I gave a guy my number and we texted for a few days. But I didn’t like anything about him, mostly because he criticized me a lot and kinda talked down to me. I also just couldn’t stand his personality in general and had no attraction to him at all. So I stopped responding to his messages and he hasn’t texted anything else in about 4 days. I’m fine with not communicating with him anymore, but now I’ve been feeling guilty about the way I handled it. I know ghosting isn’t a good thing, but I just didn’t know what to say to him to explain it. Should I really have gone into telling him all the things that I dislike about him and why I don’t want to text with him anymore? Would that have been better? That just seems like it would have been such an awkward conversation and a bit rude also.

Being a ghost isn't nice. People who are cowardly show this behavior. you have to be honest with him

Just going to suggest murder, make them the ghost.

Usually just tell him the truth

Just tell him he's really rude and insensitive

Telling them you don't want to see them anymore.

Talk it out i am sure he will understand

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Being a ghost isn't nice. People who are cowardly show this behavior. you have to be honest with him

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Just going to suggest murder, make them the ghost.

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Usually just tell him the truth

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Just tell him he's really rude and insensitive

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Telling them you don't want to see them anymore.

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Being honest.

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Ghouling?

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  Meaning what?
  
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say you no longer want to talk

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Talk it out i am sure he will understand

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Was is criticism constructive or destructive?

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  Destructive. Every time he learned something new about me, he had something negative to say about it.
  
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- Djaay
  
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  Wow ! Let it go... no explanation
  
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Say fuck off

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Living?

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Blocking.

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You should have

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Not ghosting

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Walking away

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Haunting

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Not being a coward.

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