Why do women always seem to repeatedly fall for the worst guys possible and never learn their lesson?

[WhiteBoyChill]

I understand that we all make mistakes and we may find ourselves in bad situations every now and then.

But my point is many young girls seem to constantly be making bad decisions and I can’t understand why.

I think its because they lack emotional maturity? I don't know.

Either way I might hold out until my 30’s to start dating. It all depends.

[PecosTheTraveller]

This is the most asked question through out the dacade by young men...

I won't go into why they choose such men but I can tell you feel you have ko chance with women as a young man. You would also categorise yourself as a good/nice guy.

1) Be good to a girl but never put her needs above urs.
2) Trade ur need to be loved by a particular woman (people in general) for ur need to respected. If a woman can not fully respect you she can not be attracted to you.

3) Focus on what makes u attractive rather than what makes u likeable...
So work on ur body to look it's best, your ability to talk and be interesting, make experiences, work on ur fashion, your sex game, ur MASCULINITY.

4) Do not stay with a girl only because u like her. Stay with her because the is room to build something together. So if she is not putting the effort to build with you.

5) Never chase a girl.
Anything u chase is probably running away from you. You will only end up looking despirate. Or maybe u get her but you will continue to chase her in a relationship till u loose ur self value. The woman chases the man she actually wants and that's probably not you.

6) Always talk to many girls. When u give a woman ur divided attention during the talking stage.. It keeps ur possible desperation in check. U are not to eager for her affection. Women respond more positively to men who don't put them on a pedostal. You can get rid of the other women when u get serious with her.

[WhiteBoyChill]

In terms of what you said its only really the third thing that applies to me

[PecosTheTraveller]

You mean the part about focusing on what makes u attractive rather than what makes u likeable?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah bro. I was just raised by my parents to be a good and decent person. Not to say I don’t try to dress nicely in public tho

[PecosTheTraveller]

I guess that's how we were raised but that's just the basics.
You must learn to stand out cos u are only more or less attractive than the other guys she is in contact with or come across everyday and on social media.

The gym is ur friend, ur hair cut, take care of ur hair, skin, grow ur beard, smell good. Show urself some love in this aspects.
Be knowledgeable, travel, do things, be handy and learn new skills. Have a touch of traditional masculinity.. Travel and new experiences always make for good conversations.
Sex game. When you can naturally give a woman something that no one else or only few people has given her, she looses her mind. A lot of ur flaws maybe overlooked even lol.
Now you are not gonna be able to satisfy every woman cos every woman is different and you will be sexually incompatible with some
women and u will be compatible with others. U don't need a gigantic dick. A few women prefer little dicks, a lot of women prefer average others big. So let no woman shake ur confidence in that department.
Only thing u can work on is lasting longer and understanding that each partner is different and trying to understand their needs in the bed room without compromising urs.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’ve never even had sex before bro

[PecosTheTraveller]

But you are 21? Why haven't u had sex yet?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Waiting for marriage

[PecosTheTraveller]

Because of religion or what? Why are u waiting for marriage? Would ur future partner also have to be a virgin?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Because its God’s desire. And yes

[12zooleud]

Because women in my opinion are naturally nurturing, and sometimes subconsciously want to help and or change a man, and unfortunately an asshole will always be an asshole

[Anonymous]

I don't think a lot young men and women talk to each other about what they want, they just react to whatever feels good in the moment. Not all of course, but too often they seem driven by the other person being attractive, and showing interest. It used to be assumed if someone showed interest that it meant they wanted a relationship but over the years it seems to be common for them to just be hooking up. I'm not sure every guy or girl is honest that it is just hooking up for them. Or maybe they lie about it, who knows. I don't think it's just women though that choose the worst guys, I know plenty of men that say they've chosen the worst women to be with too.

[LazerBean]

The same reason men date trashy women and then wonder why she's so trashy.

[WhiteBoyChill]

And why’s that? I can’t understand it either

[Anonymous]

Most guys are bad, so the chances of finding yourself involved with one is very high.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don't know. Most women are pretty bad too

[WhiteBoyChill]

Nm I read that wrong. Anyway, I’m friends with plenty of awesome guys but the women never have any interest in them