So we know that women chase the top 20% of males in their youth to try and snag them for LTR and will fulfill all of these male's sexual fantasize in hopes they commits to her; aka female version of friend zone. When that usually fails and her looks are on the decline she will pick among her male orbiters (that are in the 80% of males) for her husband/LTR boyfriend.Black guy being in top 20% of males. The white guy being in 80% that she picks after being single mother. See video to compare.
Usually these men are highly agreeable and easy to manipulate, have decent amount of cash to provide for her with fairly decent status attached.
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Attention whores. Females who are obsessed with social media and often have lots of pictures of themselves; sometimes in revealing clothing. These women will string men along and make them think they are interested in them but once they get their validation will ghost them and move onto the next guy.Some of these same girls will also use dating apps to garner male followers on social media, all the while making men think they are interested in them. The constant running into these women and men having their time wasted often result in many men checking out of dating game and going MGTOW or becoming redpilled.
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Who causes more problems in dating: Attention whores or the top 20% of males?
I was totally digging everything you said, and I would say the Attention Whores. But after some consideration I think that maybe it is the 20% of men that think they are the best or the top 20% of men ( when they really aren't) when in reality they are male versions of being attention whores.
But WTF did you mean by'
"Black guy being in top 20% of males. The white guy being in 80% that she picks after being a single mother."
That's racist AF, my man. Do you really you believe that? So what you are really saying is that 80% of women want to marry white guys, given the fact black guys are still in the top 20%, after turning out baby mamas, and not stepping up?
You realize that speaks pretty negatively to black guys right? I get that it might of meant that white guys are less desirable but more marriage worthy, after the top 20% ruins them or makes them a baby mama. But I get the impress you are trying to say that 80% of white guys get the scraps some how, but again maybe after dating black guys white guys prove to be more attractive because they treat women better. It has a very underlining racial tone, that to me speaks more negatively to your so call top 20% of men then to the bottom 80%. I do believe it was unnecessary, because it made a very well written post I was into and digging seem cheap and wrong.
So take the white and black guy talk out of it and I would agree with you about the attention whores. They tend to chase after the wrong men, then blame men as a whole for being creeps... but eventually they start finding the right types of men that eventually end up being in LTR with. After the women realizes that they are not as special as they thought there were, because they were ruined by the men they dated. Usually taking a blow to their egos once they have been busted down a notch.
So maybe it is the 20% of men that think they are the best or top 20% when in reality they are male versions of being attention whores themselves.
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Ah no, that is not what i am saying. I am saying that among the 2 males presented. The black guy is an example of a male in top 20% who she genuinely had sexual attraction towards (see video). While the white guy is a member of the 80% of males that she has lukewarm attraction towards but who she is willing to be with now due to her predicament of being a single mom and less marketable for a lot of men to want.
Oh well that was not clear to me... sorry. Yeah, its a fact that less desirable men in the looks department are more likely to take on some other guys baby mama's.
Top 20% of males know a ho when we see one. There is a reason we dont wife these women and they are still single for a beta to scoop up in her 30s. I get tons of girls. I publicly and proudly state no hymen no diamond. For some reason whore chase my ass all around town. But im no chump if they were on my level they would be a virgin. And i have zero incentive to settle. So i won't. Im not causing a problem. Let a girl come correct. In the meantime hate the game not the player. Wtf am i supposed to do different?
IF they were on your level they would be a virgin? So are you a virgin? Would you date a girl and wait for marriage before having sex with her?
Or would you date the virgin, while you fucked all the other whores on the side without her knowing believing that some day she would never find out... and that makes you a top 20%'er?
@DaveJord this is flawed reasoning. Men and women do not judge on the same standards. But lets say we did. So say i was a virgin who was waiting till marriage. Well does a woman who dates a successful man need to be just as successful? Nobody likes this scenario. Women would hate that, men would hate that. Nobody wants it. Im quite well off, do i tell girls go away come back when you make at least close to what i do? How dumb. I dont want a rich girl just because im rich and most virgin women in practice dont want a virgin man. That being said virgins of legal age appear rarer than millionaires as far as i can tell.
