Is it okay to visit the same places without your guy, that you and your guy visited a lot before you broke up?

[Anonymous]

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And what if I bump into him?

[jennifer_bloom]

I think it’s okay and I know two girls who changed their entire circle after a break up due to embarrassment, one dropped out of a university that was a bus ride from her house where she had hundreds of friends there and never spoke to a single one of us ever again and another left a church she had gone to for over 4 years, don’t be like that, experiencing embarrassment and surviving it makes you a hero and worthy of honour, just like people who get high grades are worthy of honour.

[Asker]

Thank you so much!

[jennifer_bloom]

Yes, all humans face scrutiny in their lives, it’s universal and does not subtract from your value

[Flower7]

Yes but it’s not a good idea to take a new guy there. It would be unfair to the new guy to be in a place where you made so many memories with someone else. Find a new hangout spot when you start dating again.

[20yearsolder]

Yes, you can visit anywhere you want. Even if it is place you and your guy used to do it

[Asker]

"Used tp do it" I can't tell if ur trying to be rude here..

[20yearsolder]

I was being a smart-ass yes, but I'm serious as far as you can go anywhere, if it was a place that you two went together it doesn't really matter if it's still somewhere you like to visit.

[20yearsolder]

And what if you bump into him? You be pleasant and say hello and go on about your business

[Asker]

Thanks so much!

[TommyMountainFigure]

The memories might cause you some upset, but sure.. if you want to,. it's fine with me.

[Asker]

I think itll help with my healing.😌

[TommyMountainFigure]

If you bump into him? Push him over :D.. I'm kidding... You've every right to be there as much as he does though.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you for choosing my answer.

[Loveisgirthy]

I'd never and that's a big reason I don't care for dates much. I'm not repeating anything I've done before. So she has to be down for whatever else or nothin else. And deal. Chucky Cheese is probably next

[exitseven]

I have done this. I was looking for closure. I never found it.

[whereismyjohnny]

Yep.

[In_Trance]

if you're ok with it, it's ok

[The_Naughty_Guy]

Absolutely yes