Does it sound like this guy means it or his just trying to play games with me?

[Anonymous]

[WonderBell99]

Holy fuck, that’s a long ass text. Wtf is he writing? A 600 page novel?

It’s so hard to read without punctuation marks and paragraph breaks

We can’t tell if he’s being genuine if we do not have any context at all..

[Asker]

Oh ok

[WonderBell99]

I can be of more help if you provide me with more background

[Asker]

We work together and we know each other for over a year now

[WonderBell99]

Okay, so you guys are dating?

[Asker]

We text and talk a lot

[Asker]

But I wouldn't say dating

[WonderBell99]

Just go with the flow. If you guys are not even in a relationship yet and he’s saying this much, it’s best to proceed with caution. Don’t rush into anything.. it’s best not to. Take time to get to know this guy.

[Asker]

Like I know him well enough at work and we just hanged out few times after

[WonderBell99]

If you guys have only “hung out” a few times, that is not love. Just enjoy each other’s company for now

[Asker]

Than is he rushing it?

[WonderBell99]

Looks like it

[Asker]

Yikes

[WonderBell99]

I mean.. you guys have hung out only a few times and he’s written a novel lmao. That kind of looks like rushing to me. 😅

[Asker]

Got ya girl

[WonderBell99]

Be careful with this guy.. he may just want to get into your pants. I don’t know about him, but it’s always best to be careful. Tell him that you want to take things slowly. Ask him out on a date

[Asker]

What makes you think that he wants to get in my pants?

[WonderBell99]

- you are not dating. sure, people can be in love with each other without dating, but did you guys even go out on a date? Or spend quality time together and actually get to know each other?

- his feelings may be genuine, not sure, but love takes time. do you know what his flaws are? do you accept him the way he is? does he do the same?

- did he first tell you that he likes you? He says that he loves you.. but you guys have only hung out a few times

[WonderBell99]

it’s just weird to me, I’m not saying that those are his intentions. May be, may not be, but it’s always good to proceed with caution

[FictionalCharacter]

He sounds co dependent and clingy