Girls, how do you feel about dating or being around introverted and reserved men? Do you think they are undervalued?

[ShadezMcgee]

[moonpie89]

I've always found it hard to date introverted guys since I thrive in social settings. I never shut up. I always felt like I was trying so hard to get them out of their shell and it was pointless when I love being out and he would always prefer to stay inside. It's so awkward sometimes when one person does all the talking and the other person barley contributes to conversations.

[ShadezMcgee]

So introverts make you uncomfortable because they aren't very chatty and are your opposite?

[moonpie89]

When did I write they make me uncomfortable? Awkward conversations doesn't automatically equate to me feeling uncomfortable. it's hard dating them. That was your second question. Being friends is fine.

[ShadezMcgee]

Awkward still is synonymous with uncomfortable.

[moonpie89]

Omg are you that fixated on a word I wrote? Look up the difference between those words. Awkward was used to describe my situation. Not how I felt. I didn't feel uncomfortable that why I didn't write that word...

[ShadezMcgee]

I am not. I just in turn used a word that could be the same thing. Awkwardness is still an uncomfortable thing which is why I said what I said in return. I was not trying to say you felt that way.

Just a misunderstanding

[moonpie89]

Ohh okay 😊

[faithgrace4u]

No they are not they can be kind, caring and loving. If they don't feel comfortable being in the center of attention that fine

[AmandaYVR]

A person can be introverted but still good communicators. That's what I look for, seek. Introverts need to recharge more often, spend more time alone or having peace and quiet. That shouldn't be judged negatively. What they are like when they are socializing or with people is more important or significant.
I like introverts and reserved people. Not antisocial, or cagey, or severely distrusting of all people at all times. They can be serious generally, but in certain circumstances, or with the right person, I would hope they warm. Well, with me, anyway. Not sure if I care about how they are with others so much. I used to, but I've changed my mind on that.
Do I think they are undervalued? Yes, probably, because fewer will take the time and have the patience to get to know them. I'm not like that. I see it in the eyes. The eyes, and wry wit, speak volumes. And for that to happen, they must at least make eye contact. It begins with the eyes.
As I get to know people, I respect 'Think before speaking,' not the other way around. There are many things to respect about non-extroverts. Extroverts like energy, fun, and many. They want to make people laugh, be amused. I often don't like this type of humour. I prefer the selective ones, the ones who are not trying to impress or call attention to themselves.