Girls would ever consider dating a guy 5 years or even much younger than you?

[rapfan107]

[Buntyp]

If I take the time to get to know someone and find that there's a possibility that we could spend some quality time together, the likely consequences of an age difference, in either direction, would be something that I had already taken into consideration, so I guess that my answer, given such circumstances, would have to be yes, but only as long as we're talking about adults who are all at least 21.

[Anonymous]

I'm engaged to a guy 15 years younger, so I'd definitely consider it. Haha

[rapfan107]

How old is he 21?

[Opinion Owner]

No. He's 25.

[rapfan107]

Yeah and the age difference doesn't bother you

[Opinion Owner]

Not at all. In fact, in some ways I think the age difference is good for me. Being with a higher energy man who can keep up with me and is more open minded to a woman with professional/financial success. I'm also a bit immature and he's very mature, so our maturity levels are very compatible. I also wanted to have kids, and I think the fact his sperm was younger made it easier for me to get pregnant (and I'm pregnant with twins.
I also love how fast he can recover and how muscular/sexy his body is.

[_pinkme]

Of course women wouldn’t consider dating a guy much younger than them. Sexist traditions have brainwashed them and they won’t rise above and realize they’re living in a man made world


It’s the way of life and have been for centuries. Men date/marry young girls and women and young women and women date/marry old men

[melaniee789456123]

I don't see a problem in relationships where there is an age gap as long as the people involved in the relationship are happy and healthy, but personally, I would not. I wouldn't because you already never know when or how your partner (s) could die, and if you're significantly older or younger than your partner, you or your partner would have to be lonely without you once you or your partner are gone before one another.

[shaysh87]

How about being married to a senior citizen by the time you’re 45? Imagine how sexy and fun life would be then

[melaniee789456123]

@shaysh87 I value and respect your opinion but disagree. I feel this way because I personally would not prefer to pursue a relationship with someone in a different "life stage" as me. As in life stage, I'm saying a young adult that's fresh out of high school with someone that's middle aged.
Regardless of my statement, I have complete and all respect and value towards anyone and everyone who prefer or enjoy relationships where their significant other has an age gap.

[shaysh87]

@melaniee789456123

nobody can control who you want to have a relationship with. If you're a 18 yr old girl who wants to marry a 50 yr old man, you can do that. But 10 years later, when you realized that you've made a mistake by marrying the wrong man. Or you find you're in your 40s and you're married to a senior citizen, its nobody's fault but their own. They chose to ignore all the warnings.

[melaniee789456123]

@shaysh87 That's practically exactly what I said, sweetie. I'm saying that I respect and value the preferences and opinions that everyone and anyone has on relationships. It's just that I would not prefer a significant age gap. And it's completely okay to enjoy the relationship you're in, no matter what circumstance as long as YOU are happy and healthy in it.
I never said that I'd manipulate or control anyone's relationship to be with someone a certain age. So it's on you to correctly understand the statements of others. And from your first reply of "How about being married to a senior citizen by the time you're 45? Imagine how sexy and fun life would be then" is totally alright too, as long as YOU are happy and healthy! 😃

[shaysh87]

@melaniee789456123

The bigger the age gap, the shorter the marriage

nypost.com/.../

[shaysh87]

Men and women both report greater marital satisfaction with younger spouses, but that satisfaction fades over time in marriages with a significant age gap between the partners, new University of Colorado Boulder research finds.

phys.org/.../...usal-age-gap-affects-marriage.html

[melaniee789456123]

@shaysh87 Hey, are you doing okay? I'm genuinely worried for you. You basically just switched your first answer and have basically restated an example of how I feel on this topic. This makes me worried about your emotional well being. Are you doing okay? Do you need someone to talk to, sweetie?

[shaysh87]

@melaniee789456123

I just wanted to show you some information. I don't see what the problem is.

[melaniee789456123]

@shaysh87 There is no problem! I'm just glad you're doing okay! 😊

[Anonymous]

No because I want me a man a bit older and more experienced. I’m 24. But I’d take someone who’s at least 27.
I would never go too old or too young.
Its just a pure turn off and that’s just how it is.
Anyone a year younger than me I’d consider a child or little brother. Anyone older than 27 is practically a grandad!
SO….,,,,
I don't know …,
THATS JUST MY MORALS

[Gloree]

Even, two years younger, I turned him down. Personally, I prefer my man to be older than me. Reason is because, I prefer someone I can look up to, not boss around. I am highly opinionated and from where I come, age is significant with respect. So if I find, I am older than you, I am sort of wired to think I can you know, sort of be in charge. It's just the way I am. But people are different. I turned down a couple of guys for this. It is a no no for me.

[shaysh87]

Sometimes the person who can give make you laugh , give you the best ultimate time of your life may not necessarily be older than you. It’s best to not make quick assumptions and really get to know someone before you do it

[devilish-cutie]

5 years younger is my limit but if i fall in love with even younger of legal age and we get along as house on fire that i dont feel age also yes

[shaysh87]

If he’s at least 29 and I’m 34 then yes possibly. But if I’m 26 Ans he’s 21, hell no. Guys mature later than women

[hsshannah96]

No. I am 25. My age limit at the lowest is 30 for dating

[FictionalCharacter]

My boyfriend is 6 years younger than me and we look the same age or he looks older 😅

[Tiptoetamm]

I'm 32 now I probably wouldn't go younger than 26 5 to 6 years younger

[XXblack88]

Maybe 5 years I don't know if I would date someone much younger then that thou.

[sheikalana]

I’m not into dating younger men. I’ve tried in the past and didn’t work.

[Selena1987]

I don’t like it
But because I’m getting older (34) and want to have a family and kids, it’s possible to think about it if arose

[Anonymous]

Me dating anyone 5 years young is illegal, but in future when i get reallyy old ill prob try

[Anonymous]

I get a lot guys that are 3 years younger than me but I do look young for my age

[rapfan107]

So you'll be open to date a younger guy

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah of course I'm 29 so my limit would be like 25. I find young guys really attractive

[whereismyjohnny]

No. I’m not into younger guys.

[rapfan107]

You wouldn't consider it even when you get older?

[whereismyjohnny]

I don’t think so, but you never know what life will bring.

[TrueConfection]

I think 5 years would be my limit.

[RosalinaH]

As long as he is a legal adult It's okay.

[dustybiker]

Why not? It’s the connection not the number.

[IveGotNoName]

Ummmm... I'm 19... so definitely not...

[JoyGirl]

My boyfriend is 5 years older.

[JoyGirl]

Or 4.
One of those.

[gabby100]

Yes, i have in the past..

[LavLavLuv]

No i like older guys 😊

[HeartFullOfGlue]

No
That'd be weird af

[Kat94]

Yes, I prefer younger or at least look young

[amyisme]

No gross ewwwww

[Blackcupcake]

never

[KATaylor]

Older for sure

[Babygirl_S]

No..