What would you say is the biggest advantage to dating you?

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MCheetah · Accepted Answer

I would say the biggest advantage in dating is me is that I actually care and that I'm actually a romantic. I always have to "one up" the other when it comes to romance.

There are other things I bring to the table too, including being honest, reliable, dependable, open to communication, a good listener, and caring. I'm definitely NOT a sh*tty boyfriend, is what I'm saying. Of course, I can't please everyone. But I'd be willing to put my best foot forward and be the best partner I can be. And if that isn't good enough, we can at least break up knowing it wasn't *my* fault it didn't work out.

WHAT I BRING TO THE TABLE:

- My own personal, unique charm.

- Independence.

- Daily self-improvement.

- Awareness.

- Open-minded (to an extent; not to the point of losing my sense of reality).

- Very intelligent.

- Sarcasm.

- Wit.

- Abundance in creativity.

- Artistic skill.

- Strong work ethic.

- Patience.

- Politically moderate.

- Straight and monogamous.

- Nerdy.

- Resourcefulness.

- Bravery.

- Loyalty.

- Thoughtfulness.

- Responsibility.

- Masters degree (in English, though).

- Thoughtfulness.

- No drugs or vices.

- No diseases.

- No children.

- No crazy exes or divorces.

- No history of abuse or any arrests.

crossdressingrihno · Accepted Answer

It would be very difficult to get bored

I love giving attention to my significant other when I have one which admittedly I haven't exactly been trying to get into a relationship for the past year and a half

I love strange things and I love doing strange things and talking about strange things which means I always come up with something new and when I don't come up with something new I'll still find a way to make it entertaining or I'll find something else entertaining even if it's not new I also have ADHD so that leads to some pretty funny discussions

I always make the most entertaining friends which means dating me would give you access to some pretty entertaining discussions

And oddly enough when I get in the right mentality I seem very capable of actually reading people's kinks just by talking to them not even while flirting I can just tell which I have used to my advantage in the past because I am evil

And I think the last thing is that I love to bake I really love to bake so if you're into cake and brownies and cookies and other things like that then I'm your Man

There's some other stuff out there apparently because even though I don't know what they are there have been people in the past to have seen things about myself that I apparently haven't and they liked it for whatever reason and yeah I don't know what they seen

WhatTheHeckkkk · Accepted Answer

I am an extremely loyal person, like I will be your biggest supporter and be by your side (even if I disagree with some things). I don’t even know if that’s the right word, lol. I never really looked at my “advantages” or “disadvantages” but I’ve been told that I am so loyal or too nice that it could become a flaw…

My mom told me that I need to stop being so supportive or nice to old friends, exes, and people who have done me wrong. I had a toxic ex and he has absolutely destroyed me, but I still wish him the best - That’s the “too nice” part of me.

Of course, when it comes to relationships, I am always supportive of my partner and I try to be on their side for everything, no matter what. They’re my partner and they deserve someone to be their biggest supporter and be on their team. I couldn’t ever imagine cheating on my partner either. I think cheating is one of the top worst things you could do to a partner, along with abuse of any kind.

Passion_Devil · Accepted Answer

I am calm and collected, even when I am stressed out or angry I can keep my head cool.
I am an introverted person which made me a good listener, but because we are close you will be one of the few people who gets to see the actual me. With that, you can count on honesty, loyalty, care and affection. Ever had that feeling that you want to wake up but the blanket felt too good to leave? I will become the second blanket. I love cuddles and don't want to let go.
I also love to hear about you and your passion, I can listen to ou talk about you passion forever.
I will also keep you well fed. I love seeing you enjoy my food <3 just stop me if well fed becomes well fat :)

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I am happy and positive - I do not criticize or judge or humiliate or scold or mock and I do things because I want to and not because I think I have to, like my history teacher said, people become bad and stop being good when they believe they can get away with it, but I never stop doing good and never act bad just because I can.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am a dedicated partner, I try to be a better person every day, and I am generous in sharing all that I have to give.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Your life will be a very unique balance between something exciting happening every day and staying in to be together some days and just being a couple hermits.

Also I'm a really busy person but I will move mountains if I see were not spending enough time together. Luckily I have a career that gives me that flexibility usually.

