Girls, Why do so many women end up nowhere on dating apps and sites when women get so many matches?

[Anonymous]

All the matches don’t reply, just want sex or we meet and there’s no chemistry

They find good, attractive men with chemistry when they meet on dating apps but they always think there could be someone better

Other

[Anonymous]

Most men on those dating apps are just looking to hookup and come on too strong. There's also too many to choose from which can be stressful. It's the paradox of choice. "The paradox of choice is an observation that having many options to choose from, rather than making people happy and ensuring they get what they want, can cause them stress and problematize decision-making."

[Asker]

Isn’t the paradox of choice an observation that there isn’t actually that much choice when it appears you have choice because most if not all of those choices aren’t compatible with you?

[Asker]

All men on all apps?

[Flower7]

The guys on there usually are looking for hookups

[Asker]

All apps?

[Flower7]

Yep!

[Asker]

And all or most men on apps just want hookups?

[Flower7]

Exactly

[Asker]

Do you mean most men out of the ones you swipe right on are just looking for hookups or do you mean most men out of all the men on the apps in general are just looking for hookups?

[Flower7]

Both.

[Asker]

How do you know all men are? If you don’t swipe right on all.

[Flower7]

I’m 36 years old. I’ve been dating for a very very long time.

[Asker]

I’m sure but you can’t have swiped right on every single man on the apps.