Girlfriend is not interested in being emotionally intimate and declines everytime I mention it. What should I do?

[rehanQ]

Me (18 ) and my girlfriend (18 ) have been dating for almost a year now and over time we have started fighting more and now she is hyper independent and doesn't like to tell me anything about how she feels. When I try talking to her about it she says she has already tried a lot and doesn't want to change anymore in any way. I have also suggested therapy but she doesn't want to go. I do realise that I have been an unsafe person to share feelings with and have sometimes reacted badly which has contributed to this but I want to fix it and she says that she can't fix it and will never open up to anyone. she has had a very emotionally neglected childhood and I understand her but... I'm lost and I don't know what to do. Obviously emotional intimacy means a lot to me... what can I do?

[LazerBean]

Hint, if you're fighting a lot in a relationship, especially this much after just a year, then move on. A good relationship does not look like that.

[Anonymous]

The writing is on the wall buddy, its time to dump her and move on. She sounds like a dead fish emotionally.