Thoughts on this situation? Is he mad right now.. will he break up? super scared?

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we have had this ongoing fight this past month about 2 things

on Thursday was when it really started. so he stays over almost every day at my place and we just chill and do homework together and he spends the. night.. he's always tired and I've asked him for some intimate time and he just says he's tired... haven't been intimate with him in like 3 weeks or so... we are both architecture students but he is in grad school and i gradate undergrad in 2 weeks. i start at his school next fall and will see him

anyway

i tell him that i feel like he puts my feelings last

i have been wanting to go out with him and you know.. on dates

but he chooses to go out with his friends during the weekends

he made a valid point where rather than going home he directly comes to me to spend time with me

We see each other 4-5 times a week. He stays over maybe 3-4 times a week.

anyway we tried going to the aquarium on Saturday b4 he left to the party and we were chill (change of plans bc we could not find parking)

we went back to his and i was so bored

he's also sick and kinda stressed with classes

i just told him how lucky he was that he can go out on a Saturday and i just stay in and do nothing and i just felt bored

i kinda kept saying this

until he was like

"i know what you want you want me to stay with you right?" and i was like "no not at all you go do ur thing"

and he ended up getting really mad and was like "you are the reason why i have been so stressed my health is so bad because of you i already told you why i cannot take you and you still dont understand how many times do i have to repeat myself"

and he has said it many many many times ;/

and i was like "no i dont want to go i am sorry"

he has a slight anger issues but he knows how to calm down

he told me to stay away and he was just breathing in very deeply

and he calmed down

and said he was sorry and gave me an ice cream and we chilled

he went to go take a shower

and got dressed

and i was crying and was like
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"i am so sorry i am making you feel this way and im sorry for how I've been acting! you need some time with friends and thats healthy normal and okay" and he was like "yes yes chill " and i was at the door and we kissed maybe 5-6 times in the lips and he said his back ached bc how sick he was and he's like "okay go go!" and i left crying and yea that is that

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i called him about some architecture program i was about to buy and he responded well i even asked him if he could help me with it tmw (today) and he said "yes yes yes" and that was all i did not contact him after that or anything and its 6pm right now and have not contacted him since he hasn't either so i dunno is he mad? Do you think he's gonna break up with me? i just feel bad and i dont know what to do … I need some help with some homework and only he can help ;/
Thoughts on this situation? Is he mad right now.. will he break up? super scared?
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