Why would a guy ask you why you never text him, but he never texts you first?

[Anonymous]

[Drew-1990]

I don't know why either gender does that, girls do it too. I have two examples from my own life. One I had a girl who was just a friend get mad if I didn't text her but she almost never started the conversation except at the end of the day to ask why I didn't text her. Another I was wrongfully told to back away from a girl and I was annoying her and so I didn't text for a week. She asked a friend why I stopped texting her but she never sent a text that whole week either till she learned why I stopped. I don't get it honestly. If you want to text someone why does the other person have to start the conversation.

[Anonymous]

Because he (stupidly) assumes if you like him, you would make the first move or reach out to him first-

But you're absolutely right- if he wants to talk to you so badly, ask him to text you sometime! It really does go both ways anon: you can text him first when you want to or feel like it, but he should do the same if he wants to chat with him. If only one of you is texting first, it seems like the other person isn't putting any effort into getting to know the other person... or seems interested.

[HateyouxD]

y'all both just waiting lol
He could want you to be clingy
Or he is nervous or uninterested

[Anonymous]

Because he wants you to do all the work. Men like him will do nothing but waste your time and gaslight you when you call them out.

[prettyprincess124]

He;s attention seeking to see if you like him or interested lol