I reallywant a boyfriend. How do I get one?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Well you have to start by admitting to yourself that you’re not a “10/10” and that your basic and just like everyone else.
You’re not better than nobody!

Then you go out to a mall walk around and start picking up guys that you’d think would be good partners. Ask them out.

Join a club. Or school or activity or sport where you c an meet guys. Work jobs that have more guys like Security, EMS, Police.
Were you can find some of the best options.

And whatever you do do not spread your legs wide open until you’re in a relationship and it’s serious.

Because otherwise they won’t take you serious.

Dress more modest and honest.
Do NOT dress like a cute girl, or hot girl, or something like that. Or all weird.
Dress serious so they take you serious.

Follow MELANIE KING
On YouTube she gives better advice.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Find some friends at school or go to local activities in the neighborhood to meet people. There are plenty of people your age to find friends who can become or boyfriend.

[Kaneki05]

if you really want one, you can by showing interest in a guy and asking him out. Then if he say's no, move on find someone else. Someone will say yes or even ask you out first if lucky :)

[HighValue]

Go to the boyfriend store (arcade or GameStop) and start talking about whatever someone in there is into.

[IJhonnyI]

Look I suggest be your self and see who comes too you because of who you are

[IJhonnyI]

Don't rush yourself into a relationship even if your ready cause I've been there and I got played not too give you any trauma or nervousness just be patient

[serious]

Well, just relax. You are only 18. Right now it is best for you to concentrate on building a good career. Relationships can wait.

[RuthlessAggression]

Don't. Don't do that. I'm not saying you can't. i'm saying, getting one because you want one, is wrong

[RavVid]

Hi Ruthless, I can't say I agree though I know where you are coming from. Taking anyone of you gender preference who is willing to be with you is not a good strategy. Wanting a comely member of your gender preference is a little different.

Comely ==> good looking, a world view compatible with yours, a sense of integrity etc etc

[RuthlessAggression]

@RavVid I'm sad to hear you think that

Getting a boyfriend simply because she wants one, is wrong. Trust me on this

[BarryLiverstone]

By talking to guys and showing them how special you are. Do you like to socialize?

[Asker]

I do. I have many people I talk too (boys and girls) although most of them are just better as friends.

[BarryLiverstone]

What makes them better as friends? Lack of attraction

[Asker]

Well... some are plain disgusting. Some are immature. And I am too scared to ruin anything with the one I would like to date.

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh you have a crush. Well being scared isn’t going to help yk. But that’s my answer to your q. Lemme know if you want to tell me about the one you like and need help

[kinggeorge007]

Be approachable, be nice, dress nice, behave nice. Talk with them. Develop your empathy.

[lofii]

@chefpapichulo is pretty desperate for a woman ATM.

Don't think he's been in pussy since the day he came

[whiskeyontherocks]

Just relax at 18 probably just ask till someone says yes.
Side note don’t ask a douche bag

[Shamalien]

smile at a guy if you like him. Put yourself in situations where he can approach you

[Anonymous]

You figure out what guys want in a long term partner. Avoid what they want with a short term partner. And never compromise your principles just to be with someone.

[Guardian45]

Stay healthy, educated and socially active. A smile and enthusiasm does WONDERS!

[Anonymous]

Putting forth some effort would be the best place to start.

[Sorbay]

throw rock at head.. drag body home

[007kingifrit]

men respond to touch, touch them

[Anonymous]

Ask one you like out.

[Anonymous]

I don't know! Not my problem

[karmela]

Ok but for what though?😩