Another comment on another post has inspired this question, albeit from a younger member with little life experience yet. But it got me thinking, because I actually see a lot of people in relationships to have that “status” who aren’t even happy too, it’s so ironic in many ways.
I would assume that she’s a career driven woman who got no time for a relationship. I don’t really see it as a positive nor a negative thing, everyone has their own priorities. I personally am not career driven and would like to settle down before I hit 35 tho lol
I wouldn't presume such a thing. Maybe she was busy with education an/or career and enjoying life. Maybe she wasn't ready to settle down when she was younger and never found the right man, especially if she isn't that interested in having kids. There could be lots of reasons why she wasn't married.
I had no interest in getting married until I was in my 30s. I met my future wife when I was 40. She is 2.5 years younger. We got married two years later. Both of us had had full lives before we met but we had never been married.
We've been happily married now for 26 years.
Relationships don't make you happy, you do. If your not going to do the work to make yourself happy you won't be happy. No one, man, or woman can change that.
So stop equating happiness with a relationship that is a misleading paradise. Relationships are about mutual security, and children. Not your emotional state.
Yes, I have heard that a woman has a greater chance of being killed by a terrorist than she has finding a husband after age 40.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/Dk5ngYS-HEs
NO! People don’t need a reason to be single anymore. You’re not defined by this. Some people just want to live their life stress-free and sometimes relationships just trigger our stressors so much. Honestly I’ve met a fair share of women in relationships and marriages who were horrible friends, unkind, etc. and plenty of incredibly sweet and caring women who were single and good friends. The quality of person you are isn’t correlated so much to your relationship status.
My sister is 39. She own properties, cars, good income and she works 2 jobs. She is not interested to get married and have kids. I asked her about her choice and she says her career is everything because she enjoys her own company. She finds her peace by being with herself almost all the time. Different people have different view on life but yea that is going out of the norm so expect some disagreements from the society.
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I personally don't think there's anything wrong with her. Some people don't want romantic relationships, enjoy being by themselves, etc. And there's some people that are just single just because they are (and might be going at their own pace in life).
Not at all. As people mature they see more flaws in people and get pickier. The standards are raised and they don’t settle for ok people. They strive for the best or nothing at all.
I don't like assuming anything about anyone but I know some women in their late 30s who are still single and I can totally tell why they're single and why it's hard for them to maintain a relationship or even get in a relationship with someone. Others I really don't understand how they're still single.
Relationships and marriages are so overrrated and the love in them is shortlived. If it was worth it then angelina joile, marylin monroe, Heidi Klum would have the best marriages. Ask any divorce lawyer how many marriages end. Money is the most important thing. If a woman is in her late 30s and still broke that would surprise me
they presume whatever the hell they want... but they don't know shi if they not in her shoes... or affordably bought heels.
In my experience, if a woman is not married by the time she reaches her early 30s, it’s usually because she’s had a tough past (divorce, single parent, etc). If she chooses that path before reaching her 30s, it’s one thing but if it’s after reaching her 30s, then it’s usually due to a tough past and they’re usually not stable women.
The same people who wear a wrist brace for their vice grip on their own dick and Cheetos stained fingers on the other hand.
To quote the great Kevin Samuels:
"If you are over 35 and you are not married, you are a leftover woman. You are what is left. Men know there is likely something wrong with you."
Low IQ individuals will judge someone just by their age.. but who cares it helps to weed them out :)
A couple of years ago maybe. But things have changed. Most people either are or will be single within a number of years, so it may end up that people in relationships are the odd ones out.
No, I'm single and in my 30s and nothings wrong with me, I just haven't found a match yet. Why would I assume women are immune to the same situation?
I don’t care what people assume or presume about my singleness. They don’t know me or my life. 🤷🏽♀️
No, she will not just settle for someone just to be 'attached'.
It's completely ok to be single I would say. Not every person is capable of sustaining the cons of having a relationship.
Yes.
women only get less attractive as they age
30 and single means you wasted your best years
Honest answer... yes, it is definitely seen as a negative. But not necessarily a deal killer.
Who cares? The angry women-hating MGTOW guys?
they always try to play it off like i’m all independent but they’re usually single for a good reason, like she’s loca 🤣
Asla, kadınlar 30 yaşından sonra kendilerini keşfeder ve finansal olarak bağımsız hale gelirler, yani doğru yoldasın canım.
Usually think something is wrong since most people want to have someone in their lives, people just assume she’s asexual or damaged goods
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