I think the biggest advantage is that I will always build my partner up. I have a lot of life experience, I love progress and I'm very good at seeing where people will succeed and getting them there. I want to see my partner build herself up. It makes me respect her more too.

WonderBell99 · Answer

I'm a good listener. I'll provide you with emotional support and stand by your side. I'm kind, caring and trustworthy. I give the BEST hugs in the world. More importantly, I'm very honest and straightforward. I will let you know if something is bothering me in the most polite way possible. I don't beat around the bush. I'm genuine and don't play games. I will not mock you or criticize you. I like having animated conversations, just talking about deep stuff. I'm not narcissistic or abusive. I'm empathetic and will never ever cheat on you.

The worst thing a partner could do is be abusive and/ cheat.

SkyCastle90 · Answer

It may not sound like much, but my best quality is honesty. I'm not a liar. Not saying I'm a saint, because I'll lie to keep a surprise party a secret, or to deter a creep, etc; but I won't lie needlessly.

I had a lot of liars in my life who would give the sweetest, fluffiest words you'll ever hear to make you feel amazing, but once you discover the truth it's like realizing that person was just a mannequin, fake.

In a lot of ways, this was a weakness for a while, because I tend to put my most honest foot forward and not my best; I never got into the habit of making myself appear as something I'm not to make a great 1st impression or get the advantage. I remain myself, whether good, bad, happy, sad, etc; I'm more of a, "What you see is what you get," type of person. Thankfully, I'm engage to someone who loves how transparent I am.

Lionman95 · Answer

I´m a good listener, I´m generally curious person so it´s rare to find a topic I´m completely uninterested in.
I can cook and I´m disciplined and tidy.
I love deep talk and I´m adventorous to get to know new stuff.
I´m patient when it comes to solving a problem.
I like to take different perspectives in consideration and I normally don´t things without thinking them through properly.
I don´t play video games, I prefer to read instead and I like stuff that could be done out of the house.
I know what I want and have a well balanced life.

HawkPerception · Answer

Well I would say the only advantages right now would be:

1) I'm a genuine person. What you see is what you get. Not an uncommon statement for most people, but in my case it's probably true.

2) I like to keep fit (if you see that as an advantage)

3) I believe my partner's sexual needs and desires are as important as my own (again if you see that as an advantage)

4) I am extremely loyal and try to work through issues rather than leave when things get tough.

5) I always communicate where I am and who I'm with, even if I change locations or who I'm with at any point. I value trust highly and try to build it from the get-go.

Kkstarzz96 · Answer

I will never ignore you. I'm always available. I remember when we were kids and grew up listening to being a good friend was being there. Now, the more unavailable you are for others, the better your life is. Sometimes, that makes sense, but for my boyfriend, and especially my husband, I would never not listen to you, I want to know everything. And not as in the numbers and stuff, them as a person. Every stage, I'm in.

NathanDavis · Answer

that I am genuine... once you get to know me, and as you get to know me you'll get exactly how and what I am

no switches, no twists, no pretending... no acts, no small prints either to be worried about... lol

as far as I know, and I know from women I know, this is a common concern for them... if you're for real, or will you change your ways sooner or later

kiki18 · Answer

-very generous
-very loyal
-i dont get Jealous
-been told many times im pretty and hot but i dont really think so im probably not my type:)
-i have been told that i never get boring
-i have long hair comes in handy;)
-high libio
-have been told im very good in bed
-i always make from someting boring a adventure
-im good with kids
-parents ALWAYS like me
This all sounds good but i have a lot of bad things in my list

desidoll · Answer

I’m a good cook and baker. I am also great at planning things. I arrange trips, outings, dates and all. I’ve temper but I’d still care for my man regardless of any situations. I have gentle soul xD which I hate because there were people who took advantage of me in the past.

rini02 · Answer

I'm always optimistic about things and I don't have the habit of complaining. I won't mind if he forgets my birthday. I don't need gifts for various occasions. I don't expect him to reply me instantly. I can wait for that. I don't expect to be his only attention and priority. I would respect his personal space and won't be poking my nose in matters I shouldn't.

HighValue · Answer

I am trustworthy, affectionate, family oriented, I am good with kids, don't do drugs or drink alcohol, I take responsibility for my actions/decisions, intelligent (street smart and academically), tall, strong, dependable when I say I will or won't do something, can budget my money well, and I know how to cook most of the meals that I like.

