It's funny in the term tomboys, since by something from childhood or adolescence not so much with adulthood. I don't know today need to call them either queer it seems or butches , funny how things change. Also many to think the ones who are sporty or workout are these types , especially if they're not in lady like attire the majority of time. But yes, I definitely dig tomboyish like ladies. Because they're still ladies, duh! And it's crazy to think there's anything no feminine about them. There's always a soft side to a woman and masculine men can see it. I remember being younger and honestly two attractive women I remember was a Mechanic or grease monkey and a construction worker. But they also had an on and off switch, because they were also with significant others. One married with a kid and the other had a boyfriend. So yeah attraction is always there. I don't know, it's miniscule to think a tomboy or tomboyish behavior would take away from attractiveness of a female. Lol. Tomboys are dope.
I prefer feminine women. I'll take a girlie girl who can hike, camp, swim, play sports, work in the garden, and tackle any task before her, but still come off feminine. She can look and act like a girl while doing all those things.
I couldn't handle someone who was stupid and completely inept.
She would have a feminine way about her - skin, hair, voice, body, way of moving, choices of attire, and attitude.
Even though she is smart, competent and independent, she likes the lady-gentleman game in public and is feminine, playful, unbridled and orgasmic in bed.
She thinks I'm big and strong and she looks up to me. I make her feel safe, secure, loved and cared for.
It's according to what kind of guy he is. Come on.
Some guys, but not the majority, I suspect, like a woman who wants to hike, pitch a tent, work on the car, paint the house; play frisbee.
Personally, I like a man who's flexible. I don't want to hang with a guy who can't cook or do a variety of things for himself, just like me, and who has plenty of interests.
I've never been a shrinking, girlie, homebody. Take me duck hunting, or swimming in the lake or canoeing; but I like "Hamilton" and movies too. Books and sewing. Fishing and swimming. Motorcycle riding.
I never liked the name "tomboy." I'm not trying to be a boy. There's no sex to working on a car or shooting a duck or scuba diving. Let's just say, I'm game. I'm looking for a similar kind of person to hook up with. Aren't most people?
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Okay well it depends here on what you mean by tomboy. Do you mean a girl that looks and dresses masculine but is feminine in personality? Do you mean a girl that looks and dresses feminine but is masculine in personality? Do you mean a girl that looks and dresses masculine and has a masculine personality but still cares about her looks? Do you mean a girl that looks and dresses masculine and has a masculine personality but doesn't care about loos so no makeup, no sense of fashion, doesn't know how to do hair etc.. Do you mean a gamer or a sports type? cmon I need more than just the word 'tomboy' because there's so much more to that...
They DEFINITELY fucking don't, no matter how much they say they do.
Straight men are attracted to femininity and vice versa for straight women, it's simple.
You may get the illusion men like tomboys, just because those girls may approach men in a more casual "I'm not above you" way, so men don't have to approach them, and then they end up getting in a relationship.
They also may feel they can't offend this type of woman, or won't be afraid of hurting her/being crude/masucline/vulgar around her etc, and let their guards down.
Did you know, that according to science, people need a good personal chemistry and are actually attracted to the hormones our sweat exude? Also, body language matters in the perspective of "approaching an attractive person". The better you match, the more you like the person. The more you like the person, the more attractive they become. There's TONS of sience and studies on this, do some reading before you judge from your personal experience. I have a completely different experience. Others do too. Do some fucking reading before you speak "that fucking certainly".
Yes. To some degree.. I’m very girly with pink and bows and stuff.. but I also have boyish hobbies, and those boyish hobbies have actually caught a lot of guys attention because they feel like I can understand what they’re talking about but still look pretty like other girls who don’t have those hobbies lol
I like women who are feminine If she is hot and just has a bit of a tomboy style then okay, but I just like my girls feminine.
I do think it's funny though because I've dated tomboys in the past and every time they ended up wearing skirts around me because in their words "I feel more girly around you"
Like I never told them that I wanted them to dress a certain way or act a certain way, they just all ended up wearing skirts and dressing nice and looking more feminine for me lol
Authenticity is key. Some guys like tomboys some guys like girlies. But, a natural tomboy shouldn’t try to act more girly to attract guys and a natural girly shouldn’t try to act more tomboy to attract guys. Know what feels natural and fulfilling to you, and rock that.
