Is this too much "skin" for a date?

Question

I really like this person so I dont wanna give the impression that i just wanna get into each other pants.

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

No. It's covering everything. But even if it wasn't...

There is no such thing as "too much skin on a date", there is only "too much skin in public"

Think of it like going to a store, which senario is more helpful?: 1. if the packaging in the electronics section is all blank boxes? or 2. if each item shows images of the product or has a see through part on the boxes?

People have preferences, they are going to want to see before bringing it home for good.

I really wish women would stop stressing so much over being seen and stop making men wait to see, it makes it frustratingly hard to date, the idea of becoming emotionally invested, and then afterwards realizing she isn't physically my type, is a lot harder to deal. I'd rather get nudity out of the way first (without touching) and then if me and her both like what we see, then we spend the absurd amount of time getting to know eachother better.

Otherwise it's a lot of time wasted.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Yes, especially since you have a natural beauty about you. As you are, there’s so much going on that one basically sees Nothing. It’s TOO MUCH stimulus. Shorts are horrible, by the way... grandma…bad conservative dress.
—regular jeans and full covering short sleeve top WILL make you more striking. Your facial features will be noticeable in a more conservative dress. Your natural shape can’t help but reveal itself in regular jeans and not so low cut top.
You can pull conservative off well. Lots of people can not. You’ll look better “plain” dressed.

Beach_Girl · Accepted Answer

Maybe just wear something more comfortable and more mature looking. Something like a nice pair of jeans with a white sweater and some tennis shoes and a hat will do it. Maybe if you like the top change the necklaces and switch into pants? It just depends on the king of person your trying to impress and what they value in a person.

Apulu_Imback · Accepted Answer

No that's fine! Something I would wear for hanging out in places like amusement park.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

You look too vulnerable when you show skin, I would show less but you look nice.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Whether it is too much skin depends on what you are doing for the date.

razelove · Answer

Nah, though I wasn't aware that high riders (Grandma pants) were back in style. It's awkward to see on someone so young, but fashion goes in circles I suppose. Aside from that you look great, and that's just my one thing I'd be like "huh" and move on from.

ohshee · Answer

No your good.. butt what the hell
Did you going to get into each other's pants might as well go all the way and trade shirts to your kind of skinny is he going to be able to fit into your pants but as for your skin your Skin's nice and no it's not showing too much

Anonymous · Answer

Oh my God please do not test me with cute petite slim brunette girls I beg you :( Anyway , this is a routine daily clothes that you can wear if you feel good with wearing them it is okay , keep this in mind do not change the "real you" for someone just be yourself no any other one sister , good luck with that lucky guy ;)

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

Did you draw those pics on the wall they’re really good and it’s summertime you could wear a gstring and a cracker and no one could object in record breaking heat honestly you’re too covered up denim is a warm fabric are you familiar with duck butter? It’s inner thigh sweat that gets kinda greasy in hot weather

KelleyNice · Answer

Provided it is not a formal date, that is modest and very approprate, at least in the USA. Very short cut off jeans and a skimpy top would not be on first dates.

On_cloud_wine · Answer

With high waisted shorts, you can get away with a short shirt as long as your navel doesn’t show.. and by “getting away with” you look fashionable and modest and classy in my eyes.

Bambalicious · Answer

No. But it does depend on the type of date because you’re going to want to dress to match what you’ll be doing.  ps: I love your artwork! You’re very talented! Enjoy your date and good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

It's not too much, no. Also, guys aren't really worried about girls "just" wanting to get in our pants. We know that for the vast, vast, VAST majority of you, if you DO want to get into our pants you probably want a lot more too (and you like us). So our problem is sorting out whether or not the girl WANTS to get in our pants.

lightbulb27 · Answer

for what culture? in mine, no, the crop tops are "in". raise it an inch and I'd say no. hope you express music as well as you do drawing, those are very expressive.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Too casual for a date , but at this age anything works for a guy. If it's not wakkinin the park date , i think the guy is gonna be over dressed in comparison to you. Is he a friend turned into a date?

Leshen · Answer

It's not too much skin but I would say that those shorts are a no go for the date. Maybe a skirt or longer pants.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

It looks perfect for a date, although it does depend on a number of factors, such as where you're going.

