Should I tell her if I know she doesn't like me?

[Anonymous]

I like this girl so much and we've been friends for about 6 months now and I want to tell her that I like her but I'm almost positive I know she doesn't like me because of the signs given. Should I still tell her? amd will this affect our friendship?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Ask her hypothetically.. that way you won't lose her friendship.


For example.. Ask her " Out of curiosity, what would it take for a guy like me to have a girl like you fall in love with him?"

[Asker]

at the same time she's very smart so in a hypothetical sense, she'd know what I mean. Should I just tell her I like her but acknowledge the fact I know she doesn't feel the same?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Nooooo ,.. NEVER try and pre-empt what a girl may be feeling. You may inadvertently persuade her the wrong way... Just a thought here, but if she's as smart as you say she is.. don't you think she already knows how you feel about her?

[Asker]

wow... I never thought about it like that. thank you, I'll ask her hypothetically. thanks again

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're welcome.. and good luck.

[Guy13]

Yes. Tell her…it will toughen you up for when you really give a 💩

[Asker]

well im transferring to the school she goes to next year and she's the only person I know so is it worth losing the only friend I'll have?

[Guy13]

It’ll be cute…and needy…. and sad all at same time…. It’s not you've got any other options there.🤷🏻‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Dont reject yourself. Stay confident. Say you like her if you can't take it anymore. I really dont know what you should do. My advice would be avoid her dont even go to her school

[Asker]

well I have to go to her school... I'm transferring because I missed too many days at my old school so I'm forced to go to this school

[Opinion Owner]

Dang. That sucks. What helps me is finding a hotter person to flirt with

[Avicenna]

I'd keep it to yourself and talk to other girls in order to preserve your friendship with her

[Asker]

well I transferring to her school next year that's why I'm so hesitant on if I should do it because if it goes bad I won't have anyone to know there. and that's the thing I dont know how to get over her. I've been trying forever but I just can't

[Avicenna]

Talking to other girls usually works. It may take some time, but trust me when I tell you that you'll get over her.