I now have a girlfriend as of last night. Is it okay to spoil her with food and back massages or how much is too much?

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

How much spoiling is too much? I wanna make sure I treat her. Back massages feet massages and food so on. What else do I do?

That is too much bro.

That is good bro.

[BCA6010]

If you just started dating, I'd slow it down. It's easy to get excited and accidentally go overboard, but where exactly that line should be drawn really depends on who's involved and what they expect out of dating- those early twenties can be extremely fickle until young adults reach about 25 and people start to stabilize.

[MCheetah]

That's too much. Like I said before, you gotta keep your dignity in tact and protect yourself at all times.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Congratulations. I personally don't like being given food I haven't asked for. I'll eat it, but I'll force it down. I get full too easily. Maybe ask if she wants to eat something before you overwhelm her with food like my granny would. Massages, I am insatiable.

[EllaNella]

Aw i'm very happy for you :)
maybe ask he if she wants some food or a massage before doing it?
also make sure that the energy invested in the relationship is balanced. you should get just as much love back from her as you give her

[SecretsofKB]

Avid lover of back massages and food here! No such thing as too much of those!!!

But do be careful not to smother her too soon. Unless she doesn't mind at all! Just base it off her reactions.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Just wanna spoil her

[Part2603]

Don't. She should be spoiling you.

[SecretsofKB]

@Part2603 you can spoil each other... that's the point of a relationship.

[TheLoneTerran]

Build up to that stuff. Part of what makes it special. Ya don't want to smother her immediately. Just chill, relax, and see how she's feeling about all of it. Use what her body language is telling you and what she's telling you, and just ease into stuff.

[Koalamate]

I mean you could smother her but something you need to remember is you are gonna have to keep it up through the whole relationship. You can't treat her like a queen for 3months then just do the bare minimum.

[WhitneySnow]

Just be good to her. Be a shoulder to cry on and someone she can come to with all the good stuff in her life and take her out someplace nice as often as you can.

[saintsRow3]

Nah bro She goin think you got a Foot Fetish and as for spoiling her.
Your gonna become the he will buy me anything guy. She will go to you for Food and Shit. she’ll go to Chad when she wants a dick down her throat.

[Anonymous]

Try not to too nuts with it, especially the food. Eventually, you will run out of money and that can spell doom for the relationship. I made that same mistake and the point when I had to tell my ex that we need to spend more nights indoors and I think that when she was starting to see her way out.

[Helpmepls12345]

In my opinion as a girl. I wouldn’t want to be spoiled, I would just want to be treated like normal but be treated with extra Care and love

[Little_Bumblebee]

That's up to you and her. Don't let strangers dictate how you have a relationship.
As long as both of you is happy and content.

[Guy13]

Work less…memorize and rehearse jokes…keep her laughing and blushed from it. Sunflowers 🌻 every now and again.

[PatriceONeal]

Look up bluepill and redpill theory. Most women are going to tell you to buy her a golden Taj mahal and massage her feet and treat her like a God. Women are already spoiled my bro, don't make them worse than they are.

[supercutebutt]

Don't stuff her with too much food if buttsex is your goal.

[Fireguy17]

Don't rush it, just be yourself and you will be fine.
Just let the mood set what happens.
You don't want to smother her, or chase her away.

[Iron_Man]

Food is OK but make sure she brings something to the table if not basically you just have a girl for sex and nothing else she brings nothing else to the table.

[RuthlessAggression]

You can do whatever you want, now that she's your girlfriend. However, be a good guy of course.

How come you only "just became official"?

[slatyb]

Back massages? That costs you nothing. Give her as much as she wants.

[Anonymous]

If you do any of that, you'll drive her away. Treat her like you don't give a crap and she'll be like a puppy.

[one1wild00]

Don't flood them with something you can't maintain, but it sounds like you are doing ok.

[TrillXHippy]

Not really sure but I’ll just say that it’s too much

[Anonymous]

good luck as I said women are prostitutes

NEVER FORGET MY WORDS

[Damcky]

So true!!

[Opinion Owner]

@Damcky

he thinks having a woman will make him happy and things and problems will go away
if he has a women lol

he is in delusion

[Bluemax]

It depends on what she wants.

[TacosRAwesome]

Don't over do it but sure why not.

[clampfan101]

One step at a time. :)

[LimitedBenefits101]

That is too much bro.

[Anonymous]

You're good. I would do the same.

[Anonymous]

Too much, too soon buddy, so slow it down.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Just don’t be a simp

[Anonymous]

Until she says when.