Would would guy get mad if woman was late for the date if they didn’t like her/ was interested in her?

[Anonymous]

I was late and he really got mad at me even when he denied it.

[OBB29]

His anger is valid, because you both agreed on a time and you didn't respect his time because you told him at the last minute that you were going to be a lot late. If you want to fix it, fully admit and apologize for being late without talking about how he was late too. Is he angry but still willing to date you or is he annoyed and not willing to see you again?

[Asker]

At the moment he’s annoyed and not willing to see me again.

[Asker]

He denied many times being angry

[OBB29]

I see. A lot of guys have a hard time knowing or admitting that they're angry even when they clearly are. I'd say he probably feels disrespected so if you want to show him you respect him, leave him alone like he requested. Disrespecting his time is a boundary for him and for a lot of people. If he reaches out again, on his own, then maybe you can fully apologize without blaming him too. If he doesn't reach out, learn from the experience. Think, what can I do differently next time?

[FilmGuy93]

Maybe... some people are just really insistent about holding a schedule.

[Freyke]

I wouldn't even be on a date with a woman I don't like.

[Asker]

He really got mad after I was 40 mins late ( I did told him that I will be late)

[Asker]

He was initially late too

[Asker]

I went to see him after work. Then I got home to get ready and it took me time to do my makeup

[Asker]

He denied being mad

[Asker]

Then he brought it up later when I asked him about the date. I asked how he felt about the date ” do you mean when you was late. I forgot about that”

[Asker]

by the way we connected through instagram

[Summeroflove]

It shows she isn’t interested unless there’s a legitimate reason. So I probably wouldn’t get mad. I just probably wouldn’t go on a second date with someone whose clearly not interested and isn’t making effort

[Asker]

by the way I went another date recently. Do you think he brushed me off?

Should I leave at that or text him again?

I send him after our first date thank you text. after thanking him he said likewise and then said hope rest of my evening was good. I said that my evening was good etc and asked what about him. He then said ”nice to hear that. Rest of my evening also went good and I spend it with family and friends.”

I asked him “ what did you think about the coffee place, did it meet your expectations”. I asked that because we never been to that place before.

Then he said” I have to admit it was pretty nice place, I can say it won’t be the last time I’m going there at least for me , what about you? :)”

Then I said “I would go back again, let me know if you’d like to meet there again” He then responded ” nice to hear that you liked it :)”

[Summeroflove]

Hopefully he’s not brushing you off. I would try to see if he wants a second date. But if he doesn’t seem to be making effort. Maybe it’s not meant to be or he’s losing interest.

Just ask him to be honest with you. It’s best to be honest then leave someone hanging hoping they have chance.

The truth is always best. Sure there is a right and wrong way to tell the truth. But

[Asker]

What should I do next without looking desperate? So are you saying his response wasn’t clear rejection?

[Summeroflove]

Maybe he wasn’t rejecting you. I don’t think it’s desperate to show interest. If you blew him up all the time it may be a problem.

I don’t eee how that’s desperate wanting a clear answer though as if he wants to go on another date

[Asker]

Why didn’t he just say sorry I don’t want to continue if he wasn’t interested

[Summeroflove]

Because some people are scared. He might very well be interested I don’t know for sure. But some people are like that.

I would ask point blank if he wants another date

[Asker]

I just point blank asked him, let’s hope for the best

[Summeroflove]

I hope so too! I wish you the best whether this is meant to be or not

[boggboss]

Has nothing to do with like or intrest it's simply disrespectful

[Asker]

He really got mad ( I did told him that I will be late)

[boggboss]

When did u tell him

[Asker]

After he was there already but he was initially late too

[Asker]

I thought he would be understanding

[Asker]

He denied being mad

[boggboss]

Because he didn't wanna come off as a dick but was angry makes sense

[Asker]

Then he brought it up later when I asked him about the date. I asked how he felt about the date ” do you mean when you was late. I forgot about that”

[Asker]

If he forgot about it why did he mentioned again

[Asker]

Then he said that he doesn’t want to continue to date so I removed him from my instagram. Then he got mad about that

[boggboss]

And let me guess he was shy and shaking his legs when he was with u also he did a double take when he saw u 😑

[Asker]

Yess you’re correct

[Asker]

I think he has anger issues tho

[boggboss]

And I think your obsessed as u have been asking this for days yet claim he blocked u

[Asker]

I removed him from my followers

[boggboss]

But u have been asking about him on here for weeks

[Asker]

I just want to know if he really got mad at me and if I can resolve this …

[Asker]

Atm I’m giving him space

[Asker]

What do you think?

[boggboss]

How can u resolve things when he said he dont wanna date and u removed him

[Asker]

I think he was really mad after I was late and even got more mad when I removed him. I mean after couple weeks if I contact him again…

[boggboss]

U think he will just forget and be happy to hear from u lol

[Asker]

Maybe he’s calmed down…

[Asker]

Was I wrong for removing him?

