Should the girl always have to pay for herself on a date? (Page 2)

Question

My boyfriend recently came up with the idea to go out together for a date every 2 weeks. However, he also mentioned “when we go out I’ll pay for my own meal but you’ll have to pay for yourself.” I’m just wondering if couples usually play separately? If I should have to pay for my own every single time even though it’s literally a date?

Apple1996 · Answer

A real man will always offer to pay. Don't settle for some mf that takes you out then makes you pay.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Ha! You two will breakup before the end of the two weeks. Once you realize how much it costs to have a girlfriend you will run to find another man who will pay for everything.

innerman · Answer

She’s not supposed to pay...  But we need to experiment this for a month, just, let the lady pay for her and her date... just see how things work out

IsoUser · Answer

What are guy's becoming theese days? Jesus I have always paid for my girls breakfast, lunch, dinner whatever its just the right thing that any guy should do to be perfectly honest.

Anonymous · Answer

Even though it’s literally a date? What does that even mean?

I'm disgusted with many of the female comments here. A "real man" always pays? WTF! Do you ladies even hear yourselves? Are you all prostitutes?

jamesgoldman · Answer

I don't know my exes paid for me but I tipped the bill, it was for legal reasons and logic reasons as well

crmoore · Answer

There's no right way to go about it. What should be done is whatever the two people in questioned agreed to.

Iron_Man · Answer

I’ve always paid for my girlfriend 99% but I think it’s fair for the man to pay for the first three dates then after they can split it

Paul09 · Answer

If you think about it, you pay for me, then I'll pay for you. So complicated for nothing. Why can't we all psy for ourselves? Unless it's a birthday or celebration of some sort.

TallAnon · Answer

I generally just ask if the girl wants to split the bill or not. Ofcourse they never say no to that, but I'm just honest, don't mind paying, don't mind if they want to.. feel independent, I guess 😁

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

😂😂 dump this poor guy who can't even afford date.

Anonymous · Answer

This is simply a stupid question! How about people pay their own way through life. I get being invited out, that is different, but to expect men to pay all the freight is just stupid!

Anonymous · Answer

I think either the one who asks the person to the date. Either alternate who pays or split the bill. I don't believe that the guy should be fully responsible for paying its rather an unequal thing not to mention it being a dated approach.

MountAverage · Answer

"If I should have to pay for my own every single time even though it’s literally a date?" What do you mean by that?

jasco · Answer

I think its better that way. No expectations and she can eat whatever she wants do whatever she wants

mattperry95 · Answer

Most of the time the guy should always pay for the girl food it’s the right thing to do o understand if she wants to go out to eat like 5 times a week the guy not paying every time

Bluestar8 · Answer

It's an expression of caring to pay for the other person, a way for someone t express love that they can provide for the other person. But being particular about it seems off and like keeping score

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Take turns paying. It shouldn't be one person always pays.

allaboutyou2 · Answer

No, on occasion it's nice for you to pay but I myself would never expect my girlfriend to pay for a date.

Shy_Steve · Answer

I reckon the Guy Should pay on the first Date and the Girl Should pay on the second Date and then both should offer to go halves on the 3rd Date.

LIli521 · Answer

AA system idea in fact I think the economic system is not perfect for a couple which is very good, but after all, girls are still vulnerable men need to pay more

Mahmoud_Madyan · Answer

In Egypt, we believe that it's shame on the man if the woman paid for herself in the dates

ImNoOne111 · Answer

We guys usually pay for the meal but if he can't afford it, then he can't

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

And what did you say did you agree to that if you did your crazy he would've got dumped with his cheap ass!

Better_off_here · Answer

i think it depends on what the date is celebrating? is it just a normal Friday night dinner or does it happen to be the person's birthday?

Amur8711 · Answer

If the guy asks her out on a date he pays, if she asks him out she pays. If your boyfriend and girlfriend he pays. When married either one can pay.

Joshua0213 · Answer

in my opinion it should rotate who picks the place and then that person pay

msc545 · Answer

Why is it you think your boyfriend should pay for you? Is there any time you should pay for him?

sultry_ayumi · Answer

Make sure you pay for your own drink. Many guys - when they pay for the girls drink - think that the girl owes them an orgasm.

Yellovv · Answer

I never let girl pay for it if she stay with me, allways I am paying that...

Anonymous · Answer

I never allow my gurl to pay for anything when she is with me

DevinAM · Answer

The first few dates certainly, beyond that it depends your situation.

douride2 · Answer

I have always paid my own way.

Anonymous · Answer

Girl friend could lightened his boy friend’s burden a little if she can afford it.

Xtendable · Answer

I always paid for my date

Ringstretch · Answer

Personally I think no, they deserve to be treated

TheLastRhodesian · Answer

I never spend money on a woman.

Valso · Answer

Yes. Otherwise it's clear she's a gold digger.

ManHater · Answer

I agree, why should the man bust his balls?

Stevefiveo · Answer

Umm, if it is his idea, then he has to pay.

Anonymous · Answer

Sorry to say that but That’s very cheap of him.

Guy13 · Answer

NO WAY‼️

Zolly99999 · Answer

No. I think that is being cheap and petty..

Anonymous · Answer

Welcome to feminism and equality.

Anonymous · Answer

You all whined for equality. So YES

Beerluvr · Answer

Your boyfriend is a cheap ass.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Yes. We’re not in the 1920s anymore

robocop666 · Answer

yup I make them pay their half

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes. You should.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, that's retarded.

UpdateGloomyNights_ · Answer

I think men do that

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