Translation: "Don't waste my time. I need someone to support me and my kids. I'll consider anyone willing to babysit, pay for my rent, my car, and my fun."
There are two sides to every story. She probably is already getting child support so you’d just be supplementing that. She seems a lot more concerned about someone helping her raise someone else’s kids than anything about you. If you’re desperate to be with someone it’s your money, time, future and/or funeral, otherwise don’t sell yourself short. Hard pass.
The way she's wording it makes it sound like her priority isn't exactly finding the love of her life. Sounds like she doesn't even have time to get to know you. You're to be her kids' new daddy. Take it or leave it :p
Um I have selected give her a chance but reading in between the lines, I'm not so sure about it now. I respect her for being on to the point in the first message. But it really depends on how you see having to treat another man's kids. It's a big deal.
Why take the chance of getting ghosted again? You don't want to be successful in the dating world. Keep your losing record. The above statement is sarcasm. Why the fuck wouldn't you give it a shot. You're on the app to date. So go on a date
Give her a chance until she asks for money. Once she does that it is time to bounce. Make sure she knows that you are not going to financially support her until you get married.
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