Why do people assume something is wrong with a woman if she’s always single? Why is it something people care so much about?

[Tinytina09]

Ever think maybe she hasn’t met the right guy, or she’s self improving? Doesn’t want a relationship at that point in her life? Guys around her don’t have anything to offer her?
People constantly think a woman is crazy or ugly on the inside and that’s why she’s alone. I don’t understand the logic.

[TheLoneTerran]

I dunno. If a woman is single she's a strong, empowered woman who doesn't need a man. If a guy is single, he's a loser. I haven't heard of women being crazy or a bad person for being single in a long time, like the crazy cat lady stereotype. But that's been gone for a long time. At least around here.

[Fireguy17]

nothing wrong with either males or females staying single.
just because someone is single, doesn't mean that they are unteable, it could be for a variety of reasons.
they could be focused on their career, education, maybe they just started a business, taking care of a sick family member, or the most common reason just got out of a shitty relationship, and really aren't ady to date again.

[Anonymous]

Because the older generations got married, had kids, settled down and bought homes in their 20’s and Millennials can’t even get out of their parents houses. Not trying to be rude, but as a millennial myself it’s not hard to see how different things are now.

[Tinytina09]

LOL I’m a millennial and I make 150K, have a nice apartment, a horse, etc. All about people’s choices.

[Opinion Owner]

It was a generalization. Most millennials aren’t successful in their careers or their love lives.

[Tinytina09]

It takes a lot of effort to do a lot of things well.

[DWornock]

Because they know what is wrong with her. That is, they know that she has unrealistic expectations and is chasing after the hot Chads that have many options and will only fuck her and the she rejects the very nice Roberts in her league that want to marry her.

[Anonymous]

I understand that. It's the same thing for guys. People wonder why I'm not married with kids. Maybe I haven't met the right girl, or I'm tired of girls that just want casual sex? You're just waiting for the right guy and don't want to settle, that's fine.

[IsoUser]

I Just feel that as a twenty something man or woman that you haven't really found yourself yet in general, in Career, in life to determine the best person you want to be regardless of race. Once again just my humble opinion.

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Personal opinion and belief that at certain age certain things should be had or in place, blame society majority rule

[sirderpsalot123]

I only think that if she's constantly saying that she's single because all men are trash.

[Tinytina09]

I think a lot of guys are great. I think you have to tread lightly when dating in order to see people’s intentions. Also don’t meet them on dating apps but if you do be very cautious.
I don’t understand the whole men are trash thing. Maybe I’m not around trashy guys and avoid negative people so they’re not in my field of vision LOL

[sirderpsalot123]

I agree. When I hear women say that every single man they have met has been terrible, it just makes me think that aren't capable of taking personally responsibility. Like you said, there's nothing wrong with working on yourself. Can't do that if nothing is ever your fault.

[Tinytina09]

It really depends on the situation though too. But I would think if a guy wasn’t treating me well I’d drop it and move on to someone else. I think we sort of attract and keep around people who feel the same way about us that we do about ourselves.

[sirderpsalot123]

Fair point.

[007kingifrit]

it's unnatural to be perpetually single. something must be wrong

[Tinytina09]

Maybe the men don’t have anything to offer her around her, especially if she’s exceptional. That’s my case usually.

[007kingifrit]

hahahahah, no. that's never the case

when in conflict between yourself and the world it is always you that is the problem. not the world

[Anonymous]

You know what’s even better? Having people wonder if you’re gay because you don’t have a girlfriend or hit on anything with a vagina.

[driven159]

Maybe she is the smart one. have you looked at all the people with issues with relationships?

[KrakenAttackin]

Because something IS wrong if she is always single, that's why.

[Slim57]

Because a woman can get someone with no effort whatsoever by simply existing

[Anonymous]

NAH NAH NAH

women are selfish lol
hey just wanna get their way