A shy guy who needs a woman to lead him will probably never find her, do you agree?

[Beta_incel]

sometimes i feel angry at myself for being so beta, it's hard because society expects you to be confident and court women but that's not who i am.

[StoneFree]

A lot of assertive women do approach men

Here's what you need to do in order to get approached :-

You need to let people know you "Exist"... and you have these "hobbies" etc

People want to know what you like...

If you have favorite games or movies or books or music... Or other such hobbies... buy merch that you can wear or perhaps take pictures of it and post it on instagram so like minded women will approach you.

If you are good at something be it painting or singing or writing... vlog about it... some woman out there will appreciate your skills

The more vocal you are about what makes you "YOU" and what's special about you... the more likely someone will approach you...

The reason you are most likely not getting approached is because you are trying to blend in too much... fuck society XD... BE who you would be if no one is watching... and someone who appreciates you for who you are will approach you.

[Beta_incel]

Excellent, thank you, that's true, i have tried to be what society wanted me to be before and guess what? I was miserable, I'm me, I'm shy and sweet and gentle, that's just who i am, the right woman will appreciate me for who i am.

[dustybiker]

No. Life has a way of making you stumble into each other when you least expect it.

[Beta_incel]

True and i think not all women are shy and passive.

[dustybiker]

No, not all woman are, but all woman have their moments. : )

[Lionman95]

Agree, but I think you could still change if you instead focus your life on dating started to build up self-confindence instead.
Find a hobby and some passion you really love that makes it easier to start conversations with people in general.
The better you´re communication the easier dating will get for you.

[elizamichale1]

Well just be what u if thats what u want as well honey

[Beta_incel]

Ok but is there hope a woman will ask me out on a date? Do some girls do that?

[elizamichale1]

Well the truth is most girls won't but then there are all kinds of people out there honey n i m sure there would be many girls who will ask u out n love u

[Beta_incel]

True, there's all kinds of people in the world and i think a woman would be lucky to have me to be honest because i don't cheat, shy guys are loyal at least i am.

[elizamichale1]

Well thats ur trait to be proud of then darling

[Beta_incel]

Exactly, we all have a "superpower" if you will that's mine 🤣

[elizamichale1]

Hehe true

[flirtatiousgirl]

You should be brave

[Beta_incel]

I should but I'm not.

[flirtatiousgirl]

Why?

[Beta_incel]

It's a life mystery, i love women but i can't be dominant or assertive with them, it makes me nervous to ask a girl out.

[flirtatiousgirl]

But why

[Beta_incel]

Probably fear of rejection and a submissive nature

[flirtatiousgirl]

don't be afraid of rejection.

[Beta_incel]

Okay, maybe you can help me gain confidence

[flirtatiousgirl]

Okay

[Beta_incel]

Thank you

[flirtatiousgirl]

Welcome

[driven159]

she will find you