Well wealth has it privileges I guess... but in the end we will agree to disagree. I only make 110,000 a year... so wealthy enough to live well but not rich enough to entertain shallow women or bait virgins into thinking I am a better person than I really am. I just live in the real world, as retired 45 year old colleting passive income from investments before I reach the age for social security to kick in.
Actually I do very well in women department, and yes I have a girlfriend, thanks for asking though. Just don't get it twisted, brag about your wealth or what not if it makes you feel better. But I do very well and live a very stress free and happy life.
But I would never want to date a virgin, I am a grown man and I like confident grow women who know what they want out of life, and how to treat a man.
@DaveJord "I like confident grow women who know what they want" so dime a dozen easy to get women. Well that certainly makes things easier for you. Low hanging fruit.
I see why you have women issues my man. Do you feel the need to be little people to make yourself feel good about your own choices? Or is it just fun for you because you can?
@DaveJord well we might as well have been born on different planets. My stomach churns reading your description of what you like... by all means you do you but personally id prefer being single than a woman like that. And yeah different things for different people fine but id have serious questions if you felt disgusted by a woman who was saving herself. I doubt you would find that disgusting and if you did my only explanation i could come up with was you hated yourself or were immoral. But like i said i dont understand you at all nor how you could value everything i despise and am disgusted by. If a woman doesn't have her virginity whats the reason to even get married? I dont get it.
WOW... well you are a very special person... not in a good way. Yeah I agree with you different planets, I think you sound like a sleezy lacking in some real self awareness. You are like the stereotypical guy that all fathers tell their daughters boogie man stories about.. you got kids my man?
I mean my stomach churns reading this crap you spue, thinking there is some women out there that will fall victim to you before she figures out who you really are. Like seriously it creepy dude. So yeah, we got nothing in common and that cool, but WOW, egocentric, self absorbed, does not even begin to explain how you sound.
I know guys like you that lust after virgins, because you think they are untainted and once you land one you have some type of ownership over her, and you play all these mind games with them... just keep to them under your finger and you twist your own mind into believing that its because you really are that amazing and it all for her... bull shit it all about you and will always be that way with guys like you. Really easy to take advantage of women with zero experience in the sex department freak job.
@DaveJord actually as i said its pretty hard. Whats easy is to land an "established" woman because they are desperate later on... so the trade off is they are desperate and therefore you aren't held to any expectations essentially.
Not at all my experience at all... I don't date desperate women. I date women that would not be interest in you regardless how rich or good looking you are. They got too much self respect for them selves, and the set a high standard as do I and we mesh on personal level without expectations. But I am not swallow guy, and do not like swallow women. Just because they have some life experience, does not make them desperate... your way off my man.
I am 44. I spent 2020-2021 in and out of the hospital, gaining almost 200 lbs. I have lost most of it (50 lbs over weight). The first woman I got after two years of celibacy was a beautiful 21-year-old. My sister found out about her and chewed me out (she really was too young for me).
I tried a dating app (Bumble) for the first time. I got a ton of attention, and I focused on older women (28-44). I went out with almost 30 of them. Only two were worth a second date. I did really like a beautiful, tiny 44-year-old Japanese women, but while trying to impress her, I met a wonderful 30-year-old. I probably would have persevered with the 44-year-old if she were younger (she is truly beautiful with s perfect body), or if she made some effort to show that she actually wanted me (why repeatedly go out with me but act cold?).
That said, the young woman not on the dating app was affectionate and clearly liked me. The dating apps were creepy. Most women were cold. The ones who showed interest always were creepy in some way (married,…).
Dating apps bring out the worst of male behaviors, and I suspect the attractive, slimy males have traumatized many women, making them overly cautious (this would also explain why only young women seem to be affectionate).
I believe dating apps are poisonous and only benefit attractive male womanizers and loose women.
No offense, but top 20% of males makes no sense. 20% of what? Highest income, most followers, people still in college, the human population?
There are also male attention whores as well. They both crave validation and can be toxic, needy, and overly dramatic. It seems like people just need a better filtering system if they want to avoid these types.
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