Girl said yes to dinner. But she wants another guy to come along with us... I am confused?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

It is not difficult to comprehend.

She needs protection because she does not feel comfortable being alone with you because she expects to get in trouble.

She fears that you may have more than just dinner in mind and that puts her in an uncomfortable situation. Therefore she prefers to take a chaperon with her to ensure that everything will be fine after dinner. Taking another girl along is too risky and she hopes that having another man by her side would definitely be in her favor.

Of course I don't know whether you are a gentleman and had no plans after dinner but the fact that you placed your question in the "Dating" topic leads me to believe that perhaps you were hoping for more.

She is not ready for more and that is why she has someone come along.

[SueShe]

thanks for the MHO

[oiqt99]

Most likely, this means she's trying to keep boundaries and is not interested in dating you. I've done the same thing with one of my guy friends that I do not feel comfortable hanging out one-on-one with. I don't mind meeting and talking with him, as long as at least one other person is present. I don't do this with all my guy friends, but I know if I met up with him one-on-one he might get the wrong idea or even tell people that we went on a date (which he's actually done).
So, if you're trying to take her out on a date, just be upfront and ask her. If she doesn't want to go on a date, that's fine. You can either decide to set boundaries and continue on as friends, or move on.

[Anonymous]

So... she's not single? lol (couple?). Like other women are saying, I guess she doesn't want to be alone with you, but I also find this confusing because if you're in public already, why does the third person need to be there? But regardless of whatever the reason, I would assume she has no real interest in dating. Maybe that's the real reason? Wants to discourage you, without actually having to reject you? Then it's YOU, not her lol. Some women are like that.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you agree to that you have absolutely no self-respect. Tell her that if she doesn't think you are worth her time for one evening, then you need to fid someone else who will want just you for a few hours.

ZThi chick is either using you or testing you.

[Avicenna]

Say no. And who is this guy in the first place?

A friend of mine was once invited to dinner by a woman we knew from work. He invited me to come along, and unbeknownst to me, she had only invited him and she had romantic intentions (he wasn't interested but didn't have the balls to tell her that).

[MTC29]

Another guy?

Run away.

[Crankor]

That's weird. Basically her saying she's not really interested in you. I wouldn't even bother with the dinner.

[Unfortunateguy27]

she wants it friends only not a date for her

[In_Trance]

Nope. Fuck that