Afraid of women? I'm just giving everybody space no matter who it is. people are very touchy and you'll never really know what a strangers gonna do or how they'll react. So just make conversation: make light of the situation, compliments, tagging along, I don't know you'd have to read the room and act accordingly.
Approach me with the intention of getting to know me, rather than making me your boyfriend or someone sleep with. One time, this young lady gave me a rose and followed it with a compliment. We had a whole conversation with me then I eventually gave her my number
Lol afraid? ... okay when I get approached they simply say hi and start a conversation about anything while keeping strong eye contact and that smirky smile... It's more appealing than shy girls who make you wanna practice telepathy to know if they're interested or not lol...
Just do it. If its a friendship you want to escalate into a relationship, just say it. Plain and easy, "we have been friends for a couple of months, I wanted to escalate things, what would you say?". Its direct, confident and plain. I would probably be shocked, flattered for how considerately the message is written and glad
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I would get so nervous Super nervous
I would not want them to ask me to go somewhere because I would get so nervous and even if I wanted to go I’d probably say I don’t know probably not or something.
In a different day women were more vocal in initiating contact romance etc it was considered women's lib sexual revolution. I found it was probably like a woman would like to be approached. I didn't always say yes. If a man approaches you and is creepy or just asked wrong
A smile and perhaps some ice breaker or compliment to open up a small conversation that clearly indicates you’re interested in me and would like to hangout or go out.
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So because no guy wants to approach you you think they're afraid of you? Maybe instead of blaming men you should work on giving a guy a reason to approach you... just a thought. But since bitterness is working so well for you just go ahead and stick with that.😄
Women serve no vital function in my life. They being more costs than benefits into my life, and more risks than rewards. So why exactly would I want one to approach me?
I would like to be approached in a friendly casual way, not flirty, just like "Hey what's that you're doing?". Then the ball is with me to take the lead if I'm into them.
I would like to NOT be approached so I don't have to bother telling someone to go away. I have no desire to become a victim of false accusations.
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We just prefer not having to jump through hoops for a woman, when we aren't even sure it we actually like her yet. I always get pink downvotes for saying this, but there isn't a single woman in this world who is worth chasing.
I don't want women to approach me. I just want them to stop playing mind games, be brutally honest and direct (disregard my feelings. I'll get over it), stop playing hard to get, and stop with the entitlement.
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Women can approach in any way they want. Men are not as shallow about the dynamics of being approached. We just want to know you are not going to ruin our fucking life.
Note: It was not the world that made us afraid to approach women... it was WOMEN and their false accusations, entitlement, shit tests, false victim narratives, shaming, expectations, etc.
My dream would be ladies being more explicit. That would avoid a lot of misunderstandings. This is perfectly possible while remaining polite. Same for men of course: no reason to be rude...
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Afraid of women? I'm just giving everybody space no matter who it is. people are very touchy and you'll never really know what a strangers gonna do or how they'll react. So just make conversation: make light of the situation, compliments, tagging along, I don't know you'd have to read the room and act accordingly.
Approach me with the intention of getting to know me, rather than making me your boyfriend or someone sleep with.
One time, this young lady gave me a rose and followed it with a compliment. We had a whole conversation with me then I eventually gave her my number
Off to a good start accusing us of being cowards just because we achieved the equality women fought for.
Moving past that, you could start with actually acknowledging our existence and maybe paying a compliment or exchanging a smile.
Lol afraid? ... okay when I get approached they simply say hi and start a conversation about anything while keeping strong eye contact and that smirky smile... It's more appealing than shy girls who make you wanna practice telepathy to know if they're interested or not lol...
I'm not afraid of anything. Go after what you want and if a guy gets butt hurt then that's his problem
Just do it. If its a friendship you want to escalate into a relationship, just say it. Plain and easy, "we have been friends for a couple of months, I wanted to escalate things, what would you say?". Its direct, confident and plain. I would probably be shocked, flattered for how considerately the message is written and glad
I would get so nervous
Super nervous
I would not want them to ask me to go somewhere because I would get so nervous and even if I wanted to go I’d probably say I don’t know probably not or something.
So for me to be approached is just want “hi”
In a different day women were more vocal in initiating contact romance etc it was considered women's lib sexual revolution. I found it was probably like a woman would like to be approached. I didn't always say yes. If a man approaches you and is creepy or just asked wrong
A smile and perhaps some ice breaker or compliment to open up a small conversation that clearly indicates you’re interested in me and would like to hangout or go out.
So because no guy wants to approach you you think they're afraid of you? Maybe instead of blaming men you should work on giving a guy a reason to approach you... just a thought. But since bitterness is working so well for you just go ahead and stick with that.😄
Women serve no vital function in my life. They being more costs than benefits into my life, and more risks than rewards. So why exactly would I want one to approach me?
I would like to be approached in a friendly casual way, not flirty, just like "Hey what's that you're doing?". Then the ball is with me to take the lead if I'm into them.
I would like to NOT be approached so I don't have to bother telling someone to go away. I have no desire to become a victim of false accusations.
We just prefer not having to jump through hoops for a woman, when we aren't even sure it we actually like her yet. I always get pink downvotes for saying this, but there isn't a single woman in this world who is worth chasing.
I don't want women to approach me. I just want them to stop playing mind games, be brutally honest and direct (disregard my feelings. I'll get over it), stop playing hard to get, and stop with the entitlement.
Women can approach in any way they want. Men are not as shallow about the dynamics of being approached.
We just want to know you are not going to ruin our fucking life.
Note: It was not the world that made us afraid to approach women... it was WOMEN and their false accusations, entitlement, shit tests, false victim narratives, shaming, expectations, etc.
My dream would be ladies being more explicit. That would avoid a lot of misunderstandings. This is perfectly possible while remaining polite. Same for men of course: no reason to be rude...
Lmao. Sitting next to me, making eye contact, smiling, then saying "hi" has worked pretty well for the girls who tried it
You will approach me naked - so that I know you are un-armed.
Next, you prostrate where I can see you - and wait for instructions :D
And: Bring beers.
Straight forward. Her first step to approach me would tell me how she would approach me later on if she wanted something.
Just say "hi" and flutter your eye-lashes and I am yours...