I consider myself to be an average girl,
and I am quite hard to get.
My averageness is caused by me breaking my nose at about 12, I’d easily be 9/10 without that accident and I am still attractive but on the lower side.
In my family everyone is very attractive, starting from my grandparents, that were quite popular and hot in their prime, my parents are also blessed with genes and my brother has been the one of the hottest guys in town. I am used to being around hot people and I am hot myself.
Not that hot though, I am the least hottest one in my fam I think.
I’ve always acted hard to get ever since my school days, the most popular guys in school always tried to get my attention, without success, probably they were just curious why was I the only girl in school that didn’t like them.
The reason I acted hard to get is that me breaking my nose taught me many things, and because I wasn’t the prettiest girl in the room anymore, I started studying and getting into human psychology more. I was always thinking their interest to me was caused bu me being the only attractive girl in school who didn’t pay any attention to them, and I wished it to be this way, unless they did something spectacular that would be worth paying attention.
In my university and after university period, I also acted hard to get, because I believed a man worth having will do his best to get me.
Many guys have tried but I was such a tough nut they gave up or I rejected them and I always wanted them to keep chasing even after rejection which might be a but stupid thing.
Then I met my boyfriend who was the hottest guy I’ve ever met while traveling, he tried so hard to get my attention, he was my first boyfriend and he did everything he could and couldn’t do just to be by my side, I appreciated his efforts and slowly found him to be trustworthy enough to open up to.
However, when we moved in together, I had the final obstacle to overcome, I was afraid of having sex, I had him sleep by my side for a month without having sex and that was si hard for him finally I found a way to relax myself and make love to him but that one month made me think he’s even better than I thought, he wanted me so hard he waited me for this long and was patient and never went beyond my boundaries. I’ve been with him for 3 years and I am in love with that man.
Playing hard to get proved to be good for me because If I didn’t play hard to get I’d not realize how hard someone wants to be with me and I wouldn’t get the guy who’s willing to risk everything and do anything just for my love. And to be honest, I think he’s even more attractive than I am, I rate myself as 7/10 and he’s easily 9/10.
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You don’t get it, the longer you delay dating, the deeper your love and desire for the person grows - Like a mutual fund investment - if you wait longer to withdraw money - you collect more in royalty privileges - think of that as an allegory for your emotional communion.
Because average, not very attractive girls never consider themselves to be "not very attractive."
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Average to you is a 10 to someone else.
You thinking you’re blessed with good looks, you could be a 5 at best to someone else. It’s all personal taste. If you’re that handsome and not having them fall at your feet then maybe you need to realize you may not be “all that” or your personality sucks. Playing hard to get is just someone playing the dating game and/or valuing themselves. So my advice - get over yourself. If you want easy, I’m sure easy will find you…eventually.
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