Boyfriend invited girl on his boat and to dinner. Is this wrong?

[goldenbunny007]

My boyfriend now for over a year who says he wants to marry me and has a ring. I’m the love of his life and world…got in a argument one night because he was having a bad day and called me a name. Then he proceeded to block me then unblock me. So I blocked him for a few days to show him I was not playing and during that time he spent time with a girl on his boat and invited her to dinner. He also told her we were not together. He also wrote her another time that same week when we got into a argument at 1 am. How she was. I just found out 2 days ago when we were in Bahamas and he said he would never do it again and is sorry. Today we got back and when I got home I felt really sad and when we spoke I tried to speak with him about what I was feeling and he just wanted to argue and fight. And tell me do I want to move on from this or what. Which I do but it’s so fresh and I wanted to be reassured and him understand what my worries now are with trust.

[Anonymous]

My thing with this is, he ran off to another girl, most likely the same DAY that you blocked him, so you only had him blocked a few days. To me, that says she’s already been in the picture. It also says that he cheated while you weren’t even broken up and he wasted no time finessing another woman. With all of this knowledge, can you truly say that this is the person you want to spend your life with? If so, then I think relationship counseling or something of the sort is in order bc I’d have zero trust in him after this sneaky, hurtful situation.

[Isugorl]

If you believe in second chances, go for it. If not then break up with him. If there is no peace at all even if he says he will not do it again, leave. For your own mental health.


If you happen to give him another chance, leave something for yourself so that incase he will do it again, you will still have a little something to build up for yourself. ❤️❤️

[okeydoke]

You should definitely not get married to this person. Your relationship sounds very unstable.

[Wise4myage]

Not cool, and I don't either of you is ready to get married.

[Anonymous]

I would be breaking up with him even more so knowing he would rather argue you about what happened than talk to you