Guys, What is going on in his head?

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So this guy and really clicked and connected, we went on some dates and were intimate but no sex, text each other constantly and he has been super sweet all this time, So, I asked him one day what does he want from this and he said that because everything going on in his life he does not want a relationship, he cares for me and likes me but is not in the right headspace. I'm cool with that, but I have to protect my feelings and I told him, we can keep talking but I cannot accept nor give any affection. I told him just to cool down things until he knows what he wants. I set my boundaries and then he blocked me from social media, I was upset at his immaturity but he contacted me later that day and admitted he was wrong and wanted to talk. He said 5 times he didn't want a relationship, then 4 more times he didn't know what he wanted. I said that's fine, but if these are your boundaries, here is mine. I cannot accept your affection and the touching and kissing and good morning text and gifts. If you don't see me as a girlfriend do not expect me to treat you like a boyfriend. He then goes on to say "but I'm an affectionate man, I like touching and holding." "I want someone to be there for me and support me, and I support them," I told him I can support him as a friend but that's where I draw the line. I'm a bit confused with him. He kept saying he didn't want a relationship, and I said yeah I understand, but it sounds like he's trying to convince himself more than me and also he wants relationship benefits without the title or responsibilities. Is he just a narcissist?
Guys, What is going on in his head?
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