Girlfriend is not interested in being emotionally intimate with me. What should I do?

[rehanQ]

My girlfriend used to be very open with me in the first 3 months of our relationship but then we had a fight in which I said that I felt like she demanded too much of me. After that she has always been closed off and never showed her feelings. Recently (4 months after the fight) she started to open up but then another fight happened and now its the same. How should I try to encourage her to open up? Should I even try? I have literally begged her for it before because it is very important to me. I don't want to break up with her because I really love everything else about her.

[Daniela1982]

Sounds like it's over. Either she will have to consent to counseling for you both or you will have to call it quits. You are not in a healthy relationship.

[Anonymous]

You sound whipped. She is abusing you by using sex as a weapon. If she is manipulative with that, she's probably manipulative in other things too. Get some self respect and dump her.

[rehanQ]

Emotionally intimate is the problem. We get Physically intimate often

[jahaims]

You both have poor communication skills. You need to have a deep seeded conversation without letting your emotions cause a negative outcome.