Why would a guy never text you first?

[Anonymous]

Never.
He always replies nicely when I reach out to him but he never texts me first.
Even on Facebook I always reach out to him first over messenger.

[fortunechips]

He's not interested, or he doesn't think you're worth investing his time for him to strike up a convo. It's not a matter of guys don't prioritize texting, that's not true. If we feel a girl is worth it we WILL text. I don't know where that notion comes from.

It could also be he's also texting other girls as well because guys many times text multiple girls at the same time.

Sorry if this is really straightforward but that's just the reality. If a guy is interested, oh yeah, he'll initiate text. Any way to get your attention, he'll do it.

[Adam1978]

It's because he is a guy, we don't put high priority on texts and we don't get hooked on girls if all she does is text. We need the physical in person part to fall for a girl. He can have dozen of girl to text and he will simply just answer whoever is sending somerhing his way.

[Asker]

So he won't take it seriously if it's a facebook online
relationship?

[Adam1978]

Exactly you can talk about anything but if it just stay online your not in a relationship and will never be. Any woman who takes him to the next level will by pass you. No matter how long you guys has chatted, your just a online friend.

[Asker]

Can I message you I followed you.

[Adam1978]

Is it that private? Ok I changed my settings so you can do that now.

[Whatever919]

Here it's exactly the opposite girls don't text first 😂 even after a week of talking

[Twalli]

Guys only initiate if we have something to say.

[ChrisMike1919]

Maybe he's shy.

[Asker]

He isn't by personality

[ChrisMike1919]

Ohh...