These conversations have been pretty spaced out by like three or four days and he does his bit of initiating by like writing little things on my wall. Now that I've started maybe 5 conversations in the past three weeks should I wait for him to text me? Should I wait for like a week or two? What is yOur advice?
don't wait for a week what's wrong with you? just lay low on the texting and calling and wait for him to call and text you, if he says anything like "hey, you don't text me or call me as much, anything wrong?" don't talk about GuyAdviceFromGuy's (my) strategy. Just be like "I'm glad you are calling and texting, when you call it puts a smile on my face" secretly you are insinuating him that he should call and text more often without confusing like you would by ignoring him for a week. ya dig?
Haha so how long should I wait for a text from him? If I don't get one in three or four days should I text or give up? Thanks for the other advice though!
I really need some help right now my heart is hurting
@chrisrockshorty Okay, i hate that feeling whats up
I tried to wait for him to text me for like two weeks after I last texted hi and I didn't get a single comment, text or wallpost. What am I supposed to do? I don't wanna be easy but I don't wanna blow him off.
Well...I waited for almost a month for this guy to say anything to me.. He was texting/calling a lot before..then it stopped. A few days ago..out of the blue I look at my phone and I have a text from him that says "Lacyyyyy!:)" haha. I texted back, and we were texting for a while. Now it's been 3 days since he's said anything. But, I'm tired of trying..so I just wait for him to say stuff now. :P It's not blowing him off if he didn't answer..You shouldn't always be the one starting the convo
If we've only texted like 5 times can I still break this chain of me initiating? How do I get this to turn around - he asked for my number because he thought I was fun to talk to, is it time to play hard to get or wait for him to text me? What do I do?
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I tried to wait for him to text me after I last texted him and it's been two weeks and I haven't gotten a single Facebook comment or a text or a like or anything. What do I do?
Forget about him. A guy who doesn't initiate in 2 weeks isn't all that interested. You continuing to text him first isn't going to make him change his mind. You'll have better luck if you just keep doing what you're doing.