Is it normal for your boyfriend to never call or text unless he's coming over to the home?

[Anonymous]

Is it normal to not call or text friends or a boyfriend until you wanna talk in person?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

That entirely depends on multiple other factors — Do you two live together? Is he busy working/school all day? Is he just not the type of person who likes to text/call?


Personally, I would say it’s “abnormal” because that isn’t my normal. My normal is to text/call my boyfriend whenever I can because we do not live together. However, we both work do we don’t text for hours sometimes. If we lived together, we wouldn’t text unless we aren’t next to each other or needed something.


If you two live together, I suppose it is normal to not text or call unless he’s coming home. If you two do not live together, then it might be seen as abnormal because usually couples would check in over text or call with their partner to say goodnight or just ask how they’re doing etc.


Everyone’s relationship dynamic and relationship rituals is different… So, whatever you two consider “normal” or “abnormal” in a relationship, is what you should go off of for what’s considered normal or not.

[Anonymous]

Need more info. Today dating is a game. There are unnatural psychological manipulative rules to maximize manliness to a detriment. Its all trash but some guys are influenced into following them. Remember we are nervous too. We WANT to treat you right we just don't know how.

So Communicate.
Do you text him? Does he reply then? Or perhaps that same day at least?
Do you ask him why? Do you tell him it makes you uncomfortable?
Point is talk about it FACE to FACE.
I think its wonderful he comes over to your house.

[Anonymous]

I think gradually the more time you spend and have spent with one another the less you text and the more you just talk in person.

[Anonymous]

No. That situation isn't normal.
If your man respected you and put you as a priority he will talk to you all day long if he wanted to

[Opinion Owner]

Well... I guess most people have full time jobs. So you have to consider that as well

[Cowboy6666]

Still a full busy guy can text for few seconds if he wants in breaks. If he really loves her

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, that's pretty normal.