Kaamraj · Answer

I am easily the top 5% in the country where I live, so I can open doors for you which you could never do yourself. Secondly, I have lots of life experience and perspective and you can learn a lot about business, life and some technical things by staying with me.

libsaretards · Answer

The biggest advantage to a woman dating me is my integrity. She would not have to worry if I am faithful. She would also not have to guess how I am feeling. She would know her secrets and fears are safe with me because I do not spill the secrets of even my worst enemies.

DenizLikesTennis · Answer

My positive sides: I have good self-control (very patient and sturdy). You could talk for hours and I'd be chill as whatever. I am fun to hang out with. I like to visit new places, try always new stuff. I am very caring/protective and empathetic. The last but not least, I enjoy leading deep conversations :D.

My lacking points/weaknesses: I could need a better sense of humor. I am a shy person and therefore I lack eye contact when I talk to people. I can be needy sometimes =/.

dorksided1 · Answer

I have my life together for the most part, my own home and car paid off, I work cook, clean, loyal and am fun but responsible when need be. In other words I have you in my life because I want you there not for what you can buy or get me

devilish-cutie · Answer

it really depend on what one would prefer, for some it would be a turn off and for others on, but if i think of what i consider my biggest qualities or think men appreciate: im pretty, hc loyal, have high libido. im honest. caring, energetic and initiative...

OneNineZero · Answer

Well I would give a detailer analysis report but I have never date
My marriage was fixed by my relatives and I met her about 3 times before marriage
She seperated after 3 months of marriage and now I am getting divorce
So I won't ever date again so I dont find myself capable of answering this question even in future

Levi4444 · Answer

This question had me thinking... I would have to say a few things mixed together, for one, I'll never be boring but at the same time I'm a calm person. I'm very honest but also a little too nice sometimes. I don't take things for granted, but I create standards for myself. So shit, I really don't know 😅 but that's okay, I guess I'll figure it out as time goes by :)

Guy13 · Answer

One would not have to worry about the Essentials of life.-one can not work for all I care.
—Baby Momma Machine is fine.
-I do not believe in paper assets.
-People seem to think it’s not horrific to look 👀 at me…everyday isn’t Halloween, ya know…
-Have to take 2-3 weeks, planned ahead yearly, to get away from things…FYI, that’s hard to do with 2 people slaving in the workplace-just saying🙃

metalhead_66 · Answer

Well for starters I actually care for people! If I had a girlfriend I make sure she knows that I'm there for her supporting her dreams and ambitions and guiding her to reach her goals. I see a girlfriend as a partner and a teammate, like someone that I know that if I take good care of them, they will take good care of me as well

awkwardddgirl · Answer

I am an open minded person and i will never judge anyone. I am the type of person with whom you would want to just talk about things easily. I will never tell a soul about anything that you want to be kept as a secret. I will always help anyone with their mental health. And i am an introvert so i will never cheat.

Prettysammie · Answer

I’m a giver and a pleaser and don’t ask for anything in return. There’s nothing I won’t do for the guys I date and all I want to do is make them happy. People tell me I’m pretty and very easy going. They say sex is great, that I’m adventurous and that they love that I like working out, sports and video games. I just don’t know why I’m always single. I mean I dare a lot but it never lasts for long.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I can definitely say that I a brutally honest individual while yes I do have my personal secret here and there but if you the kind of person who can definitely captured my heart I wouldn't mind being completely open with you of course I would also want you to be completely open with me as well.

Secret6620 · Answer

My love language is gifts and acts of service. I will cater to my man and buy him nice things.  Love this question

HimaniS · Answer

I cook amazing meals, I'm supportive in every aspect. I am a coordinated person. Who can solve problems? Also, have an amazing figure. You can enjoy me in bed. And walking with me will make everyone jealousy 😂😂

Babybebe15 · Answer

I’m very nurturing and affectionate. I can be very loving and am somewhat of a hopeless romantic lol. My tendency is to be a giver rather than a receiver. I love to cook, clean, show affection, and take of care of whoever I’m in a relationship with.

