I met this girl online we set up a date over the phone. For the next couple of days we talked a little bit but we each took hours to respond because we were busy. One day I called by mistake and she didn’t know who it was because her headphone read out my full number and asked me to call her later after work. She texted me and I told her I’d call her when I got home and when I did she didn’t respond and she posted at the gym. We haven’t been texting really and I decided to just send the logistics of the date and make my decision through that. She sent me a text back the morning of the date to reschedule because of an emergency. What should I do? She hasn’t blocked me on social media or unfollowed (behaviors usually when someone isn’t interested) or deleted our app conversation. And she still views my stories on multiple apps and doesn’t respond. This was supposed to be our first date.
I met this girl online, we talked on the phone for 2 hours to start and set up a date. she agreed but started to be timely with responses?
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maybe there really was an emergency
You don’t think this is shady how she’s acting though?
Or is she testing me
I don't care enough to have an opinion. Not against you, let me be clear, but her, or any other woman who i'm at that stage with. You don't want to go, cool, there's plenty of other women who would. I'm not going to play games and I'm not going to read your mind, so I'll take what you say at face value until you show otherwise. If you hard-to-get your way into being ghosted that's on you (her). It sounds like she's into the drama or playing one of the games that women her age really ought to be over, being as how she's an adult and all. So you're not talking as much, because of her choices... okay, now you have more time to meet her potential replacement. Win win.
Thank you, sorry for so many questions but I’ve still been looking around talking to people but should I still ask to reschedule
nah man no such thing as too many questions.
You are the one that got cancelled on. It's on her to reschedule.
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