Is he really done or just mad?

[Anonymous]

i been talking to this guy for 5 months. I brought it to his attention that I was tired of him acting like he doesn't care and I got my stuff back from him but I didn't want him to be done. I called him today and he said he wants a break because he doesn't want a relationship and he realized he's too emotionally attached. he got mad and started saying he doesn't wanna hang out anymore and I told him I don't believe him and he hung up on me. I sent him a message on Facebook calling him out on everything and that he needs to grow up because anytime there is a problem between us he says we need a break instead of facing it. if I don't talk to him for a while do you think he will come around? I've always been there so he never had anything to chase after

[Nowen22]

You should start by not treating him like sh*t. Guys are emotional too. Some guys want to be cared about and maybe you didn't show that. If you guys have an issue and he doesn't want to talk about it just give him some time. Don't go calling him out on Facebook, that will just p*ss him off even more. Why not just leave it alone? It seems obvious that he wants a break so let him have it and see what happens

[Asker]

No I did everything for him I treated him amazingly! and I ddint really call him out I just said he alway runs away when we have a prblem instead of fixing it he needs to stop getting scared and face it and deal wiht it

[Anonymous]

face it, you're not the one for him. It's not that he doesn't want to be in a relationship, he doesn't want to be in one with you. And I don't think that sending him angry Facebook messages will change that.

[Asker]

Not going against what your saying at all, but everyone that knows him tells me he never has been one to have a girl around and I know his last girlfriend hurt him really bad. he hasn't had a girlfriend since her. he's admitted to me before that he's immature when he comes to relationships so its not like he's hiding anything from me. he has told me from day 1 that he doesn't want a relationship but we both do really like each other I know that for a fact. and it wasn't an angry message at all I just said how I felt

[cb9343]

i think so.. why do we always chase be strong.. guys like to do chasing its some weird manly type of thing.. if he does not call its not meant to be! if he does call play a little hard to get and be friendly! be happy with who you are!