So I showed my friend this guy I really like and?

[Anonymous]

She added him on instagram from the handle on the picture I had shown her without me knowing, and hit him up on dm a week later. When I saw she had suddenly started following him, her excuse was she was "hitting him up to test him to see if he is good for me." She keeps liking his photos as well even though me and him were already talking. She already has a boyfriend, who is my ex. Should I drop her? How should I drop her

[Ευδεμονια]

I think personally she’s something like trying to steal everything from you. Does she seem envious of your achievements or your relationships? Does she judge often what you do and people you meet?

I sincerely think she has a basic envy or thinks of a competition between you two, I think a similar person is dangerous to have as a friend.

If I was you, I would consider dropping her by letting her less involved in your things and avoiding her just a bit more everyday.

[Asker]

Thank u. Tbh she has come across as a bit envious in the past. She used to tell me she thinks I'm "perfect" and that she's "fat." But then other times, she puts down my looks or my personality and tries to embarrass me in front of other people. And I feel she's competing with me, too. What really annoys me is that she keeps lying to me and being sneaky about it. Like why try to be my friend if you want to treat me like that?

I've already made the decision to start talking to her less, thanks. She keeps reaching out and I keep it very short and barely reply. I kinda feel bad for some reason, but I feel if I tell her why I don't want to be friends anymore she will get even nastier. I don't want the drama.

[Ευδεμονια]

She’s really an envious person, she’s living on your shade trying every mean to demolish you and to take your place. She’s a toxic person, she isn’t a real friend.
Sincerely, you don’t have to feel bad to push her off from your life, she would try to emotionally blackmail you. I think she’s an unscrupulous person that would try every mean. Sure a dialogue is nearly impossible, she would negate everything and maybe getting nastier, like you said.

I’m sorry if you feel some affection towards her, but sometimes is better losing some persons than keeping them around.

[Guy13]

Wow…she likes taking what you think should be yours…

[Alwayreckles93]

She's not a real friend. I mean her dating your ex just says everything about her. Cutt her off get her out of your life if possible. You don't need toxic people.

[Biancam13]

She is NOT your friend sis. She's snakey and jealous. Friends like that hang around you to see what they can get from you, not because they actually like u

[Asker]

Yeah I don't think she likes me either. I've always felt she resents me secretly I don't know why. It used to give me the creeps tbh

[Biancam13]

Dump her!

[Lyndsielee666]

Yikes. She’s definitely not your friend