Is it understandable that I wish I was born gay, since ugly gay guys struggle less with getting a romantic relationship&getting laid?

[Steven8000]

I am an ugly straight guy. I am 30 and never had a girlfriend cause I am ugly and only got laid free one time cause I am ugly. I know ugly gay guys have a way easier time getting a romantic relationship and getting laid than ugly straight guys. I never thought I would say this, but I wish I was born gay. I can't make myself gay because it doesn't work that way. That is why I wish I was born gay.

[Anonymous]

Always this “woe is me” narrative with you. Why do you get on here bashing yourself so often? The problem isn’t that you think you’re ugly, the problem is that you refuse to love yourself. There are people in much worse shape than you in relationships. These people have all sorts of growths, tumors, disabilities, missing limbs, can’t take care of themselves, can’t talk, all sorts of things. Yet they have partners because they understand hating themselves will only make them feel worse and become suicidal. Show yourself some respect, no woman wants a hateful, self loathing man.

[Anonymous]

You’re not a model or anything but you’re not super ugly either. At least one girl liked you enough to hook up with you.