laurieluvsit · Answer

That's a secret. It would be to my 'disadvantage' to say actually

midnightmoon05 · Answer

You will ended up wanting to marry me.  I was told by my college boyfriend. that I am the type guys want to settle down with.  I am happily married and have two amazing kids.

imfreeze95 · Answer

I’m not in it for sex I would date someone for

Intelligence: I want a smart woman
Literacy: someone who reads a lot
Musical Prowess; plays a lot of instruments
Civic Activity: is political and active in the community
And their faith: is a Bible-Believing Christian

Their looks come last

whistlingwh0res · Answer

I am loyal but it’s not that attractive personality. I am clingy a little. I have some money from my parents. A lot of men want rich girl.. they won’t say that so you wouldn’t know. I am also mature. I am not naive anymore. I find a job and going back to school soon. I look very young. I am very healthy and have a average weight. I am clean.

TransAm85 · Answer

My husband said he loves me b/c I'm a simple person. Too many women leech off the system and flaunt material wealth yet they live in the shittiest of neighborhoods. Makes no sense.

Phoenix-gb · Answer

I have boundless love to give, I listen and act on what I hear if action is needed. I can cook and am at that stage where I want to devote my life to making someone the happiest I can.

Mrsposh · Answer

My cool vibe Honestly and that it's very easy to talk to me.  . I love having a laugh and just vibing

kakaballi · Answer

WOW, you really learn something about yourself everyday. When I read this I really couldn't come up with anything for a few moments. The only thing I can think of is that I am a know it all and being with me can be handy in many situations. I think that's about it.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I'm not sure this is a thing that everyone would agree on but my closest people tell me I feel like home to them. I guess they mean the security, the care, maybe even my cooking skills.

zagor · Answer

I'm loyal, because I'm too lazy to go find someone else.

Nagatoro · Answer

I would keep your house clean and want to participate in your hobbies

TexasRed95 · Answer

The biggest advantage is that I always find a way to support those I care about. But there are several good qualities. Loyalty, being a good listener, willingness to learn and change, a good cook, clean.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You will be safe; but I will take you on an adventure.

ALewis30 · Answer

I'm trustworthy, loyal and kind. I'm a good listener, I can cook, and I can carry some heavy objects. I'm also good at house cleaning, giving back rubs and foot rubs.

melaniee789456123 · Answer

I am great at cooking and baking and will provide you with some great food.

t-8900 · Answer

You'll never feel more loved, appreciated, or admired. Also you'll be feeling extra special every night 😁

XhmadRooz · Answer

I am sharp and talented. It will get 30 minutes to just go through my resume. Also, I have a happy life, I am mature and not going to play games with new date. Very professional.

red_knight · Answer

Peace of mind, easy communication, entertainment, love, understanding, a great listener, loves eating out/can cook very well, unlimited orgasms, greatest cuddler, 0 drama, will always motivate and be there for you.

Cuminginside · Answer

Well my profile picture kind of gives it away but I'm able to keep on going and going and loyal to a fault and the rest you're going to have to find out oh yeah disease-free yay!

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I'm a nice person I guess, which I try to say without bragging.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

There's plenty but I'm too tired to sit here and brag about it 🙃

KatherineJ · Answer

My husband says that I’m awesome, so I guess that’s an advantage. 😁

exitseven · Answer

I am all in. If you can't handle it you should look elsewhere.

Iron_Man · Answer

Loyalty somebody that really cares and I’m adventurous I don’t like sitting around the house I like going out doing things

jamesgoldman · Answer

Your jewellery won't be shit, cocktails and being cooked for  That's s all I got

OddBeMe · Answer

Total honestly…along with unrepentant sarcasm. But I’m too sensitive for you to make fun of me. So watch it!

Blackcupcake · Answer

everything duuuuh🙄😌😎

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I aspire to be completely fulfilling the traditional masculine role.

whereismyjohnny · Answer

I'm a very loyal person, so I guess that?

dustybiker · Answer

Open honesty. Could be taken either way though. 😁

Hsmeblkman · Answer

Easygoing, happy go lucky type. Very well rounded guy with a good outlook on life.

TodsShadow · Answer

Somone will always be looking out for you. I personnaly think its disengenuine to allow the people you claim to love to mess up their lives unknowingly.

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