The last time someone rejected me it was because I was going through a phase in my life where I didn't have the confidence that I do now
Backstory is I was very confident for a while but something triggered me to become very in confident for a few months and during this time I met someone I was really interested in but I wasn't very confident so she wasn't attracted to me because of that or more accurately she was attracted to me for a while but because I was emotionally incapable of trying to seduce her I wasn't a good fit for her and there's not much more to it
Now the last time I rejected someone If we are talking about preemptive rejection or legit waiting for them to make a move kind of rejection that affects the question
If we're talking preemptive rejection something happened somewhat recently actually There was this girl who was getting a little too close to me emotionally speaking so I didn't necessarily reject her as much as I sabotaged any chance of her developing any form of romantic interest in me both by speaking very fondly of my exes and bringing up life goals that weren't actually true but I knew she would find to be a big turn off
As for one where I turned them down after or during them trying to spark a relationship I don't know what the most recent one is since I really haven't had much of a romantic relationship since covid I mean I've had three I think since covid but as for the last time I rejected someone that's difficult so I'm just going to go with one that I remember from high school
There was a girl in my gym class who came up to me and was in the middle of doing a confession but I responded with this "what the fuck?" And with what felt like an eternity of silence but was probably like maybe less than a second I promptly walked away with a sense of embarrassment and paranoia washing over me. I would like to know that at the time I did find her to be attractive but for whatever reason that was my instinctive reaction because when people try to confess to me rejection is my most natural first reaction I don't even know why but it is.
I dated somebody for a while and it just was not working out. She was not who I thought she was. We really did not have much of a relationship. We went to a concert together that night and I decided that I would not call her again.
He was pretty crazy, very unstable. and kept flirting with different girls, couldn't just pick one to focus on, all the while he was not at all over his crazy ex-girlfriend. Even talked about he wanted to kill himself, said goodbye and everything, and got mad at me when I called the cops so they could contact him... So many things happened, and by the end, I couldn't even be a friend or anything. Had to delete and block him. He tried to text me several times after as if nothing had happened... That's a little year or so ago, and he wrote to me on Instagram a few months ago... Give me a fucking break...
Yeah, it was pretty bad. We started to talk because he needed someone to talk to about his ex and I felt empathy for him, as I had gone through a pretty bad break-up myself. ... Until he started to hit on me as well, and all the craziness ensued. Really scared me away from helping strangers just like that again.
But I do know there are really good ones out there as well. He just wasn't one of them.
Yeahā¦itās not remotely similar but my business was defrauded recently and Iāve been really cold toward charities, etc. Just seething anger. Iām trying to change because I used to volunteer more.
Think it was my disabilities my ex dumped me. I been rejected for number of things Aswell in past which why I have low confidence and self esteem to this day.
i wish i knew. we were on good terms as we were still friends after for some time. she never told me. the only answer i could get out of her was "i'm just not feeling anything romantic towards you".
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