About 2 months ago, I matched with a guy on Tinder. I was honestly just looking for a friends with benefits and nothing else. We chatted for a bit and all of our communication has been via Snapchat. As I got to know him, I have really started to like him and would like to be in a relationship with him, but don't know how he feels.
To provide context - we met up twice so far and both times we had sex, since that was the main reason for meeting up. The first time I met him, he put in a lot of effort, which makes sense (mood lighting, music, he really made everything in bed about me). Afterwards we cuddled all night and I slept over. In person he was very sweet and casually mentioned that this could turn into something more, but also made other comments and suggested that I join other dating apps, not sure where he was going.
The second time we met was more recent. I was supposed to meet him the day before and he said he 'didn't check his phone until late and basically left me on read all day.' This really frustrated me. But, then the next day, he told me that he would make it up to me. Invited me over, we met around 5pm. We had the best sex, again the main focus was on me. At this point, I thought it was time for me to leave his place and told him I didn't want to linger. He said there was no rush, he went into detail about his weekend plans, asked if I wanted to grab dinner or get carryout. We grabbed food and watched Netflix and cuddled. I was over for 7 hours. This really felt like a date to me. However, he doesn't initiate conversation, and takes forever to respond to texts. He has also brought up his ex-gf a few times. I really like him and the attraction is growing, but I am getting very confused on where this could be headed. Seems like to me all he probably wants is sex? But, I am starting to want more?
To provide context - we met up twice so far and both times we had sex, since that was the main reason for meeting up. The first time I met him, he put in a lot of effort, which makes sense (mood lighting, music, he really made everything in bed about me). Afterwards we cuddled all night and I slept over. In person he was very sweet and casually mentioned that this could turn into something more, but also made other comments and suggested that I join other dating apps, not sure where he was going.
The second time we met was more recent. I was supposed to meet him the day before and he said he 'didn't check his phone until late and basically left me on read all day.' This really frustrated me. But, then the next day, he told me that he would make it up to me. Invited me over, we met around 5pm. We had the best sex, again the main focus was on me. At this point, I thought it was time for me to leave his place and told him I didn't want to linger. He said there was no rush, he went into detail about his weekend plans, asked if I wanted to grab dinner or get carryout. We grabbed food and watched Netflix and cuddled. I was over for 7 hours. This really felt like a date to me. However, he doesn't initiate conversation, and takes forever to respond to texts. He has also brought up his ex-gf a few times. I really like him and the attraction is growing, but I am getting very confused on where this could be headed. Seems like to me all he probably wants is sex? But, I am starting to want more?