I’ve usually been with girls that were a mix of both and not too far on either side of the spectrum. Personally, I like a girl that is tomboy enough to want to join me in activities I want to do together, yet still maintain a feminine energy about them.
A normal guy considers a woman who looks feminine but dresses a LITTLE masculine to be a tom boy. Or she's doing a traditional male job and enjoys it. But he fully expects her to be able to dress/be 100% feminine on occasion and in their relationship.
An abnormal guy wants a woman who acts 100% like a dude and looks like a dude to a large degree. A butch lesbian look.
I feel like a balance of both is the sweet spot. I'm into very masculine things, but I put my own little feminine touch on it. And men usually like that because we can talk and relate without them feeling like I'm too much like a man.
Which is why they treat me like a lady but respect me like they would their male friends. I can hang out with large groups of guys without the energy being off and same for large groups of women. So yeah both is what I learned.
It depends on the woman. There are some really beautiful women who are into more... Guy stuff (there are also men who don't look gay or anything like that who are into more girly stuff).
Look it depends on the woman. I have no problem with either or. Long as she is a good person with good morals
Feminine vintage girls are the best. Never in my wildest dreams would I be with a girl that looks like/dresses like a male. Unfortunately, a lot of girls these days have completely abandoned their femininity. It's no longer "in" to be feminine. They think it's weak.
Perhaps boys would if they are very young, like ages 5 to 8. However, guys don't prefer girls that cut their hair short, dress to look like boys, and engage in very physical activities like wrestling. However, guys are highly attracted to extremely athletic girls engaging in girl sports such as figure skating. Almost every teenage guy on planet earth would love to date the beautiful and supremely talented and athletic Kamila Valieva
The woman in the pic really looks good. Maybe even gorgeous. Given that she has a short, BOY CUT hair instantly appeals to me.
Yes to answer your question it is Tomboys. A woman just like the one in the pic but with a better dressing sense, like wearing classy dress yet modern. Shirts, jeans all are fine but better than the one in the pic.
This is only my opinion. For men in general, the answer would be highly subjective.
I’ve been a tomboy my whole life and never had a problem with attraction just being me (not trying, as taken and happy). Heck I was wearing hideous, baggy, neon, pants last fall while out on a longboard. (Long story, don’t usually) With my family 100ft behind me. And was still asked, by a random stranger, if I would marry them (in jest, in front of their own spouse) people don’t even tease if something bothers them.
Though I like to spend with tomboys I'm not attracted to them at all I'd rather befriend but I haven't fallen in love with a tomboy yet maybe because they are too much in their masculine and that's what turns me off. So I rather prefer girlie for a relationship.
I like a little mix of both best but honestly just be you and someone will be attracted to you. Some guys like the butch style girl and other like the Barbie style. There’s some trillion people in the world I think there will be someone who finds your style interesting…. And no doubt their coming to a party near you!
I like feminine females, girly girls. I also want them to be proficient in a martial art, able to handle a katana and able to put a.45 pistol round through the 10 circle at 10 metres. Sometimes shit happens when the man is not around, so the female needs to be able to protect herself and her children.
I like both. They both have different feelings when you’re with them when you’re having fun times or hot times. I like girlies cause they like my singing and they like good music and good shows. They usually have long hair. I like tomboys cause sometimes they like video games and sometimes they have short hair
I always did. I think I dated one girl who was really a girly girl. We went to a concert and it was during a big snowstorm. I had to park about a half mile away and walk the rest of the way. She complained the whole time because she had these fancy boots that were not insulated and had flat soles. Afterwards I had to leave her there and I went and got my car and drove back to pick her up.
I feel like guys are interested in girls who have tomboys interests, but they like them to still appear feminine. I don’t think they like a “tomboy” appearance.
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Not really. I’m not trying to date my male friends. A female is a change from males that we hang out w daily. Sometimes you just want to be w a girl w out trying to act “hard” in front of your boys. To be able to just be loving, caring w out that stigma of men don’t have emotions. I don’t mind a girl who can get up, throw on some jeans and a t-shirt w a ball cap then we’re out. That’s about as tomboy as I’d go. I prefer feminine women.
