If you just started dating, I'd slow it down. It's easy to get excited and accidentally go overboard, but where exactly that line should be drawn really depends on who's involved and what they expect out of dating- those early twenties can be extremely fickle until young adults reach about 25 and people start to stabilize.
Congratulations. I personally don't like being given food I haven't asked for. I'll eat it, but I'll force it down. I get full too easily. Maybe ask if she wants to eat something before you overwhelm her with food like my granny would. Massages, I am insatiable.
Aw i'm very happy for you :) maybe ask he if she wants some food or a massage before doing it? also make sure that the energy invested in the relationship is balanced. you should get just as much love back from her as you give her
Build up to that stuff. Part of what makes it special. Ya don't want to smother her immediately. Just chill, relax, and see how she's feeling about all of it. Use what her body language is telling you and what she's telling you, and just ease into stuff.
I mean you could smother her but something you need to remember is you are gonna have to keep it up through the whole relationship. You can't treat her like a queen for 3months then just do the bare minimum.
Just be good to her. Be a shoulder to cry on and someone she can come to with all the good stuff in her life and take her out someplace nice as often as you can.
Nah bro She goin think you got a Foot Fetish and as for spoiling her. Your gonna become the he will buy me anything guy. She will go to you for Food and Shit. she’ll go to Chad when she wants a dick down her throat.
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Try not to too nuts with it, especially the food. Eventually, you will run out of money and that can spell doom for the relationship. I made that same mistake and the point when I had to tell my ex that we need to spend more nights indoors and I think that when she was starting to see her way out.
Look up bluepill and redpill theory. Most women are going to tell you to buy her a golden Taj mahal and massage her feet and treat her like a God. Women are already spoiled my bro, don't make them worse than they are.
Food is OK but make sure she brings something to the table if not basically you just have a girl for sex and nothing else she brings nothing else to the table.
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