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Another comment on another post has inspired this question, albeit from a younger member with little life experience yet. But it got me thinking, because I actually see a lot of people in relationships to have that “status” who aren’t even happy too, it’s so ironic in many ways.
I would assume that she’s a career driven woman who got no time for a relationship. I don’t really see it as a positive nor a negative thing, everyone has their own priorities. I personally am not career driven and would like to settle down before I hit 35 tho lol
We work to support our families not for the sake of work itself. People who think work is an end on itself are shortsighted and sadistic wannabe slaves.
No matter how much your employer might tell you your making a difference the reality is your just making him/her money for his/her family. Never let them fool you into giving up your life for them.
@Monorprise i work to support MYSELF.
@Brittanyroseee If your lucky you will one day have a family that consist of more than simply yourself for which you will have the honor to support.
🤣nah i like only supporting myself.
Especially look at this economy why would i want to support anyone else? Tf? That is a huge financial burden….
I also don’t want kids anyway. Marriage yeah. Partner yes. Kids? Not so much…. Don’t care much for them to have them. Pets? Definitely yes, more of an interest for me. Less expensive. More independent. Not as time consuming. Not annoying either. Pets are also cute. Babies? Eh. Not really.
@monorprise actually I’m working for myself and making my own money! m as well as choosing my own work hours etc!
@Brittanyroseee Because at the end of the day you will die, and if you live only for yourself that will be the end of all that you ever were, and much of what your ancestors were. Ancestors who suffered incomparably working their entire lives simply to make it possable for you to have one.
Refusing to carry forth the torch of life as it had been for you by countless generations before you, and living for yourself alone as such is perhaps the most selfish thing anyone can do.
As for today's economy, never before in human history has it ever been so safe, have you ever had access to so many goods and services. I am willing to bed simply because you have the time and money to talk to me you live in one of the most luxurious places on earth.
You point to an unparalleled pile of riches and security when you point to the modern economy, which frankly only underscores how selfish your position really is.
@Monorprise wouldn’t it be selfish for me to have kids I don’t even want nor would even like?… like come on.. don’t you think kids should be wanted? Desired by their parents? I don’t care for kids much. I especially don’t like babies and i would not want to spend my time taking care of one 24/7. Or even a toddler. I have no patience for that type of thing. I don’t have interest in children either. I never have really.. i have interest in animals… it’s not a bad thing. People should have kids because they want them.
@monorprise it’s my life at the end of the day so if i want to live it for myself im 10000% allowed to do so. Kids are not an obligation or requirement. I don’t want to take care of babies or children. I like my own company and only being responsible for myself..
I don’t give a fuck what my ancestors think. I live how i wanna live. I also was adopted. So yeah😂I wasn’t wanted.
I also see children as baggage. Sorry, but if i have a relationship or marriage with someone and they decide to leave me for whatever reason, I don’t want their baggage which is children.. I don’t want to be tied down to kids and have that reminder. I’d rather marry someone and have no kids, and if they leave me, divorce/break up. Good bye. Therapy. Heal. Move on. No baggage, no reminders, no burden of kids.
I also simply have no interest either. I enjoy being kept to myself and being free to do what i want as i please and having money to spend on myself and no noise and not having my life or schedule restricted because of another human… i enjoy my privacy, and being able to sleep. I also don’t want to change diapers or clean up after someone else.. at least dogs poop outside and cats poop in a litter box.. kids also throw tantrums… they cry a lot. Scream. Demand things. Nonstop talk. I can’t have someone glued at my side constantly. I can’t ☠️ I’d rather have a dog or cat follow me around. They don’t talk and are trainable
@Brittanyroseee I find women who like animals like their own babies just as much if not more. I think your been per-conditioned by negative children stereotypes in a toxic culture.
So instead your mothering is redirected towards children who never grow up (because they can't), and are clearly not yours. Again because the same cultural leaders focused on the same cultural messages in nearly all of the media to which you been exposed.
@Brittanyroseee Pets are baggage, children are investments that grow up and bare fruit most all of the time.