[boggboss]

Yes if you thought that would make him want to hear from u him being calm won't remove why he got angry with u that has not changed

[Asker]

Obviously I got hurt and angry when he said he doesn’t want to continue to date. He should understand my point of view too. Also I wasn’t late on purpose

[boggboss]

Lol u being angry and hurt don't justify you deleting him and thinking he will be happy when u pop around again lol

[Asker]

If he wasn’t interested in me it shouldn’t even affected him that I removed him from instagram

[boggboss]

He was already annoyed with u from before so u removing him would just justify why he would be angry with u so why would adding him later make him happy to see u

[Asker]

I won’t add him on instagram. I have his number.

[boggboss]

OK but again why do u think he would care to hear from u if he already said he dont wanna date like what are u expecting

[Asker]

But anyway I hope after some time his anger will subside and ge will be able to move past this…

[Asker]

Also I asked him if he’s mad and ye denied it…

[boggboss]

There is nothing to move past if he simply don't want to date

[Asker]

Maybe he will miss me? It’s not impossible…

[Asker]

If he really got mad just because I was late and the Instagram thing.

[boggboss]

Lol all u did was date and after that he was not intrested why wpuld he miss u sure its not impossible but neither is winning the lottery

[boggboss]

U was not a little late u was 40 mins late thats a piss take not a small amount of time

[Asker]

We were chatting since last year. We have sent to each other a lot of texts.

[Asker]

We didn’t meet sooner because he didn’t know that I want to date and he’s a passive guy tbh

[boggboss]

So u spoke a lot and met 1 time to which he then said he dont wanna date and u think he will miss u

[Asker]

I’m not sure but I hope…

[Asker]

This is the same guy that was wishing me goodnight

[boggboss]

Lol your acting like goodnight is a admission of love 🤣 is this the first guy you have been invested in?

[Asker]

Anyway I feel he acted hastily

[boggboss]

Thats fair enough for u to think but if that's what he wanted then meh

[Asker]

I feel he was attracted to me at the end of the day

[boggboss]

Being attracted to someone dont mean dating them will work tho

[Asker]

What do you think if ai reach out to him after couple of weeks? Today marks one week since we talked on the phone

[boggboss]

I think he will either ignore u or talk but not want to date

[Asker]

Why are u so sure?

[boggboss]

Because most people will go on multiple dates even if 1 or 2 go bad he said he dont want to date after 1 bad date that shows how he feels

[Asker]

It’s Interesting that he felt that way after doing double take on me and being nervous in the date.

[boggboss]

Again being attracted to you dont mean he would want to date

[Asker]

I think he got anger issues tbh.

[Asker]

That’s why he was pissed that I removed him from my Instagram

[boggboss]

If thats what ya think fair enough

[Asker]

One last question I was the one who ended the date. When ai was ready to leave I asked him what time is it since his phone was in front of him and mine was in my purse. He looked at me dumbfounded and didn’t answer lol. Then I proceed to check the time from my phone

[boggboss]

So what are u asking

[Asker]

Why was he so dumbfounded when I asked him what time is it lol

[boggboss]

Because he probobly saw that as u getting ready to end the date I guess 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

So that makes him speechless?

[boggboss]

Yes because u came late then wanted to end the date when u was there

[Asker]

I wanted to end because he was soo nervous. Maybe he wanted to prolong the date :D

[Asker]

At that point we were there 1hour

[boggboss]

Lol a hour ain't a long date u was only there 20 mins longer then u was late for the date

[boggboss]

🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

It wasn’t long but I was nervous and he was nervous. Also it was work week and the clock was 9:40pm

[boggboss]

This date seems like a nightmare I can see why he wouldn't want to go on another

[Asker]

I wanted to make it easy on him. One time he just laughed out of nowhere at his phone. Who does that.

[boggboss]

Someone that equally don't know what they are doing

[Asker]

He was really nervous. He can blame himself for being so awkward

[Asker]

I think he acted that way because he was attracted to me. I feel like he felt embarrassed for acting that way. He would be more calm if he wasn’t attracted to me…

[boggboss]

Again is this the first guy u have dated as u are making really weird observations

[boggboss]

Nobody is saying its not his fault he was awkward or that he was not attracted to you simply that the date was so bad he no longer wanted to date u

[Asker]

But if it was bad he made it bad :D why was he so nervous?

[boggboss]

Him being nervous could have added to it being bad

[boggboss]

And no u also played a part it makes the date bad lol how is it u think this is only his fault lol

[Asker]

Because he was visibly more nervous than me. My legs weren’t shaking I didn’t laugh out of nowhere. When I asked what time is it he just looked at me dumbfounded. He made some remarks out if nowhere “ oh I’m having surgery on 25th day and I made some plans that day”

[boggboss]

Yes clearly he was more nervous then sure cool but again I'm not sure what your are getting at because that font change him not eating to date u again u can blame it on whatever u want nervous anger issue the result don't change

[Asker]

I feel he rejected me before I rejected him (in his mind). That’s why he didn’t like when I indirectly asked him how the date went and I didn’t straightforwardly asked him on second date

[Asker]

That’s my theory

[boggboss]

Fair enough if that's what u think

[CloudMassacre]

It would depend on how late

[Asker]

40minutes late.

[Asker]

I informed him being late after he was there already but he was initially late too

[PatriceONeal]

What?