Should I tell my guy friend I like him?

[lovergirl1988]

well I like my guy friend and people say that he likes me and I think he does too so should I tell him I like him

[Just_Jenna]

I'd wait and make him say it first. You don't want to be the aggressor or the pursuer... you want HIM to chase YOU. I'd flirt, make your feelings obvious by your actions, but don't come out and say it until AFTER he does. The worst mistake a woman can make is not letting the guy take the lead.

You should read this book called The Rules -- it's the bible of relationships. I used to be horrified by the things they said but I also realised I was always unhappy in my relationships. Once I became a Rules girl, I found a warm and fulfilling relationship with a man who truly appreciates me.

Anyway, good luck and have fun, whatever you choose to do.

[Anonymous]

I had the exact same situation. People would even cite specific situations as proof he loved me. Then I told him I liked him and he said that he only liked me as a friend and that he felt bad that he led me on. It ruined our friendship. Its been a few months, and its just now starting to get better, but its still not the same.

Nevertheless, my advice is to tell him. I don't regret telling him even though it broke my heart. If I didn't, I'd still be pining over him for nothing and couldn't move on. If you think about it, you mostly don't regret the things you do, but rather the things that you don't do.

[virgo92]

I say go for it. The worse that could happen is he'll say that he doesn't feel the same. But if your friends you don't have to worry about him being mean about it. You have to be able to picture and handle the different outcomes before you tell him. But by the sounds of it you have a really good chance and he'll be overjoyed you told him. You can also show it in the way you act around him such as subtle flirting and eventually he'll get the idea. Or just boost yourself up with confidence and tell him how you feel. Hope it all works out for the best! :)

[echen89]

I don't think that would hurt. Some guys wait for the girl to indicate interest and sometimes even if you flirt with them may not get the hint. Oh and tell it to him straight to his face and not through your girlfriends. But don't do it out of the blue and don't ask him if he likes you, some guys may deny it because its awkward to say yes. Why don't you ask him if he would like to watch a movie with you at ur house and then you can hold hands, lean ur head against or wtrvr. I doubt hell reject that if he likes you. You should pick a scary movie so you hav an excuse to do that.lol.

[stalinhornsby]

No, just go out for coffee and b'tch and complain about the normal stuff. And then tell him how much you appreciate having coffee with him. Wait till you love him to say so; your friends will let him know you like him because they are the judge of those things. :)

[coferchikk]

I think you should totally tell him. I told my crush and I was so scared then he said he liked me too and now were going out! Confidence is key! If you look like its no big deal than he with think the same and he might say the same back! Good luck

[hopelessly]

ok, in college, ouch! well, if you REALLY do then yes, but, look at some warnings:

make sure he has got no girlfriend

dont make it awkward

try to see how he feels about u

hope it helps. mazel tov

[venus11]

Definately tell him how you feel. When I told my guy friend that I liked him I felt so much better putting it all out there.

[burn27]

Yes! Never hid that stuff!

[workman22]

Absolutely!

There are no rules to dating anymore.

[Da-One-n-Only-]

yes..do it!

[amatuer_zombie]

yes go ahead

[chiefnavarro]

yes