@Monorprise i have always felt this way. Since i was a kid myself. Literally I remember being 4 years old and my moms friend was over with her baby and i wanted nothing to do with it. My friends have kids, i feel nothing towards them.
Even when i was in highschool my goal has always been to go to vet school, save up money, work in the field i want, get my own place and get the pets i want. It’s honestly never been marriage and a family… people can leave. I’d rather be independent instead of relying on marriage for financial support. Kids are baggage, especially if your partner either dies or leaves you and your stuck with their offspring. I would not like that. I also just don’t want to take care of a child. I have no interest in babies or children. I never have like i said. I never even felt “baby fever” never. I don’t even find babies cute or appealing
Also children have the capability of turning into horrible human beings. Animals are pure and innocent…
I prefer my own company and being free to do whatever i want without being tied down to another person.. i also enjoy having money for myself as well
I don’t want kids and I don’t really like them.
@monorprise look, I don’t think you understand that a child is a huge responsibility. Not everyone likes kids enough to literally sacrifice their body, and entire life for them. A child requires dedication. Sorry but I don’t like kids enough to dedicate my life to one… I don’t want the responsibility of one. I don’t want to take care of one. I don’t want to be stuck with one 24/7. I don’t want to do anything with a baby or child. Its not social media or society programming. It’s personally how I feel and I have felt this way my whole life. I have always been back/forth about the kid idea and now that im 25, I decided not to have kids because its a huge responsibility and they are very time consuming and expensive. I don’t want to be a stay at home mom taking care of kids. I especially don’t want to be stuck with kids if my spouse dies, or leaves me. Yes i would love to have a relationship one day but I don’t want kids involved. That is me personally.
@Brittanyroseee How exactly is a pet different than a kid in terms of obligation the fact that you can get rid of it willy-nilly?
Technically children can be put up for adoption too, its just a lot harder, gut wrenching and you would be condemned for it.
Regarding your notion that animals are somehow morally superior to people that is only because your imagining intentions and motivations that simply are not what you think they are.
Animals are by no means pure or innocent, if judged by human standards they not only can but often would be regarded as "horrible human beings".
At least with a human kid you got a very good chance that you actually can raise them to be good people. A cat will always see you as a source of food and if you were small enough eat you too. A dog will see you as a member of the pack and if you were small or weak enough dominate you.
HAHAHAHAH kids and pets are completely different. I never said they were the same because their not. Pets, dogs, cats, birds, reptiles, horses, etc will never require the same amount of responsibility a child does. Pets don’t restrict your entire life or schedule… i have pets. Im able to leave during the day to go to my fulltime job, run errands, or see my friends. Kids, you can’t do that.. pets are independent.
I also would never get rid of my pets. I am choosing to be child free so I don’t end up miserable and regretting the child…
Animals are pure and innocent. Hence the lord says animals cannot sin. Only humans sin…..
Many serial killers were raised right and still ended up doing horrible things.. its not always how you raise them. Genetics play a big factor just saying.
Sorry but I don’t really have much interest in children. Never have. I said that.. I especially don’t really like babies.. im being honest. Im entitled to how i feel. Not everyone wants kids or likes them. My preference is animals. Also, animals are more loyal than people. Have you not heard of crime cases where spouses will kill their spouse? Or kids kill their own parents? Watch killer kids… search up Robby Hawkins. He had a loving family but he displayed psychopathic tendencies as early as he was a child. His parents tried to get him help many times and one day he shot up a mall. Have you never heard the term psychopath? It’s usually genetic and people show signs as early as 3 or 4 years old… just saying
Kids are a big responsibility and I don’t have interest in that. Have a good day!!!
Oh one more thing I don’t want to be pregnant either or give birth. No just no. Gross.
I also prefer my sleep too and not having to wake up throughout the night to a crying infant… i love my sleep…
I should also mention i enjoy kicking back relaxing being lazy instead of you know.. spending all my time at home caring for a baby while my husband works. Doesn’t sound appealing to me..