Esperanto · Answer

Jajaja Not at all. If you like the guy, you could wear something a bit less casual. When I went out on dates, how se dressed told me er level of interest, but hey, this is s guy talking, just do what makes you happy. Hope you have a nice time.

one1wild00 · Answer

As good as you look, you could be wearing an old grain sack and still have them wanting things to really progress with you. You will have to keep your mind and set boundaries. Think out what progression you want.

Snsl153 · Answer

No, it's not too much, but you might want to take a jacket or jumper just in case it gets cold.

TadCurious · Answer

I think it's fine and you look really good. I don't think the exposed skin sends any kind of unwanted message.

Massageman · Answer

Looks acceptable for a date at the ballgame (if you can afford it), or a mini-golf date, etc.  It would come up a bit short if you were going out for a nice dinner at a steak house, though.

saintsRow3 · Answer

Your a Girl he’s a dude he’s gonna wanna get in Your pants Even if you don’t show any skin at all. I would be worried 😦 if he didn’t wanna get in your pants.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No, you're good. It's getting warmer and still pretty modest.

Paige90 · Answer

Uh... that's fairly conservative compared to what I wear!

EyeKnowMeNahYou · Answer

Where you guys going like a fun day to the beach I saw a beach bar that looks actually pretty wholesome

DWornock · Answer

That is very modest and appropriate for most dates. However, if I going to take you to an exclusive restaurant and then to the opera, I would you to dress up more.

jshm2 · Answer

It's a terrible style. You look like you're going roller skating with him.

slatyb · Answer

No, it's not. With a figure like that wear whatever you want.

Th3ft · Answer

Actually that is pretty decent! You look really cute still though! I hope you have a great date!

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

Nah. It’s really what ever makes you comfortable, but that outfit wouldn’t give me the impression that you are looking for sex

genericname85 · Answer

No, this is perfect in my opinion. Not so slutty, that I'd think she's a hooker. But not so modest that i think she'll wait till marriage either XD

rebeccadn · Answer

Perfect for a date. Not too much, not too little. The necklaces and bracelets definitely make it look cuter.

kinggeorge007 · Answer

Top is fine. The shorts are okay too but I'd like it to be little more classy or smart casual. Full length pants would do the job

ChampagneMikeTee · Answer

You look beautiful. To answer your question nah that’s not too much skin at all.. but in my opinion. That doesn’t matter skin showing or not.. if a guys intentions are to get into your pants.. showing less skin won’t change that

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

You look really cute and adorable , no it's not too much skin

sassyredhead · Answer

your beautiful i would change the shorts to a shorter length to balance the look.

ImNoOne111 · Answer

Depends on you, if I dated a really shy girl and she came to date like that, I would say she is opening up but otherwise, sounds perfectly normal

worldscolide · Answer

It's cute and classy, perfect for a first date. No you're not showing too much skin.

VikingWarLord · Answer

he definitely gonna wanna get in your panties with that on

Staximus · Answer

Are you a nun or something? That might be too much skin in 1897

Philyouup · Answer

then dress the way that makes you feel comfortable

Anonymous · Answer

Please change the shorts into jeans. Not because it’s too much skin but because it would look so much better.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

LOL Those are like 90's girl scout shorts! Wow, you must have been really sheltered.

hostboy__fastestlaps · Answer

Not at all, but I wouldn't date a woman who wore only a half shirt

OddBeMe · Answer

No, looks comfortable, nice. Good pick. Be confident. You’re hot.

goodgirlsteven · Answer

you look adorable honey! dont change a thing! you wear how u feel comfortable

EaterPeter · Answer

Sweety you know that is not for us to decide. That is for you and your date. Wish I can help more.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Shorts say casual to me.  Just relax and have a good time.

Anonymous · Answer

No those shorts are very conservative. If he thinks you don't wanna get into his pants he might get the impression you don't like him

Anonymous · Answer

Looks like the right amount of skin for your purposes.

V_Injector · Answer

I wanna get in her pants.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Totally cool. You’re good.

Kiss_Me · Answer

Not too much skin. You are fine.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Looks like a “hang out” outfit

EmbraceThePain · Answer

I don’t think so.  I think you look adorable.

MCheetah · Answer

No, not for May/June weather.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Nope it's not too much

36FS45 · Answer

Nope, you're hardly showing anything Good to go

exitseven · Answer

No, it is just enough.

Reaper1985 · Answer

Outfit looks causal for a date.

RealMarek · Answer

Looks good for going someplace casual.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

That's very ''tame''.

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