Yeah this guy is not right. He sounds like he wants to be friends with benefits, or wants to be casual with you but can't morally do it in good faith, because he knows you want a real relationship. So honestly he sounds like he just wants sex, but could not do it because he doesn't want to hurt you.
So on one hand its respectable, on the other hand its seriously lame. You don't want a guy like that, and you don't want to be used. So I think you did the right thing, but I would cut it off all together with him.
Because to me it sounds like he already made it known that he's not interest in a relationship with you, but if you were okay with it he would totally have sex with you. So if you keep seeing him as "friends" he will eventually get courage or over come his moral objections and follow his guy instincts because he told you he's not interested in a relationship but hung around any way.
It odd because most guys would had sex with you and then just broke it off, so it is admirable he was somewhat honest about it without out really saying it.
And of course he might already be seeing someone else and your just his fall back or possible side chick.
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He wants his cake and to eat it too.
Basically he is being selfish by wanting you whenever he... err wants you, and then not to be interested when he's done.
Sod that for a lark.. right?
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I want something similar to him. Best way I can describe it is friends, but more. It's close and supportive, but not with the extra responsibility dating would bring.
Narcissist isn't the right term. He's just selfish, and wants it his way. You handled it very well in terms of what you want from a relationship.
He wants to have sex but don't want anything more than this.
he's playing childish fucking games. find a real man not an insecure child
dont know, dont care
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