I also don’t want to be stuck with a kid all the time. I enjoy being kept to myself tbh.
at least pets don’t throw tantrums or talk back…
A dog that is well trained will listen more than a 5 year old HAHAHAHAH
Changing diapers also sounds gross to me. at least dogs shit outside and a cat shits in a box and you use a scooper not your bare ass hands..
I wouldn't presume such a thing. Maybe she was busy with education an/or career and enjoying life. Maybe she wasn't ready to settle down when she was younger and never found the right man, especially if she isn't that interested in having kids. There could be lots of reasons why she wasn't married.
I had no interest in getting married until I was in my 30s. I met my future wife when I was 40. She is 2.5 years younger. We got married two years later. Both of us had had full lives before we met but we had never been married.
We've been happily married now for 26 years.
Relationships don't make you happy, you do. If your not going to do the work to make yourself happy you won't be happy. No one, man, or woman can change that.
So stop equating happiness with a relationship that is a misleading paradise. Relationships are about mutual security, and children. Not your emotional state.
I applaud this answer 👏🏽
Yes, I have heard that a woman has a greater chance of being killed by a terrorist than she has finding a husband after age 40.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/Dk5ngYS-HEsLMFAOAOAOAO
My sister is 39. She own properties, cars, good income and she works 2 jobs. She is not interested to get married and have kids. I asked her about her choice and she says her career is everything because she enjoys her own company. She finds her peace by being with herself almost all the time. Different people have different view on life but yea that is going out of the norm so expect some disagreements from the society.
I love how people with zero relationships skills at as if they could just slap one together if they wanted to
Im a career person too and I also prefer my own company as well. Society expects people to have kids and to get married, but everyone has different interests and priorities in life
@Brittanyroseee
Life is about people.
My ability to have children allows me to create the family I’ve always wanted
what more could a person who is surrounded by people who love them ask for in life
The key to a good life is to surround yourself with good people who love you unconditionally
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I personally don't think there's anything wrong with her. Some people don't want romantic relationships, enjoy being by themselves, etc. And there's some people that are just single just because they are (and might be going at their own pace in life).
Not at all. As people mature they see more flaws in people and get pickier. The standards are raised and they don’t settle for ok people. They strive for the best or nothing at all.
I completely agree with this. Just look at the amount of toxic answers here already pro being settled/trapped into something people typically aren’t really ready for at an earlier age. Maturity speaks volumes without saying a word sometimes.
I don't like assuming anything about anyone but I know some women in their late 30s who are still single and I can totally tell why they're single and why it's hard for them to maintain a relationship or even get in a relationship with someone. Others I really don't understand how they're still single.
Relationships and marriages are so overrrated and the love in them is shortlived. If it was worth it then angelina joile, marylin monroe, Heidi Klum would have the best marriages. Ask any divorce lawyer how many marriages end. Money is the most important thing. If a woman is in her late 30s and still broke that would surprise me
they presume whatever the hell they want... but they don't know shi if they not in her shoes... or affordably bought heels.
In my experience, if a woman is not married by the time she reaches her early 30s, it’s usually because she’s had a tough past (divorce, single parent, etc). If she chooses that path before reaching her 30s, it’s one thing but if it’s after reaching her 30s, then it’s usually due to a tough past and they’re usually not stable women.
One more thing though, there are those, like @MzAsh that come from the bottom of the barrel part of society, the part that everyone pretends to ignore that they exist that will go around with wild naive idealistic notions, but as expected when it's their turn to take a hit, they blame everyone else and play the victim.
Hypocritical morons are the bane of why empires rise and fall. You know, she once told me that there's nothing quite like dressing up a like a horny dog and fucking a dog in the ass. LOL
@mzash did you really tell him that?
The same people who wear a wrist brace for their vice grip on their own dick and Cheetos stained fingers on the other hand.
To quote the great Kevin Samuels:
"If you are over 35 and you are not married, you are a leftover woman. You are what is left. Men know there is likely something wrong with you."
You and him both are assholes
"great Kevin Samuels:"
You mean a loser who only got somewhere because other losers liked what he said. He was a nobody on the internet - it's not like he actually achieved anything of value in life.
