My date was a jerk and kept making racist comments most of the time and said I look like his sister. Why would someone act like this on a date?

[Anonymous]

[zagor]

It is possible that he just wasn't into you and rather than manning up he just did shit so you would be the one who called things off.

Once my sister had a first date and he told her he thought having sex with children was OK. I suspect he wasn't interested and was just yanking her chain.

[BLP11520]

Dump him... you can do better. Sounds creepy.

[Chris_7565]

That sounds like a rough date, he's probably single because he's like that.
Hope you have better luck with the next one.

[Asker]

He said some really rude things. Anyway 2 separate groups of people sitting near us kept looking over. One guy came over to me without ear shot after my date went to the bathroom and said “I didn’t know how long you were going to last with that one. I was going to grab your tab.” Then another couple kept staring at him and looking at me too and kept whispering things in each other’s ears.
Also I’m a redhead and he asks me “so do you get your hair color done sometimes? Because it looks unnatural red.” WTF! I’m a natural redhead. LOL

[Chris_7565]

Wow, he must've really been being rude in order to get the attention of all those people.
Sorry to hear that you had a bad experience, it must've been stressful and a bit scary if he wasn't a goid guy.

[Asker]

Yeah well I lived just right next door so I was able to walk home safely without him afterward. Anyway I’m gonna ghost him. What a weirdo.
Everyone deserves to date someone who makes them feel good.

[Chris_7565]

That's true.
Why even be with someone if they don't make your life better?

[Asker]

Exactly! Thanks 😊

[Anonymous]

When is your next date?

[Asker]

There won’t be one lmao. I’m ghosting him.
I said bye to him and waved and went into my building and I turned around and he was still waiving and staring at me as I walked away. Weirdo.

[Anonymous]

He is a racist.

[Asker]

LOL well he said “every black guy teenager is an asshole.” And then told me a story about being at lulu lemon (of course he shops there... smh) and black guys robbing the place. And he told me also like later inconvo he voted for trump.

[Opinion Owner]

Isn't Lulu Lemon a female clothing brand?

[Asker]

I’m not sure. I don’t shop there LOL but that’s funny

[Opinion Owner]

Well I have only heard women talking about it. Seems kinda strange that he would be hanging out there if it is.

[Asker]

I looked it up. There’s men’s clothes sold there too.

[Asker]

Haha! Maybe he’s shopping for his sister there 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Do you think he has a sister kink?

[Asker]

I have no idea. My first thought was ‘is he just not attracted to me and subtly letting me down?’
But maybe he was trying to neg me or something. Either way, he doesn’t seem all there so I’m not quite sure. I know I’m attractive though so I don’t care.

[Opinion Owner]

At any rate, I think that you should keep looking.

[Asker]

Oh yeah I will I won’t give up. I actually like one of my coworkers right now who’s really nice, but we work together so I don't know. LOL

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, work relationships are a tricky territory.

[Anonymous]

He's a dumbass?