midday. It's been two days, she might have already ghosted ya tho. :/

[Adz8999]

Haha yeah you’re right bro. But was meant to do another date tomorrow so do I still wait until Sunday?

[Avicenna]

You’re overthinking things. Contact her to see how she’s doing

[Adz8999]

Well took your advice lol sent a short message. She was online before I sent it as well which is suspicious

Her reply hi omg I didn’t reply to my last message.. sorry lol how are you etc. Not a good sign really lol

[Adz8999]

*your not my

[HD1450]

Don't write her anymore until she responds, let her make the next move and if you don't hear from her, move the FUCK on and don't look back!!!

[KrakenAttackin]

She is playing games.

[Adz8999]

Yep could well be right and what I thought. in my opinion I’ve not come on strong at all shown by not replying for hours and havin a life lol can’t do right for wrong in the dating scene me haha

[Iron_Man]

Give it two more days and call her back