It means that you are doing too much of the initiating and you need to stop unless you want the guy to slack off when it comes to pursuing you. Although we like girls initiating the conversations if you do it all the time, there's no challenge provided and we also get a little suspicious, like, why is she calling and texting all the time? Even though it is flattering it's kinda like, okay if she's really interested this quick does she do this with other guys? What if she loses attraction for me? Will the phone calls and texting stop all of a sudden? Too much of a good thing too fast mean the fall is greater, like crashing after a sugar high.
Quickly responding to your messages is a good thing nonetheless, but don't let your attraction for him cloud your mind. YOu don't know how this guy is if you did allow him to chase you a little. How desperate is he? How clingy is he? How will he react if I don't text or call first one day? You don't know these answers so you can't accurately gauge your interest level.
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Ugh.. I know this feeling. I think vmw2008 is right. I usually text him first..and if I don't he says I don't try to initiate conversation with him.
Usually mean he knows you going to text him no matter what so he is waiting for you to do so.
it just means he's shy and nervous about making the first move
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I'm like that guy then. I never start conversations with anyone. But I'm usually friendly and reciprocating. . .
Guys think I don't care, but that's not it. I just don't remember because I've got so much to do...It means you developed a pattern in which you do all the initiating, so he doesn't feel he has to.
It means that he really enjoys your friendship... either as sexual or just as friends. I think you should take what you can get. Because if he is really into you, He will eventually tell you :-)
he wants to know if you are interested
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