Should I tell her that I like her?

Question

I like this girl, and I think she could be interested in me too. I'm tired of thinking what if, and wondering what I should do about it. I'd just like to get it out there, and wonder what could come of it if I do?

xTeacup · Accepted Answer

Of course you should tell her, silly. [:

Wouldn't you want to know if someone had feelings for you? Especially if you had feelings for them. Even you didn't have feelings for her, you probably still would want to know, right?

Anywhozy, you'll just end up regretting it if you don't say anything.

You shouldn't put it off either. She might get a boyfriend or start to develop feelings for someone.

Even if she doesn't have the same feelings towards you, it would feel great just to get it off your chest and you stop wondering what if.

It's truly a win-win situation telling her. :]

Best of luck. Hope everything goes well.<3

hungergames22 · Accepted Answer

I would tell her, but in a subtle way.  Maybe tell her that she's the only one who you can trust, or there's no one else like her... that will both boost her trust in you and make her feel special.  I know I would like that to be told to me.  Asking her out would work probably too.  Then, you would have more of an opportunity to tell her your feelings.  Find something that you guys would like to do on your date together, not just what YOU want to do... If you have a lot of interests in common that's another good sign that the relationship will work out.  Good luck! :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

were all gonna die anyway one day and get old so just go for it you have nothing to lose you'll probably lose your sanity if you DONT tell her  because you'll keep wondering. that's what happ to me I had something with this guy and he played so many mind games I never got a straight answer I did ask him out but he said he was stressed from school and then I don't know I got mad and he didn't get back to me either and things were just left unsaid. I wish I had confronted my feelings so I can go on not looking back.

rocksongwriter · Accepted Answer

"So should I just ask her out or tell her I like her?"

Never tell a girl you like her. Always ask her out.

"I think I was wrong about thinking that she was interested and I'm sure I know what the response would be so I'm gonna move on."

Are you a mind reader? How do you know for certain what her answer will be? It sounds like paranoia and self-doubt are clouding your judgement. Hence, you should her ask out.

jdcpa · Accepted Answer

What is the point of keeping it a secret?

Are you afraid to find out if she doesn't like you, or likes to play games? Wouldn't you rather find that out sooner and move on with your life? Or, do you prefer clinging on to hope and fantasy?

scfranci · Answer

I think you should go for it. Only don't make the mistake of telling her everything all at once. First ask he if she'd like to do something laied back like hanging out or getting coffee. If things go well or she seems like she might want more then ask her out on a real date and take her out to dinner, ice skating, mini golf or something like that.

LaLa19Inu7 · Answer

Well...how will you know she likes you if you never tell her how you feel? Haven't you heard the saying that says "we regret more of the things we don't do then the things we do?"

The worse that can happen is she will say no...but it won't kill you.

Go for it. :)

Would you rather know if she likes you back or would you rather be left in the dark? Your choice.

UptownGirl · Answer

There's only one way you're going to find out then; you'll have to ask her out. If she says no, she says no and then you'll know. You'll know that you tried and you'll know that it just wasn't meant to happen.

If she says yes, then it's a win situation. Don't wait until it's too late.

upood · Answer

If you do tell her/ask her out, all that could come of it is that you finally know and can either move forward with or without her. Girls aren't mean about this stuff, you'll be fine even if she's not interested but assume she is! Go in there a winner and leave like one ;)

LaLa19Inu7 · Answer

Well..if that's how you feel and you really think she does not like you then that's okay if you want to move on...

BUT...if you are moving on because you are being a chicken about it...then you'll have regrets if you don't ask her out because of fear.

lolobelle · Answer

It's always the best thing to be straight up honest. I just told I guy that I've liked him for a year, and now we are going to try to work things out! And if it happens her answer goes in a different direction, then at least you know not to waste your time thinking about what ifs!

chanty123 · Answer

I believe someone already said this, but we aren't 12 anymore! No one confesses feeling. Ask the girl out for dinner and a movie (or even bowling!) Let it happen organically. You telling her how you feel before going out is just going to make you look like a creeper. Let your actions show your feeling at first.

kheserthorpe · Answer

No, never tell any girl you like them, die alone but smug knowing you never got shot down!