In my youth I noticed the tomboys were more fun to be around. They like to do the same things as you would do. Go swimming naked. But yet they can dress up really feminine. By putting on the charm. Most tomboys when I was growing up were Daddy's girls.
I guess guys think tomboy won't break as easily as girlie girls. You can rough house fuck and not hurt them. I have had a few dainty girls that will break your dick because they fuck the way they want to be fucked and they just take what they want fuck you and leave you
Apparently tomboys are shown to be more loyal than girlies and I've noticed that from my experience of meeting both, that is actually true. So at this point probably date a tomboy. Plus they don't really judge guys for being a certain way or liking certain things.
Usually they prefer neither, just basic woman (in France at least). They don't like feminine women but they like them with mid length hair, tight jeans, tight shirt to cute shirt or brand name shirt and some sneakers.
Visually I prefer girlies although I generally don't mind tomboys. They just won't get the benefit of me being visually biased towards girlies. It's all personality, but maybe that's an advantage? I guess it depends on what the goal is.
For me I love a girl who is not afraid to get down a bed dirty and be able to go take a shower and the next thing you know she's all dressed up like a girly girl I think that is one of the hottest things ever
Do I prefer females and dress up and act like they have a dick in their hand? Yeah I’m good about that one I ain’t no faggot and I ain’t Phinne hang out with some chick that acts like she has a dick in her hand
Some men I've known prefer a tomboy, but also is very clearly a girl and not trying to be all out boyish if that makes any sense. Girls who can do more dirty work with their man and not be so squeamish of doing getting dirty outdoors, etc.
I like a mixture of both. I have learned that a tomboy can still get flustered like a gilry girl. Two in one.
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Something in the middle I guess. I prefer a woman who embraces her femininity and is largely feminine in appearance and character, but not TOO "girly". I'm not a fan of long nails, big fake eyelashes, heavy makeup and super girly clothes. I also like a woman who is active and outdoorsy and comfortable doing fun things with me like hiking, biking, fishing, etc.
It honestly depends on how you act. Tomboys can be very nice or very rude same with girlie girls and nobody want a girl who's just gonna be rude to you all the time.
That said personally I prefer tomboys. They tend to be able to fend for themselves better relying on them or me less then wanting to spend money to pay someone to change a tire or oil
Definitely a tomboy, I want a girl that's not afraid to get her hands dirty. One that isn't high maintenance but when she wants to look high class she can clean up and look beautiful
I mostly prefer girly girls. My last girlfriend was a girly girl. She always wore pretty dresses and skirts, she loves bubble baths, and she always loved dancing in the kitchen with me when we were cooking dinner and baking desserts.
I'd be MOST interested in someone who knows when to be each! There are times when I have to trust that my helper knows a diagonal cutter from a box end wrench, and there other times when you just want to lose yourself in her blouse ruffles.
Straight up tomboys aren't feminine enough for me and straight up girly girls get on my nerves. So somewhere in between. Someone who is feminine but not afraid to mess up her nails.
As long as you’re feminine and have long hair basically that just makes her athletic like a sports girl I’m not interested in little pink Barbie doll girls that are pussies
@Alexis1313 No I would like to wrestle her but I don’t like pussy girls that can’t swim they can’t go on hikes their nails broken or the winds blowing there hair I don’t like pink Barbie girls like that
@Alexis1313 I want girls that are compatible with me that I can spoil when they deserve it I don’t want Barbie dolls that are weak soft and pathetic that they have to hide in the house all day so it won’t mess up their little fancy hairstyle
Tom boys can be a turn on at times, but in the long run a girl who behaves like girls is better, even tho the first live of my life was a tomboy in high school
Guys will take anything beyond the superficial. For me though, I'd probably vibe better with a tomboy than a girlie type. But the best way to keep me is to just have genuine interest in me.
I do... for many reasons. other guys do NOT... nobody has the same p[inion or likes and dislikes, we are all different... let me ask you this... do girls like cheese?
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