@BlackBeauty90 why so bitter?
@AnusNdaPainus Hardly bitter, I'm just stating reality. A loser's a loser supported by losers.
@BlackBeauty90 tell that to the women he helped find husbands and the men who credited him with taking the guns out of their mouths. Also, by your standard every influencer is a loser.
@DextroShade yes of course every influencer is a loser, that's why they appeal to the losers in society
@DextroShade same reason why proverbial trash like Biden who is sexually inappropriate towards women AND girls on national TV got into power. The outcasts, rejects and contribute little to society voted him into power
@BlackBeauty90 are you fucking kidding me? Biden was put into power by dumbfuck woketards, feminists, and other idiots! The same people will weaponize allegations of abuse against people they don't like such as Andrew Tate, Julian Assange, Russell Brand, and Brett Kavanaugh while they will overlook the proclivities of Biden and everyone else on Epstein's pedophile island guest list!
@DextroShade yes you moronic idiot he was put into power by social rejects much like how influencers are
Shame, insults, guilt and the need to be right
Low IQ individuals will judge someone just by their age.. but who cares it helps to weed them out :)
A couple of years ago maybe. But things have changed. Most people either are or will be single within a number of years, so it may end up that people in relationships are the odd ones out.
No, I'm single and in my 30s and nothings wrong with me, I just haven't found a match yet. Why would I assume women are immune to the same situation?
I don’t care what people assume or presume about my singleness. They don’t know me or my life. 🤷🏽♀️
No, she will not just settle for someone just to be 'attached'.
It's completely ok to be single I would say. Not every person is capable of sustaining the cons of having a relationship.
Honest answer... yes, it is definitely seen as a negative. But not necessarily a deal killer.
Yes.
women only get less attractive as they age
30 and single means you wasted your best years
Why would i waste my 20s raising kids and being married?
I don’t even want kids so time isn’t important to me.
@Brittanyroseee because nature says that’s your best window for having children
@Brittanyroseee iVF isn’t just some one time thing it’ll cost you hundreds of thousands
Also because you are much more attractive when you’re younger it’ll be easier to attract a good mate
I’m at the point in my life where I’m noticing all the women my age are getting fatter and less attractive while all the men like me are only making more money and becoming more muscular
Im not doing IVF. Cuz I don’t want kids lol
Do you only see women as worth it if she reproduces?
Thats cool, i make money to support myself. Not anyone else
@Brittanyroseee no it’s just the ones who do reproduce take the highest priority over the leftovers
Oh, so women who don’t want kids are leftovers? That is messed up! What about the men who also don’t want kids either? Are they also leftovers? You are very mysoginistic.. and you have very backwards thinking. It’s 2023.
My brother is 33 years old and is married to his highschool girlfriend and they both don’t like kids and don’t have any. They have pets instead. Same with my 67 year old aunt who has been married for 30 years. Her and her husband are childfree and have a dog. Oh and my coworker is also married and her and her husband don’t want kids either… kids are a choice. It’s not like an obligation and same with marriage too.
I don’t want kids either. Im open to a relationship, a life partner, but not children.
And yes, there are plenty of men out there who don’t want kids either…
@Brittanyroseee you’re right about there being men who don’t want kids
How else would there be so many single mothers
Also why are you talking about kids I’m talking about the fact that most men prefer younger women because they’re more attractive and have lower body counts
Because whenever people or MYSOGINISTIC men talk shit on women in their 30s, it’s usually because she's not married and doesn’t have kids. I've seen it a lot.
@Brittanyroseee
Name something more remarkable that human can do besides making another human?
Yep. You only see the point of life is to reproduce. You proved my point that you are one of those men..
I don’t want to make another human being🤷🏼♀️I don’t want to be pregnant personally or give birth. I don’t want to take care of a baby… i like my own company
I have 0 interest in kids
@Brittanyroseee
exactly. Nothing.
You may children as a burden but myself and many others would like to fully experience life
@Brittanyroseee see
There is more to life than just raising kids….
