I think it's over and he's not serious?

[nejla]

That's our chat. He didn't respond to the last message! And he seems like he don't want to commit bc of the distance by the way us rn and we'll not meet more 5-6 months.. I think he's not serious... My heart is broken... And I think it's over... What you think, guys?

[CallMeDave]

My opinion is that it doesn't seem good. He seems to feel like it's impossible to have any kind of romantic relationship when you're long distance and so my guess is that he's not really even going to try.

How long has it been since that last message that he didn't reply to? It does seem like a bad place to just stop responding, but things do happen so it could be that he'll respond later. But if it's a long time with no response then that seems bad.

Even if he does respond though, it sounds like he doesn't really want to even try a long distance relationship, so you might have to decide whether you're willing to just maintain casual contact with him until you're physically in the same area and can meet in person and (assuming neither of you has gotten into another relationship by then) see whether you can have a relationship.

[chriscdi]

well im going out with a girl in cali right now, even tho we are planning on meeting up soon, doesn't mean i dont love her cause she is far away, sounds to me like an excuse, love has no barriers unless you create them yourself

[anniisa]

I'm not sure if I believe in long distance either but this is such a good answer

[chriscdi]

yep, i learned it while going out with this girl 😁💯

[Julietchicago]

I think it was over when he so-called "accidentally" unfriended you

[AfnanTaheer]

Distance really affects the relationship but if you arrange regular online date and talk more it will be greater experience than to be in a relationship in real life.
I have personally experienced, when you are in an online relationship you are more focused and devoted to your beloved if you seriously are in love.
Well if he is tired of you then let him go and live your life happy. If he is not so caring online he will not be caring irl. So be aware and live your life

[Seier]

If even the concept of a long distance relationship turns him away in such an extreme way, I think it best to cut it off. Though I do not know either you or this man aside from the context within the confines of your post, I am giving my best advice in what I'd do in such a situation. Ultimately it is up to you.

[tjbyrd39]

If your upset I'm keeping my opinion to myself. They are either brilliant and make people fell better or brilliant and don't and could make feel worse Probably leaning towards it'll make feel worse. But reply if you wanna hear it

[nejla]

I wanna hear it!

[tjbyrd39]

That he's seeing someone else
And you should to. And regular relationship
And marriage is terrible idea. Have fun. If the so called relationship causing any pain or even discomfort in relationship then be like meh I'm gonna go get my O on somewhere else. And just get your freak on. That's the key to life. Barbecues are it. Nothing else needed.

[nejla]

Thank you so much! 🙏

[RHK36]

LDR don't work unless someone moves closer. Sounds like it ran it's course for him. Move on. In the future don't engage in ldr unless you have a plan and are equally willing to move closer to him.

[Smirnoff23]

Yes it's time to move on

[Konabeana]

Move on.