Attraction and age difference?

[Anonymous]

Do girls find themselves attracted to much older men?

[jennifer_bloom]

I look at confidence and self-care and stability more than age but I prefer a mature guy mentally and younger guys are not mature. I know that when I was 32 I behaved like a 16 year old. Now at 36 - I act more mature.

[User2324]

i do.. but i don’t really express it because i don’t have anyone that i know would accept it. i’m the youngest in my family so they all still see me as “the baby”

[User2324]

if i told them i like men 30 & up they’d pass out 😂

[Asker]

Have you had any experience with an older man?

[User2324]

not yet. there was one who was interested in me & vice versa but i was really scared because i don’t have any experience..

[Asker]

Do you want an older man to take control then.

[User2324]

not too much but yes.

[Asker]

Is that because you get scared.

[Asker]

May i ask you something personal

[User2324]

no, i would just want it to be an even relationship if that makes sense.. im young w/ no experience so i don’t want anyone to take advantage of that

[User2324]

& sure

[Asker]

I don't mean take advantage of you, i just meant would you like a man to take the lead, and to teach you, to show you what it's like to be loved and made love to

[User2324]

ohhh. yea

[Asker]

Do you think you're a very sexual person and are very passionate, it's just that you haven't had the chance to express it yet

[User2324]

i don’t think i am. i was taught to stay out of that lane until i’m married 😂

[Asker]

Well that's just going to leave you feeling very frustrated, and if you leave it until you're married, that might be awful, what if you get married and they are a terrible lover,

[User2324]

well then I don't know 😂

[Asker]

I think you need to be able to express your sexuality and the sensual side of your nature, it's perfectly normal to be that way

[Asker]

Don't be afraid of your own wants and desires

[iam_ss]

For me it’s less about the age and more about the stability and maturity that typically comes with it.

[Dinklex3]

I do not.
Never have 🤷🏾‍♀️