Why did my boyfriend watch bodies of girls who don’t even look like me? All of the same race?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend was doing a race and I wanted to track where he was at bc he had a wristband tracker. My phone died so I used his phone to check and saw 6 tabs of naked girls who are of the same ethnicity. I am a different race so I started feeling insecure and hurt. I feel like I’m not his type. Not trying to brag but people have found me attractive and I workout and take care of myself. So why does he do this? He does love me and we have an active sex life but we are long distance. And we do make sex videos. Could this mean that I’m not his type? I know I’m overthinking now but it really hurts.

[ohsheeT]

We don't know him so can't really answer that.

I can tell that you really like and being in a LDR sucks sometimes

It's strange sometimes how things work out
Or how we are told things
with out any idea that it's going to happen

So you finding out about all of this mean it's a wake up call for him
Or it's about you and if your suppose to be with him

It's really sad but what's even more sad is what he tells the reason is Or if he can just be honest with you.. but you go back home and now it's on your mind every single day what's he doing? Is he with somebody

Bla bla bla. So in a way you get punished for it. Because now it's going to be screwing up your day each and every day. And he won't give it another thought

[Asker]

We talked it out and he was very understanding. It is on my mind but I feel a bit better letting him know about it. It wasn’t watching porn that bothered me but more that it was all of just one race that made me question if I’m even his type

[ohsheeT]

I can understand that was he honest with you and tell you he has fantasies to be with a girl the race he was watching because that would be the truth . And then reinsure you and then show you each and every day you have nothing to worry about. All men have fantasies of different kinds for different reasons
I forget what or how many movies he watched or had downloaded if they are a different race then it's a fantasy. And if he had the opportunity to make that happen. Who knows what he would do

It's different if they are all just random movies

If I was in a relationship and I watched a movie it's because I wanted to get off and and my girlfriend was not with me I would watch get off and be done with it I wouldn't download it.. not unless it meant something to me .

So I can't think of any reason to download load it even if it was a fantasy. That i might have. because I dont watch porn for that reason

Most porn is done bad and done so cheap and looks so fake I wouldn't watch it

[jahaims]

You think guys are only attracted to one specific thing? Lmfao

[Asker]

Yes if you love your partner tf

[Anonymous]

It is hard to find girls in porn who look like girls you know in real life, and we like to look at all different kinds of women.

[Getback]

Because they are different