Should I still tell her that I like her?

[Gamjiwooya]

There’s this girl that i’ve liked for over a year now. The other day i was talking to my friend about telling her i like her and he told me to go for it but, the same day, after a while he told me that she told him that she liked someone (that isn’t me). Should i still tell her? From one side, liking her without her knowing, has become a weight on my chest. However, i already know that she won’t answer with what i actually want. And in that case i’m not sure if i should still tell her in person or by text as it’s not 100% a confession but mostly me getting it off of my chest. Also i’m pretty sure that i missed the timing because some things she did up until 3 weeks ago just have no other explanation other than her liking me back. So, should i still tell her that i’ve liked her for a while n?

[DaveJord]

So, since you are 17 and very young, I will tell you what a real man would do. First of never trust a friend or another person you say anything like.

"I hear that she likes someone else."

Honestly how does anyone else really know what this girl might be thinking? They don't so do not trust that shit.

Now what a real man would do is contact and ask her out. Honestly, all she can do is say yes or no. If she says no, then you at least know you gave it a shot and you can move on without any regrets. If she says yes then you are on the way to something good, maybe if you don't screw it up. But you are 17, so of course you will screw it up, but that's okay because that is how you learn and eventually get better.

One thing that every real man knows beyond a doubt, is that you will meet women they will say no, and that is 100% fine. Get over the fear of rejection and just put yourself out there, when you learn to do that... trust me you will get more pussy than all the loser that are scared to ask.

What loser do is trust what they hear from the rumor mill and never take a chance or throw their hat into the game.

[Anonymous]

Do you have her number?
If so message her if you guys can hang out on weekend and go somewhere. From there you can develop some kind of an relationship and then you can tell her.. this is easier


If you can’t hang out you can message her but like don’t message her right away “I like you” without any previous conversations. Start by saying hi what’s up how was your day? And when she replies have some flow conversation for at least that day and at the end when you message talk to you later say “ I’m glad I messaged you today and you are doing ok by the way I really like you , you are very sweet and kind I really hope you feel the same “
close the convo as this and see what she says


Good luck

[roryglimore]

The first guess is that she likes you but she doesn't want to say, so she referred to another guy to see you jealous or something, or maybe she may be playing some kind of trick. The second guess is that she really doesn't like you. But if she doesn't, then you could get it out of your chest and just confess. But you have to pay attention of the consequences, that would make you heartbroken but try to have your close friends beside you when you're in your hard times.

[WhitneySnow]

Tell her. Maybe she still likes you and only liked the other person cause she thought you weren’t interested. Tell her in person.

[spitinthewind]

Unburden. It clears it from your conscious.