Unless that sounds bad. If that sounds bad, then you should ask her out.

To be honest you don't need to tell her you like her. Just frigging ask her out.

LossofWords · Answer

I think you should make a move. Nothing happens by doing nothing. The question is, what are you going to say?

pj411985 · Answer

Ask her out, and take it from there. She's might waiting for you to make the first move; either way one of you has to be initiative. Don't wait too long...Good luck.

Anonymous · Answer

Go for it. Ask the girl out! :D Either A) you get a date or B) You get a no, which is what your going to get if you don't do anything anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

if she's interested, she won't be able to hold it back. if you initiate now, you'll be doing that throughout the entire relationship. confident and interested girls approach guys. this isn't 1950. if you do go after her, you stand a good chance of being lead on

shycat · Answer

go for it... its hard to tell a girl like you or not... you may think she likes you... or maybe she's just being kind towards you... asked her out, confess to her, and see her answer... if the answer is yes, you are a happy guy... if no, you will regret a bit but the feelings after, is a lot more better then stuck in love misery...

ryanfromhere · Answer

Just ask her, because before you know it another guy will and you won't even have the chance.

jadealex · Answer

Ask her out! put yourself out there..as woman I respect a man who is honest and not afraid of rejection..GO FOR IT!

calialltheway1993 · Answer

I say go for it, got nothing to loose BUT what if you get rejected?  Because you will feel bad. Trust me.

-Darling · Answer

Dont tell her "i like you" wtf.. Thatd be weird, ask her out instead, shell get the point.

mxgirl23 · Answer

girls like it when your straight up. so, tellll her.

jujubeetzzz · Answer

being in your twenties isn't that old...just tell her bro

Jpalms56 · Answer

Ask her out, worse case scenario, she says no. But you gotta get it out and that's the best way to do it.

rachel05 · Answer

tell her man! gotta take chances in this life or u'll be left with what if's..

kimster · Answer

just ask her, you've got nothing to loose and everything to gain

Love_is_in_the_air · Answer

u crazy? people at your age don't tell each other I like you lol ask her for a dinner, then walk her home.

thisisme1989 · Answer

Do it. Just do it. You will regret it if you don't.

starlight124 · Answer

Tell her, or get stuck with the what if...  Good luck :)

rocksongwriter · Answer

If you don't tell her, then you will never know what could come of it.  Can you live with that?

Moloch · Answer

Don't tell her, it demystifies you. Play the game, indicate interest through your actions, but don't tell her.

SuRpRiZeD · Answer

NO DUDE DONT TELL HER, DONT LISTEN TO THESE PEOPLE! I'm just kidding dude, YOLO

Rita593 · Answer

You'll just keep on thinking "What if?" if you don't go and talk to her. And if you think she's interested in you as well, then go for it. Good luck.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, if you like her and are getting a good feeling that she may well like you then go ahead and tell her, but don't leave it too long.

Ezmotts · Answer

You got nothing to lose man, just go for it. If she says no, just walk away and don't talk to her again.

rebecca123 · Answer

then tell her she could be wondering the same thing. you never know. if it was me I would tell the person. I think that if they don't like you why waste your time thinking about it.

answermethis20 · Answer

Tell her and don't beat around the bush! goood luck :)

lee-cooper · Answer

tell her mate, you will never know if you never try

Anonymous · Answer

What has made you think she's not interested?

rebecca123 · Answer

ask her out on a date!

catgirl13 · Answer

DO IT!

missxbrightside · Answer

TELL HER :D

bigbang654 · Answer

yes tell her.

Anonymous · Answer

Go for it man.

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