I think he developed a habit of needing other people´s attention when he was single. He says you´re the only one and maybe also means it because for him sleeping with a woman is a rather shallow thing. (I mean shallow in that context as an opposite of intimate).
Therefore chatting with and thinking about other women don´t seem like a big deal to him.
by the way I think you already gave the answer in your describtion because he has an emotional and mood instability disorder he probably need validation from other women.
Therefore now it´s something you have to decide either stafe with him and life with that or break off with him because if he really has a mood instability disorder he will need validation from as many people as possible.
If you can´t live with that you should consider leaving him because you can´t change him especially as long as he doesn´t want to change.
It might harsh but at the end of the decision you have to make.
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He's a sociopath. He's going to say and do whatever he feels will be most advantageous for him at the moment, regardless of the effect it may have on others. He got tattooed because he figured that would make it harder for you to leave him. Surprise him and do it anyway.
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So, you don't care if cheats, you just need to 'understand it'? Are you kidding me?
Sounds like he has a few issues, do you really want to build a life with him? I'd really think about that and if he's really who you want to be with and have as a partner. This isn't "normal" behavior, so a very serious talk with him, or decide if you really want that relationship. Because this doesn't sound like something that will just go away. I suspect your entire relationship with this man will be like this. Do you want to continue to put yourself through that?
It's not a about looks, and you are finding the hard way. She's a control freak. Leave him before you get hurt real bad. And what's wrong with Asian women excalty. If you even know what that world means..
Maybe he's insecure? Have you tried talking to him about it
Sounds like he needs affirmation and is thrill-seeking
Dump him, he might have lost interest in you. Or he's simply a idiot.
He’s a dirty cheater hiding it Get rid of him
He's cheating on you in my opinion.
He isn't smartest tool in the box dump him
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