Yes i see children as a burden because it’s PERSONALLY not something I want… im not interested in babies or children.. I wouldn’t want to have to be a stay at home mom taking care of one 24/7. I have no patience for babies or kids.. I don’t even have a maternal instinct nor have i ever even felt “baby fever”. there's nothing wrong with that. It’s just How I personally feel and i have felt this way my whole life. Like my goal has been to get a career and be able to support myself. Its not to get married and raise a family sorry. But people can leave and i would never depend on marriage for happiness or financial stability.
“Many would like to experience life” people experience life in different ways…
I also would be MISERABLE if my partner died or left me and im stuck with their offspring. I would see that child as a burden and i would regret it. I would rather be in a relationship with no kids involved and if he leaves me for whatever reason, breakup/divorce bye bye move on with therapy. No baggage.
@Brittanyroseee ma’am you have been duped
LIFE IS ABOUT PEOPLE!
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Life is how i want to live it. Bye
Im not having a kid I don’t desire. Thats so selfish. Im being responsible. Im not interested.
They are a huge responsibility and are expensive and time consuming and I don’t really like them anyway. Sorry
I like working and making money more than raising a child I won’t feel anything for… i lack maternal instinct
@Brittanyroseee what would you know about having a child? Don’t tell me about something you are too cowardly to experience.
They are a lot of work buddy and you should know this. They are very expensive and very time consuming… you should also know this… kids require sacrifice and dedication… your life becomes restricted once you have a child. I don’t want that responsibility because im not interested enough. Plain and simple. I also like my own company. I would be annoyed having to take care of a baby or toddler or young kid. I wouldn’t like having someone glued at my hip 24/7 and having to take them everywhere i go and having my life restricted.
I also don’t want to be pregnant or give birth… no thanks..
Its my choice and my personal opinion and feelings.
@Brittanyroseee then shut up and let real women put their maternal instincts to use.
🤣i guess im not a real woman simply cuz I don’t want kids and I don’t have a maternal instinct
I am also not stopping anyone from having kids but the bashing on people who are not married and don’t have kids should stop cuz not everyone wants that
@Brittanyroseee you’re not a real woman because you refuse womanhood.
Ok mysoginist 🤣
Cool idc. Why would i do something I wouldn’t enjoy. Have a good day
@Brittanyroseee
“ Why would I do something I wouldn’t enjoy?”
Said no one who has ever contributed value to society.
Taking care of kids sounds miserable to me
I wouldn’t enjoy that
Many people have had kids and regretted them.
@Brittanyroseee many people have been struck by lightning but does that rule how you live your life
You are living in fear
I don’t want kids im not interested. Bye
Please accept that. Thanks.
Im not obligated to have any. They are a choice and should be desired.
@Brittanyroseee i don’t care you brought up kids anyways
Just trying to Aid you in your struggle for consciousness
I don’t have a conscious cuz I don’t want the responsibility of a child? Tf?
Its a choice not an obligation
Im on birth control for a reason
@Brittanyroseee as in AWARENESS or RECOGNITION
What? Bro bye. Its my choice.
@Brittanyroseee it’s okay you’ll be a geriatric in no time
Cool. Bye
Fuck them kids by the way
Who cares? The angry women-hating MGTOW guys?
they always try to play it off like i’m all independent but they’re usually single for a good reason, like she’s loca 🤣
Please explain your take on men in late 30’s being single then? Cause from what I’ve seen there are a lot of narcissistic men out there in this age bracket dying to sink their teeth into a women that’s wounded (often why they may be loca) and take advantage of any vulnerability she may possess
Asla, kadınlar 30 yaşından sonra kendilerini keşfeder ve finansal olarak bağımsız hale gelirler, yani doğru yoldasın canım.
Usually think something is wrong since most people want to have someone in their lives, people just assume she’s asexual or damaged goods
I don’t think so why would that be the case?
Not at all. Not everyone wants a relationship
Yes, some people would think that, and its not fair.
Obviously yes especially if she has kids.
Not always the case.
nope
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